1 00:00:50,025 --> 00:00:51,526 We are gathered here today 2 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:54,729 on Jack and Rebecca's 40th wedding anniversary 3 00:00:54,763 --> 00:00:57,337 to witness a renewal of their vows. 4 00:00:59,601 --> 00:01:04,063 synced and corrected by susinz *www.addic7ed.com* 5 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,087 I hope you're enjoying your last day as my fiancée, 6 00:01:13,112 --> 00:01:14,937 because by this time tomorrow, 7 00:01:14,971 --> 00:01:16,876 you're gonna be my straight-up wife. 8 00:01:19,101 --> 00:01:20,602 Uh, you doing okay? 9 00:01:20,889 --> 00:01:22,704 Of course. Yeah... why? 10 00:01:22,729 --> 00:01:24,087 Oh, no reason. 11 00:01:24,180 --> 00:01:25,790 You know, just doing this whole big wedding thing 12 00:01:25,815 --> 00:01:27,493 without your dad's gonna be hard, and we're here 13 00:01:27,518 --> 00:01:29,626 at the family cabin, which is probably bringing up 14 00:01:29,651 --> 00:01:31,852 a lot of memories... please don't Runaway Bride me. 15 00:01:32,689 --> 00:01:34,954 - Please don't Runaway Bride... - Toby. I would never. 16 00:01:36,483 --> 00:01:37,571 But will you come with me? 17 00:01:37,596 --> 00:01:39,275 - I have a surprise for you. - Ooh. 18 00:01:39,300 --> 00:01:41,001 - Uh-huh. - I like surprises. 19 00:01:44,629 --> 00:01:45,868 This is for you. 20 00:01:48,423 --> 00:01:49,602 Oh, look. 21 00:01:49,941 --> 00:01:51,540 It's a used bow tie. 22 00:01:51,567 --> 00:01:53,902 Oh, not just any used bow tie. 23 00:01:54,259 --> 00:01:55,860 This was worn by Leslie Nielsen 24 00:01:55,894 --> 00:01:57,759 in Naked Gun 33 1/3: Final Insult. 25 00:01:57,831 --> 00:02:00,969 - So. - Shut your freaking face. 26 00:02:01,305 --> 00:02:02,733 Leslie Nielsen wore this? 27 00:02:02,768 --> 00:02:03,790 Yeah. 28 00:02:03,815 --> 00:02:05,344 I just wanted to thank you. 29 00:02:05,369 --> 00:02:09,798 You've gone out of your way to make this my dream wedding. 30 00:02:10,524 --> 00:02:13,837 You know, just one beautiful day at my favorite place. 31 00:02:13,862 --> 00:02:16,256 And I know that my choices are kind of... 32 00:02:16,281 --> 00:02:17,321 they're weird. 33 00:02:17,469 --> 00:02:19,516 I know it's not normal to have my dad's urn 34 00:02:19,541 --> 00:02:20,868 next to our guestbook. 35 00:02:21,126 --> 00:02:23,266 It's a fun twist on the sign-in station. 36 00:02:23,291 --> 00:02:25,446 Okay, and to have his Daytona Beach T-shirt 37 00:02:25,471 --> 00:02:26,477 as my something old. 38 00:02:26,502 --> 00:02:28,516 - It's weird, and I know. - Listen, if my boo comes 39 00:02:28,541 --> 00:02:30,852 with baggage, I'm paying the handling fee. 40 00:02:30,940 --> 00:02:33,477 - Mm, I love your airline metaphors. - Well, that's good, 41 00:02:33,502 --> 00:02:35,259 - 'cause I'm cleared for takeoff. - Oh... 42 00:02:35,313 --> 00:02:36,704 - Yes. Everyone. Okay? - Aw, damn it. 43 00:02:36,729 --> 00:02:38,821 Everyone gets a Ka-Toby wine opener, 44 00:02:38,846 --> 00:02:40,618 they get a bottle of champagne and they get 45 00:02:40,643 --> 00:02:42,678 a scented candle, now, why are you just now starting 46 00:02:42,703 --> 00:02:44,665 with the gift bags? No, no, no. Hold on, hold on. 47 00:02:44,690 --> 00:02:46,555 Don't justify it, fix it. 48 00:02:47,896 --> 00:02:50,290 Okay. Yeah, I'll see you tonight, Randall. Okay. 49 00:02:52,025 --> 00:02:53,282 - Wow. - No, it's fine. 50 00:02:53,301 --> 00:02:55,135 It's fine. Don't worry about it. Randall and I, we have 51 00:02:55,169 --> 00:02:57,476 this whole, uh, wedding planner thing all figured out. 52 00:02:57,501 --> 00:02:59,305 You do not have to lift a finger. 53 00:03:00,134 --> 00:03:02,269 Toby, you should be getting to the airport, all right? 54 00:03:02,303 --> 00:03:03,462 - Your mom gets in at 5:28, - Oh, yeah. 55 00:03:03,487 --> 00:03:05,821 - your dad gets in at 5:46. - Yeah, okay, okay, okay. 56 00:03:05,846 --> 00:03:07,899 T-this car ride is gonna be a nightmare, by the way. 57 00:03:07,924 --> 00:03:10,305 My-my parents, whenever they're together, all they do is fight. 58 00:03:10,330 --> 00:03:13,540 My dad's constantly pressuring my mom to marry her boyfriend. 59 00:03:14,540 --> 00:03:15,766 If she marries Monty, 60 00:03:15,791 --> 00:03:17,518 then my dad doesn't have to pay alimony anymore. 61 00:03:17,543 --> 00:03:19,040 - It's a whole thing. - Ah. 62 00:03:20,876 --> 00:03:22,188 Okay, I think he wants you to go, babe. 63 00:03:22,213 --> 00:03:23,376 - I think he wants me to leave. - Yeah. 64 00:03:23,401 --> 00:03:25,517 All right, well, I'll see you later. Mwah. 65 00:03:25,551 --> 00:03:28,079 I'll see you tomorrow, at the end of the aisle. 66 00:03:28,104 --> 00:03:29,266 Thanks for this. 67 00:03:29,945 --> 00:03:31,079 Be safe. 68 00:03:37,306 --> 00:03:39,040 Uh, I'm gonna go check on these caterers. 69 00:03:39,065 --> 00:03:40,618 Some of these clowns wouldn't know an amuse-bouche 70 00:03:40,643 --> 00:03:41,759 if it bit them on the ass. 71 00:03:41,909 --> 00:03:43,149 Hey, Kev? 72 00:03:43,850 --> 00:03:45,150 - Yeah. - Do you think 73 00:03:45,175 --> 00:03:46,743 that, like, Dad would've been okay... 74 00:03:47,484 --> 00:03:49,243 you know, us having it here? 75 00:03:50,471 --> 00:03:51,634 At the cabin? 76 00:03:52,084 --> 00:03:53,126 Yeah. 77 00:03:53,710 --> 00:03:54,930 Dad would've loved it. 78 00:04:07,799 --> 00:04:10,235 Hey, babe. You about ready to head up to the cabin? 79 00:04:10,260 --> 00:04:11,376 Almost done. 80 00:04:11,580 --> 00:04:13,907 Going as fast as I can. 81 00:04:14,833 --> 00:04:16,540 Got two bottles in one bag. 82 00:04:16,565 --> 00:04:18,188 Get your head out of your ass, Pearson. 83 00:04:18,614 --> 00:04:19,748 You okay? 84 00:04:20,009 --> 00:04:22,407 Just scrambling to get this done for Kate. 85 00:04:22,763 --> 00:04:24,368 Things have been a little hectic around here. 86 00:04:24,393 --> 00:04:25,688 Haven't had much time. 87 00:04:26,126 --> 00:04:27,399 Hey, Dej. 88 00:04:27,424 --> 00:04:29,149 You excited about this weekend? 89 00:04:30,004 --> 00:04:31,954 I can't wait for you to meet my cousin Zoe. 90 00:04:31,969 --> 00:04:34,430 She's gonna take Kate and Toby's wedding photos. 91 00:04:34,579 --> 00:04:35,641 Yeah, she's the cool one. 92 00:04:35,666 --> 00:04:37,340 In my family, she's the cool one. 93 00:04:37,375 --> 00:04:39,829 Can you believe that I'm not the cool one in my fa... Okay. 94 00:04:39,863 --> 00:04:41,287 Hey, are you all packed? We're gonna be leaving 95 00:04:41,312 --> 00:04:42,485 as soon as I finish with these bags. 96 00:04:42,510 --> 00:04:43,626 I can't believe we're going 97 00:04:43,651 --> 00:04:45,462 to some dumbass wedding in the woods. 98 00:04:48,252 --> 00:04:49,540 Man, she's mean. 99 00:04:50,009 --> 00:04:51,485 I miss Deja Classic. 100 00:04:52,227 --> 00:04:53,274 No. 101 00:04:53,299 --> 00:04:54,800 Deja Classic was when we first met her, 102 00:04:54,825 --> 00:04:56,430 and she was all quiet and sullen. 103 00:04:56,455 --> 00:05:00,094 I miss Deja 2.0, when she was all used to us and sweet, 104 00:05:00,119 --> 00:05:01,594 and she told me all my jokes were corny, 105 00:05:01,619 --> 00:05:02,821 but secretly, she liked them. 106 00:05:02,906 --> 00:05:06,808 I feel like the moment she heard her mom say to the judge 107 00:05:06,833 --> 00:05:09,360 that she wanted to terminate all parental rights, 108 00:05:09,385 --> 00:05:10,759 something switched in her. 109 00:05:10,917 --> 00:05:12,009 Yep. 110 00:05:12,034 --> 00:05:14,415 Okay. Let's grab the girls and head out. 111 00:05:17,231 --> 00:05:18,454 Uh, wait. Wait. 112 00:05:19,703 --> 00:05:21,048 Can we just do our thing? 113 00:05:21,423 --> 00:05:22,957 Where we say all the bad things 114 00:05:22,991 --> 00:05:24,999 that we're thinking; no judgment, no censorship? 115 00:05:25,024 --> 00:05:26,446 You want to play worst-case scenario now? 116 00:05:26,471 --> 00:05:28,126 I just got to get it out of my system. 117 00:05:28,493 --> 00:05:29,579 All right, let's do it. 118 00:05:31,688 --> 00:05:34,251 Deja never turns this around and ends up in jail. Go. 119 00:05:34,622 --> 00:05:36,516 She might kill us both in our sleep. Go. 120 00:05:36,794 --> 00:05:39,555 She might kill us both not in our sleep. Go. 121 00:05:39,679 --> 00:05:42,247 She'll make Tess resent us and end up on the pole. Go. 122 00:05:42,790 --> 00:05:44,954 Wait, Tess will resent us, and Deja will end up on the pole? 123 00:05:44,979 --> 00:05:47,079 Or Tess will resent us, and also be the one who ends up 124 00:05:47,104 --> 00:05:48,634 - on the pole? - Both on the pole. 125 00:05:48,766 --> 00:05:49,900 Damn. 126 00:05:50,876 --> 00:05:52,204 Out of your system now? 127 00:05:52,673 --> 00:05:53,719 Yeah. 128 00:05:54,456 --> 00:05:55,782 - Okay. - Yeah, thanks. 129 00:05:56,641 --> 00:05:58,313 Oh. That's really pretty. 130 00:05:58,554 --> 00:06:00,696 Mm. Nah. 131 00:06:01,282 --> 00:06:03,563 It's just... feels a little flashy. 132 00:06:03,588 --> 00:06:05,938 I just-I don't want to do anything to make Kate feel 133 00:06:05,963 --> 00:06:08,165 like I'm gonna make tomorrow about me. 134 00:06:08,190 --> 00:06:10,313 Wha... Now, why would she think that? 135 00:06:11,219 --> 00:06:15,016 Because I put her on edge by the things I do or say 136 00:06:15,041 --> 00:06:18,501 or don't say or... the way I breathe. 137 00:06:20,787 --> 00:06:22,532 But tomorrow's her wedding day, 138 00:06:22,934 --> 00:06:26,102 and I just feel like I am this walking reminder of Jack. 139 00:06:26,661 --> 00:06:28,305 You know, he's the one that she lost, 140 00:06:28,330 --> 00:06:31,098 and I'm the one that she got stuck with. 141 00:06:31,438 --> 00:06:34,032 Well, I don't think that's true. 142 00:06:34,733 --> 00:06:37,844 And if it helps, just remember: at least you're not me. 143 00:06:39,207 --> 00:06:40,704 What's that supposed to mean? 144 00:06:40,729 --> 00:06:42,079 - What's that supposed to mean? - Yeah. 145 00:06:42,104 --> 00:06:44,798 Well, if anyone is a walking reminder of Jack, it's me. 146 00:06:45,299 --> 00:06:46,469 Forget about what you're wearing. 147 00:06:46,494 --> 00:06:48,266 If I could dress in all brown tomorrow 148 00:06:48,291 --> 00:06:49,423 and pretend to be a tree, I would. 149 00:06:49,704 --> 00:06:51,471 - Stop. - Just throw acorns at people. 150 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:53,258 Miguel. 151 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:03,571 Hey, bud. What's up, man? 152 00:07:03,923 --> 00:07:05,149 Welcome to wedding central. 153 00:07:05,736 --> 00:07:07,477 Where is everybody? Where's Beth, the girls? 154 00:07:07,608 --> 00:07:08,875 I dropped them at the hotel. 155 00:07:09,088 --> 00:07:10,118 It was a rough car ride. 156 00:07:10,143 --> 00:07:11,508 - Really? Deja? - Yeah. 157 00:07:11,954 --> 00:07:12,985 She's belligerent. 158 00:07:13,010 --> 00:07:14,410 It's like I'm raising Russell Crowe. 159 00:07:14,435 --> 00:07:15,414 Kevin? 160 00:07:15,479 --> 00:07:17,258 - Kevin! - Uh-oh. 161 00:07:21,258 --> 00:07:22,500 No. No. 162 00:07:22,525 --> 00:07:23,859 No. No, no, no, no, no. 163 00:07:24,088 --> 00:07:25,618 - Hey. - What's up? 164 00:07:25,892 --> 00:07:28,594 - Um, hey, Randall. - Okay, sis, what's up? 165 00:07:28,619 --> 00:07:29,786 - Oh, my God, oh, my God. - You all right? 166 00:07:30,134 --> 00:07:32,352 Um, I can't find Dad's Daytona T-shirt. 167 00:07:32,377 --> 00:07:33,524 It was gonna be my something old, 168 00:07:33,549 --> 00:07:34,571 and I was gonna pin it in my dress. 169 00:07:34,596 --> 00:07:36,330 - Aw. - Wow, that's really, uh... 170 00:07:36,586 --> 00:07:40,063 - Weird? I know I am weird, Randall! - Ah, no, no, no. 171 00:07:40,088 --> 00:07:41,477 - "Unique." I was gonna say "unique." - Hold up. Wait, wa... 172 00:07:41,502 --> 00:07:42,938 - Was what I thought. - Kate. Kate. 173 00:07:43,249 --> 00:07:45,211 - What if Toby never packed it? - You know what we're gonna do? 174 00:07:45,236 --> 00:07:46,907 - Just call Toby. We're gonna call Toby. - Yeah. We... 175 00:07:46,932 --> 00:07:48,313 - It's a quick phone call. Quick fix. - Yeah, yeah. 176 00:07:48,338 --> 00:07:49,664 - We'll... - Do not... 177 00:07:50,412 --> 00:07:51,961 - tell him that I'm freaking out. - Who's freaking out? 178 00:07:51,986 --> 00:07:54,008 - No. - I do not want him to worry about me. 179 00:07:54,033 --> 00:07:55,336 It's a quick phone call. Yeah. 180 00:07:57,290 --> 00:07:59,562 I'm just saying, you two have been dating for a while 181 00:07:59,587 --> 00:08:02,218 now, so why don't you just marry the poor bastard already? 182 00:08:02,243 --> 00:08:04,241 As I told you before, Alan, 183 00:08:04,266 --> 00:08:06,828 - Monty and I are taking it slow. - Yeah, you mean 184 00:08:06,853 --> 00:08:09,213 like the way you're slowly draining my retirement fund 185 00:08:09,238 --> 00:08:11,399 - with those alimony payments. - Okay, guys, it's, uh, 186 00:08:11,424 --> 00:08:13,719 it's my wedding weekend, so can we go 48 hours 187 00:08:13,744 --> 00:08:15,094 without talking about alimony? 188 00:08:15,344 --> 00:08:16,750 Hey, look, it's Kevin. 189 00:08:16,775 --> 00:08:18,602 - Hey, Kev. - Toby. 190 00:08:18,627 --> 00:08:20,071 - 'Sup? - 'Sup? 191 00:08:20,950 --> 00:08:22,946 I got Randall here. Randall wants to say 'sup. 192 00:08:24,418 --> 00:08:26,063 - 'Sup. - 'Sup. 193 00:08:26,180 --> 00:08:27,680 We were just calling, we wanted to know 194 00:08:27,705 --> 00:08:28,852 if you could remember where you packed 195 00:08:28,877 --> 00:08:30,391 our dad's Daytona T-shirt. 196 00:08:32,696 --> 00:08:34,703 Oh, my God, did I forget to pack the T-shirt? 197 00:08:34,728 --> 00:08:37,383 I totally forgot to pack the T-shirt. 198 00:08:37,741 --> 00:08:38,938 Uh, uh, okay, 199 00:08:38,963 --> 00:08:41,102 um, I can figure out a way to get it. Uh, uh... 200 00:08:41,127 --> 00:08:42,836 - There's still time. - It's fine. Everything's fine. 201 00:08:42,861 --> 00:08:44,680 - Everything is great, um... - Really? 202 00:08:44,945 --> 00:08:46,453 Yeah, really. Um... 203 00:08:47,383 --> 00:08:48,571 ...it's no biggie. 204 00:08:49,995 --> 00:08:52,813 - Ciao. - Uh, uh... okay, bye. 205 00:08:57,352 --> 00:08:59,618 Hey, it sounds like it's just a shirt, right? 206 00:08:59,643 --> 00:09:01,821 Yeah, well, it's not just a shirt, Ma. 207 00:09:06,091 --> 00:09:08,711 Okay. We'll round up anything of Dad's we can find, 208 00:09:08,736 --> 00:09:10,813 and then, tomorrow morning, you'll take your pick. 209 00:09:10,909 --> 00:09:12,000 Okay? 210 00:09:13,048 --> 00:09:14,071 Kate. 211 00:09:14,096 --> 00:09:15,157 It's a T-shirt. 212 00:09:15,427 --> 00:09:16,821 We can roll with this, right? 213 00:09:17,544 --> 00:09:19,422 He was more than a T-shirt. 214 00:09:20,311 --> 00:09:21,344 Okay? 215 00:09:22,590 --> 00:09:23,890 - Okay. - Okay. 216 00:09:24,721 --> 00:09:26,078 Okay, so then, uh, 217 00:09:26,103 --> 00:09:27,993 you just put your PJs on, all right? 218 00:09:28,432 --> 00:09:30,289 Curl up with your favorite Sandra Bullock movie, 219 00:09:30,314 --> 00:09:32,282 - because guess what. - Hmm? 220 00:09:32,307 --> 00:09:33,942 - Someone's getting married tomorrow. - Yeah. 221 00:09:33,967 --> 00:09:34,977 - Who? - Right? 222 00:09:35,002 --> 00:09:36,243 Who's getting married tomorrow? 223 00:09:36,268 --> 00:09:37,547 - Ah. - All right. 224 00:09:37,572 --> 00:09:38,618 Mm. 225 00:09:39,119 --> 00:09:40,452 - All right. - Okay. 226 00:09:40,477 --> 00:09:42,328 One of the romantic ones. Not the one where 227 00:09:42,353 --> 00:09:44,602 they're trying to kill her through the Internet. Spooky. 228 00:09:52,493 --> 00:09:54,039 So some of you may not know this 229 00:09:54,056 --> 00:09:56,827 but for the 22 years that I worked for Lundy Builders, 230 00:09:56,852 --> 00:10:01,381 my wife put a folded note packed into my briefcase every day. 231 00:10:02,782 --> 00:10:05,132 The highlight of my day in the office 232 00:10:05,649 --> 00:10:07,975 was opening one of those little scraps of paper. 233 00:10:08,672 --> 00:10:11,743 Now, when Rebecca and I started Big Three Homes, 234 00:10:12,391 --> 00:10:14,735 she stopped writing the lunch notes. 235 00:10:15,688 --> 00:10:17,803 But I was okay with that. 236 00:10:17,828 --> 00:10:23,297 I had the highlight of my day right there, sitting by my side. 237 00:10:24,081 --> 00:10:25,266 Every day. 238 00:10:28,203 --> 00:10:29,352 Uh-huh. 239 00:10:29,891 --> 00:10:32,193 All right, we got nine hours until I-do's, people. 240 00:10:32,227 --> 00:10:34,662 Little less texting, a lot more tenting. 241 00:10:36,962 --> 00:10:38,095 I was. 242 00:10:38,352 --> 00:10:39,703 All right, ladies, let's go. 243 00:10:39,728 --> 00:10:41,663 Come on, ladies. 244 00:10:45,782 --> 00:10:47,108 This place is a dump. 245 00:10:48,469 --> 00:10:49,696 Aunt Zoe! 246 00:10:50,002 --> 00:10:52,039 Hey, T-bone. Hey, A-frame. 247 00:10:52,719 --> 00:10:54,016 - You look so good. - Look at you! 248 00:10:54,041 --> 00:10:55,650 Oh, you look great. How are you? 249 00:10:55,675 --> 00:10:57,436 - Thank you. - Hey, Zoe. 250 00:10:57,461 --> 00:10:58,703 - Hey! - How you doing? 251 00:10:58,728 --> 00:11:00,508 - I'm good. - Good. Girls, 252 00:11:00,533 --> 00:11:02,672 will you take your dresses inside for me, please. 253 00:11:02,697 --> 00:11:03,455 Yes. 254 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:05,571 Thank you very much. Appreciate it. 255 00:11:05,814 --> 00:11:08,539 Uh, I'm gonna go see if Kevin needs anything. 256 00:11:08,564 --> 00:11:10,172 I love you. Mwah. 257 00:11:12,566 --> 00:11:15,391 So, you're just gonna, like, look 21 forever? 258 00:11:15,441 --> 00:11:17,196 - That's your thing? - Look who's talking. 259 00:11:17,609 --> 00:11:20,430 You got no right to still have that body after two kids. 260 00:11:25,624 --> 00:11:27,625 - Oh, you good? - Oh, I'm good. 261 00:11:27,650 --> 00:11:30,016 Yeah? I don't have to come to Chicago and whup nobody's ass? 262 00:11:30,041 --> 00:11:31,942 - Mm, not this week. - Okay. 263 00:11:32,953 --> 00:11:34,698 Thank you for doing this wedding, lady. 264 00:11:34,805 --> 00:11:37,118 Hey, any family of yours is mine, right? 265 00:11:38,089 --> 00:11:39,782 This is why I love you. 266 00:11:41,774 --> 00:11:43,000 Is that her? 267 00:11:43,227 --> 00:11:45,219 Mm-hmm. I'll tell you all about it. 268 00:11:45,586 --> 00:11:47,289 - Hopefully, over champagne. - Mm. 269 00:11:47,314 --> 00:11:49,508 - Lots of champagne. - Mm-mm. 270 00:11:51,821 --> 00:11:53,749 All right, here it is, everything old of Dad's 271 00:11:53,774 --> 00:11:56,157 I could find around the cabin to replace the T-shirt. 272 00:11:56,922 --> 00:11:58,422 So you want her to walk down the aisle 273 00:11:58,447 --> 00:11:59,930 with our old baseball bat. 274 00:12:01,461 --> 00:12:02,532 That's romantic. 275 00:12:02,985 --> 00:12:04,711 Yeah, you're right... this is a disaster. 276 00:12:04,736 --> 00:12:06,391 A total disaster, man. How are we gonna do... 277 00:12:06,416 --> 00:12:09,102 - Hey! Look, it's the bride! - Hey. 278 00:12:09,172 --> 00:12:11,139 Uh, so we rounded up a few 279 00:12:11,164 --> 00:12:12,758 - "something old" options for you - Yeah. 280 00:12:12,783 --> 00:12:13,961 to replace the T-shirt. What do you think? 281 00:12:13,986 --> 00:12:15,047 - Terrific options. - Mm-hmm. 282 00:12:15,072 --> 00:12:17,250 Thank you. But I don't need any of this stuff. 283 00:12:17,275 --> 00:12:18,868 - I have a new plan. - What do you mean, new plan? 284 00:12:18,893 --> 00:12:20,044 What... Where are you going? 285 00:12:20,219 --> 00:12:22,219 You know, Mom's gonna be here with the bridesmaids, they're gonna do 286 00:12:22,244 --> 00:12:23,352 hair and makeup any minute now. 287 00:12:23,377 --> 00:12:26,141 - Okay. I'll be back soon. - Hello, hello. 288 00:12:26,472 --> 00:12:27,711 - Hey. - Bug! 289 00:12:28,299 --> 00:12:30,641 Happy wedding day, sweetheart. 290 00:12:30,666 --> 00:12:31,922 I'm just running an errand. 291 00:12:32,272 --> 00:12:34,438 Oh. Can somebody not run the errand for you? 292 00:12:34,463 --> 00:12:35,602 I'll be back. 293 00:12:37,421 --> 00:12:38,758 Did I say something wrong? 294 00:12:38,868 --> 00:12:40,453 You said, "Happy wedding day, Bug." 295 00:12:40,478 --> 00:12:42,680 It's wedding day, bitches! 296 00:12:43,608 --> 00:12:45,409 Oh, I thought this room would be, like, 297 00:12:45,434 --> 00:12:46,727 - filled with women. - No. 298 00:12:48,237 --> 00:12:49,352 Where is Kate? 299 00:13:06,369 --> 00:13:08,305 Hey! Welcome to Artisanal Scoops. 300 00:13:08,357 --> 00:13:09,774 Would you like a sample of our new flavor? 301 00:13:09,799 --> 00:13:11,008 It's lavender balsamic. 302 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:12,907 Um, no. Thanks. 303 00:13:13,493 --> 00:13:15,266 Uh, I used to come here with my dad. 304 00:13:15,345 --> 00:13:17,047 I think it was called Frenchie's back then, or... 305 00:13:17,072 --> 00:13:19,657 Oh, yeah. They sold the place a couple years ago. 306 00:13:21,547 --> 00:13:23,039 Oh. Any chance you guys are still making 307 00:13:23,064 --> 00:13:24,344 that banana pudding flavor? 308 00:13:24,453 --> 00:13:25,688 No. I'm sorry. 309 00:13:28,008 --> 00:13:29,243 It was my dad's favorite. 310 00:13:29,268 --> 00:13:30,303 I was gonna buy it today 311 00:13:30,328 --> 00:13:32,149 to serve with the cake at my wedding. 312 00:13:33,028 --> 00:13:34,914 Not exactly something old, but 313 00:13:35,287 --> 00:13:36,594 an old tradition. 314 00:13:38,229 --> 00:13:39,899 Hey, we do have banana coconut. 315 00:13:39,969 --> 00:13:41,672 It's really good. It's one of my favorites. 316 00:13:42,369 --> 00:13:43,766 No. Thanks. 317 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:46,696 It just wouldn't... 318 00:13:46,990 --> 00:13:48,196 mean anything. 319 00:13:49,511 --> 00:13:50,797 But thanks. 320 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:10,258 So, long before Jack and I had our own company, 321 00:14:10,634 --> 00:14:12,836 and long before the Big Three were around, 322 00:14:13,352 --> 00:14:15,038 I was singing 323 00:14:15,126 --> 00:14:16,289 in a bar... 324 00:14:16,921 --> 00:14:18,391 when a man walked in. 325 00:14:29,587 --> 00:14:33,555 ? I'm bein' followed by a moonshadow ? 326 00:14:33,836 --> 00:14:37,060 ? Moonshadow, moonshadow ? 327 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:42,118 ? Leapin' and hoppin' on a moonshadow ? 328 00:14:42,399 --> 00:14:45,664 ? Moonshadow, moonshadow ? 329 00:14:46,470 --> 00:14:50,407 ? And if I ever lose my hands ? 330 00:14:50,999 --> 00:14:54,602 ? Lose my plough, lose my land ? 331 00:14:54,729 --> 00:14:57,485 ? Oh, if I ever lose my hands, oh... ? 332 00:15:00,672 --> 00:15:02,085 Hey-o! 333 00:15:02,750 --> 00:15:03,914 Hey. 334 00:15:04,024 --> 00:15:06,436 - What is going on in here, Randall? - Mm-hmm. 335 00:15:06,461 --> 00:15:08,678 I did not know that Kate hired professional models 336 00:15:08,703 --> 00:15:10,030 to be her bridesmaids. 337 00:15:10,055 --> 00:15:11,928 I think she did, Kev, 'cause this room's 338 00:15:11,962 --> 00:15:14,141 - full of a whole lot of damn. - Yeah, it is. 339 00:15:14,344 --> 00:15:15,828 - What do we got? - Thank you. 340 00:15:15,853 --> 00:15:17,844 - For you. - We brought gifts. For you. 341 00:15:19,399 --> 00:15:22,055 - Don't even try. - Mom? Yeah. 342 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,607 So, uh, I just tried her again, and her phone must be off, 343 00:15:24,642 --> 00:15:26,102 'cause it went straight to voice mail. 344 00:15:26,743 --> 00:15:28,594 - We should go look for her. - Where? 345 00:15:28,914 --> 00:15:31,289 - I have an idea. - Uh... Whoop! 346 00:15:31,749 --> 00:15:34,617 Uh, I'm maid of honor. I should help search. 347 00:15:34,735 --> 00:15:36,619 Maid of honor. Oh. I thought Kate said 348 00:15:36,654 --> 00:15:38,172 she didn't have a maid of honor. 349 00:15:38,500 --> 00:15:40,957 Well, maybe she said that, but she didn't mean it. 350 00:15:44,289 --> 00:15:46,321 - We could... could, you know... - No. 351 00:15:46,346 --> 00:15:47,774 - Really? - Yeah. We're good. 352 00:15:48,219 --> 00:15:49,500 - Thank you. - Thank you. 353 00:15:49,665 --> 00:15:50,852 Okay 354 00:15:52,875 --> 00:15:54,477 - Oh, man. She's crazy. - Yeah, man. 355 00:15:54,502 --> 00:15:55,758 Don't let me sleep with her. 356 00:15:56,509 --> 00:15:59,618 So now we're waiting for the courts to terminate 357 00:15:59,643 --> 00:16:02,278 her mom's parental rights so that we can legally adopt her. 358 00:16:02,625 --> 00:16:06,016 But she has turned into a complete nightmare. 359 00:16:06,158 --> 00:16:08,026 I can barely get a sentence out of her. 360 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:09,602 And I'm pretty sure she's wearing 361 00:16:09,627 --> 00:16:12,000 - that sweatshirt to Kate's wedding. - Yikes. 362 00:16:12,330 --> 00:16:14,907 - Mm. - You want me to try talking to her? 363 00:16:15,953 --> 00:16:17,938 What are you, like, the angry kid whisperer now? 364 00:16:18,718 --> 00:16:20,727 Only 'cause I used to be the angry kid. 365 00:16:26,604 --> 00:16:27,961 Can't believe we missed her. 366 00:16:29,956 --> 00:16:32,399 God, this Nutella chip is insane, huh? 367 00:16:32,424 --> 00:16:33,891 Ridonkulously good. 368 00:16:34,163 --> 00:16:35,375 This is just so good. 369 00:16:38,215 --> 00:16:40,282 - Mm. - Do not drip ice cream in my car. 370 00:16:40,307 --> 00:16:42,428 I'm not. I'm not gonna drip ice cream in the car, okay? It's... 371 00:16:42,453 --> 00:16:44,554 I understand. You love the car. You bought it for cash. 372 00:16:44,735 --> 00:16:45,875 - Thank you. - Where are we going? 373 00:16:45,985 --> 00:16:46,985 No idea. 374 00:16:48,664 --> 00:16:50,193 This is a disaster, Randall. 375 00:16:50,227 --> 00:16:52,469 This is huge. We lost the bride on the wedding day? All right? 376 00:16:52,494 --> 00:16:54,407 That's, like, the number one don't for wedding coordinators. 377 00:16:54,432 --> 00:16:55,516 Yeah. 378 00:16:58,016 --> 00:17:00,203 You know, Beth and I play this game sometimes, 379 00:17:00,743 --> 00:17:02,243 worst-case scenario. 380 00:17:02,399 --> 00:17:05,208 It's where we say all the things that we're afraid of out loud, 381 00:17:05,242 --> 00:17:07,391 and it makes us feel better. You know? 382 00:17:07,555 --> 00:17:09,414 - Yeah. Yeah, I'm down. - Okay. 383 00:17:11,711 --> 00:17:13,116 We never find Kate 384 00:17:13,727 --> 00:17:16,119 and we have to tell Toby that the wedding's off 385 00:17:16,438 --> 00:17:20,102 and he's so shocked that he has a heart attack and dies. 386 00:17:21,477 --> 00:17:24,027 - Jesus, Randall. - That's-that's the game. 387 00:17:24,061 --> 00:17:25,250 - Yeah? - Yeah. 388 00:17:26,344 --> 00:17:28,188 You know, what if he doesn't die, Randall? 389 00:17:28,213 --> 00:17:29,172 Okay. 390 00:17:29,237 --> 00:17:31,758 But, uh... 391 00:17:32,391 --> 00:17:33,883 I mean, he could kick her out of the apartment. 392 00:17:34,635 --> 00:17:35,483 - Yeah? - Yeah. 393 00:17:35,508 --> 00:17:37,382 Now she's forced to find a place to live. 394 00:17:37,407 --> 00:17:38,908 She's forced to move in with me, all right? 395 00:17:38,943 --> 00:17:40,276 It's supposed to be temporary, of course, 396 00:17:40,311 --> 00:17:42,680 - but neither one of us ever find love. - Mm. 397 00:17:42,860 --> 00:17:45,815 Right? We become one of those creepy pairs of twins 398 00:17:45,849 --> 00:17:47,180 that grows old together. 399 00:17:47,602 --> 00:17:49,018 And we're at the grocery store 400 00:17:49,053 --> 00:17:50,727 and people mistake us for a married couple 401 00:17:50,752 --> 00:17:52,722 and we don't even correct 'em anymore because... 402 00:17:52,756 --> 00:17:54,993 I mean, what's the point? 403 00:17:55,259 --> 00:17:56,274 Wow. 404 00:17:56,438 --> 00:17:58,274 - You're really good at this game. - Thank you. 405 00:17:58,299 --> 00:17:59,493 You're welcome. 406 00:18:03,930 --> 00:18:05,664 Hey, what if, after Dad died, 407 00:18:06,969 --> 00:18:09,508 I got so absorbed in my own life, 408 00:18:10,674 --> 00:18:13,430 with school and Beth and the girls, that, um, 409 00:18:14,435 --> 00:18:16,399 I stopped looking out for my sister? 410 00:18:23,094 --> 00:18:24,164 What if... 411 00:18:25,253 --> 00:18:26,352 uh... 412 00:18:28,586 --> 00:18:30,696 what if she spent so much time taking care of me 413 00:18:30,721 --> 00:18:32,375 that she forgot to take care of herself? 414 00:18:34,375 --> 00:18:36,414 And year after year went by and I should've... 415 00:18:38,352 --> 00:18:40,461 recognized and I should've helped her? 416 00:18:42,754 --> 00:18:43,961 I didn't help her. 417 00:18:52,297 --> 00:18:53,750 Randall, I do not feel better. 418 00:18:54,163 --> 00:18:55,445 No. 419 00:19:32,751 --> 00:19:34,125 Not big on weddings? 420 00:19:35,368 --> 00:19:36,618 Me neither, actually. 421 00:19:36,822 --> 00:19:38,625 I just do them to pay the bills, but... 422 00:19:39,297 --> 00:19:40,602 not really my jam. 423 00:19:41,408 --> 00:19:43,211 They're just so in your face, you know? 424 00:19:45,061 --> 00:19:46,429 At least there's cake. 425 00:19:48,899 --> 00:19:51,110 I hope at least Randall does a good toast. 426 00:19:51,672 --> 00:19:53,024 I'm a sucker for a good toast. 427 00:19:53,049 --> 00:19:54,618 Listen, you don't got to talk to me. 428 00:19:55,544 --> 00:19:58,610 Okay? You're Annie and Tess' aunt, not mine. 429 00:19:58,871 --> 00:20:00,274 I'm not theirs either, actually. 430 00:20:01,321 --> 00:20:02,875 Beth is my cousin, 431 00:20:03,625 --> 00:20:05,414 so, technically, that makes... 432 00:20:06,272 --> 00:20:08,157 Tess and Annie my... 433 00:20:08,369 --> 00:20:09,985 first cousins once removed. 434 00:20:11,056 --> 00:20:12,594 But the girls like to call me their aunt, 435 00:20:12,619 --> 00:20:14,633 'cause, Beth, she's like a sister to me. 436 00:20:15,315 --> 00:20:16,789 'Cause her mom raised me. 437 00:20:18,643 --> 00:20:21,883 My mom dumped me in their house 438 00:20:21,908 --> 00:20:23,243 when I was seven or eight. 439 00:20:23,782 --> 00:20:25,149 Said she'd be back in a few weeks. 440 00:20:25,174 --> 00:20:26,493 I know what you're trying to do. 441 00:20:27,982 --> 00:20:29,727 I don't care if my mom left me. 442 00:20:30,071 --> 00:20:32,211 Well, good for you. But I did. 443 00:20:33,122 --> 00:20:35,594 I was so angry, I wanted to take it out on the whole world. 444 00:20:36,978 --> 00:20:38,953 Instead, I took it out on Beth's mom 445 00:20:39,614 --> 00:20:41,969 and on Beth, on her whole family. 446 00:20:43,688 --> 00:20:44,883 You know, somehow, 447 00:20:44,973 --> 00:20:47,118 it was my way of being loyal to my mom. 448 00:20:49,035 --> 00:20:51,164 God, I got real good 449 00:20:51,363 --> 00:20:53,414 making their lives miserable. 450 00:20:59,432 --> 00:21:02,352 Then, one morning, I don't know... 451 00:21:05,371 --> 00:21:06,539 I just forgot. 452 00:21:08,762 --> 00:21:10,141 I forgot to hate 'em. 453 00:21:13,690 --> 00:21:14,977 We were all, um... 454 00:21:15,961 --> 00:21:17,188 sitting at the kitchen table, 455 00:21:17,213 --> 00:21:19,844 and Beth was saying something crazy, 456 00:21:20,035 --> 00:21:21,402 probably about D'Angelo. 457 00:21:23,869 --> 00:21:25,289 And I started laughing. 458 00:21:27,342 --> 00:21:28,657 That was a good day. 459 00:21:32,047 --> 00:21:35,532 The day... when it stopped making sense... 460 00:21:37,370 --> 00:21:39,282 ...hating the people who loved me. 461 00:21:46,532 --> 00:21:48,860 Now, if you'll excuse me, I gotta go... 462 00:21:49,473 --> 00:21:52,680 find some pretty light and photograph the bride's shoes. 463 00:21:54,154 --> 00:21:56,391 Did I mention weddings are not my thing? 464 00:22:03,665 --> 00:22:07,422 My love for you abounds, and a heart attack 465 00:22:07,481 --> 00:22:09,763 and two proposals later... Yeah? Yup. 466 00:22:13,742 --> 00:22:16,575 Hey there. Come on in, parentals. 467 00:22:17,684 --> 00:22:20,036 - Hey, how you doing? - Doing good. 468 00:22:20,061 --> 00:22:22,504 Was up half the night calling Task Rabbits, 469 00:22:22,529 --> 00:22:24,614 trying to convince them to fly Kate's dad's 470 00:22:24,639 --> 00:22:26,817 - T-shirt across the country. - Yeah, we know. 471 00:22:26,977 --> 00:22:28,215 That's why you couldn't have dinner with us. 472 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:29,840 Yeah, in the end, they all said no. 473 00:22:29,865 --> 00:22:33,786 So, apparently they are "not up to the Task" Rabbits. 474 00:22:34,997 --> 00:22:36,664 - Can you help me with this? - Yeah. 475 00:22:38,588 --> 00:22:42,465 Um... your mother and I, we need you to know 476 00:22:42,490 --> 00:22:45,317 that we have concerns about Kate. 477 00:22:46,351 --> 00:22:48,246 Wha... What? Why? Stop. 478 00:22:50,205 --> 00:22:51,442 You barely know her. 479 00:22:52,646 --> 00:22:55,934 Well, it feels like you're constantly 480 00:22:55,959 --> 00:22:58,715 bending over backwards to calm her. 481 00:22:59,298 --> 00:23:02,028 Okay, yeah, it-it's... you guys, it's a wedding. 482 00:23:02,062 --> 00:23:03,543 It's supposed to be a little stressful. 483 00:23:03,568 --> 00:23:05,582 Yeah, but the way you tiptoe around 484 00:23:05,855 --> 00:23:08,661 to keep from setting her off, it's just not normal, honey. 485 00:23:08,881 --> 00:23:11,434 And it feels to us like she... 486 00:23:11,459 --> 00:23:13,645 she might be a little unstable. 487 00:23:13,670 --> 00:23:16,012 Wow. Un-Unstable? 488 00:23:16,180 --> 00:23:19,106 Do-Do you remember when she broke up with you for no reason, 489 00:23:19,131 --> 00:23:21,536 and you had to fly across the country to change her mind? 490 00:23:21,561 --> 00:23:22,918 Okay, that wasn't for no reason. 491 00:23:22,943 --> 00:23:24,051 Look, Toby... 492 00:23:25,166 --> 00:23:27,270 I didn't say anything when you married your first wife. 493 00:23:27,295 --> 00:23:28,465 - Dad... - No! 494 00:23:28,571 --> 00:23:29,805 You need to hear this. 495 00:23:29,901 --> 00:23:31,918 Now, I knew Josie wasn't good for you, 496 00:23:31,943 --> 00:23:33,348 and I held my tongue. 497 00:23:35,096 --> 00:23:37,481 And now you're gonna marry this new woman who... 498 00:23:37,967 --> 00:23:40,262 clearly has issues you can't fix. 499 00:23:40,287 --> 00:23:42,645 And we're worried that you're headed down the same path. 500 00:23:42,670 --> 00:23:44,770 Toby, you remember... you-you remember 501 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,450 what it was like when things fell apart with Josie. 502 00:23:49,676 --> 00:23:52,981 Remember how you stopped going to work, 503 00:23:53,006 --> 00:23:56,153 and how I-I-I found you 504 00:23:56,178 --> 00:23:58,684 in your apartment in the middle of a workday 505 00:23:59,143 --> 00:24:01,848 just with the curtains drawn and just-just... 506 00:24:02,845 --> 00:24:05,536 hiding under the covers like a little kid. 507 00:24:08,781 --> 00:24:10,864 Oh, sweetie, you were severely depressed 508 00:24:10,889 --> 00:24:14,254 for a very long time, and we-we just... 509 00:24:14,279 --> 00:24:15,543 You know what's funny? 510 00:24:16,765 --> 00:24:17,895 Is that my whole life, 511 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,387 I wanted you two to agree on something, 512 00:24:21,612 --> 00:24:23,926 and now you finally do. 513 00:24:25,146 --> 00:24:27,590 Here we are. Y-you-you agree that 514 00:24:27,615 --> 00:24:30,153 I shouldn't marry the woman that I'm madly in love with. 515 00:24:30,178 --> 00:24:32,309 - Toby, son... - No, Dad, listen. 516 00:24:32,334 --> 00:24:34,286 I think you need to hear this. 517 00:24:34,358 --> 00:24:37,371 Kate is not like Josie. All right? 518 00:24:37,396 --> 00:24:38,590 She would never hurt me. 519 00:24:38,615 --> 00:24:39,934 She cares about me. 520 00:24:40,735 --> 00:24:43,496 So, yeah, the wedding may be bringing some stuff up, 521 00:24:43,521 --> 00:24:46,754 but it's not because she's unstable. 522 00:24:46,779 --> 00:24:49,918 Okay, if anyone's unstable, I'm the unstable one, right? 523 00:24:50,970 --> 00:24:54,200 Fine, I'm unstably in love with-with Kate Pearson. 524 00:24:56,331 --> 00:24:58,418 So, here is what's gonna happen. 525 00:24:58,443 --> 00:25:00,614 You two are gonna go downstairs, you're gonna make a decision. 526 00:25:01,807 --> 00:25:04,528 All right, you're gonna decide that-that coming to me like this 527 00:25:04,553 --> 00:25:06,353 was-was a terrible mistake. 528 00:25:06,913 --> 00:25:09,246 All right, and you're gonna show up to my wedding with bells on. 529 00:25:09,271 --> 00:25:10,387 Or you can decide to 530 00:25:10,412 --> 00:25:11,543 go straight on to the airport. 531 00:25:12,075 --> 00:25:13,409 Either way, in about an hour, 532 00:25:13,434 --> 00:25:14,868 I'm gonna be standing out on the front lawn 533 00:25:14,893 --> 00:25:16,794 watching my bride walk down the aisle. 534 00:25:16,819 --> 00:25:19,926 So... okay? Okay. 535 00:25:19,951 --> 00:25:22,192 Uh, please go. 536 00:25:24,450 --> 00:25:27,114 I mean, please help me with this last cuff link, 537 00:25:27,139 --> 00:25:28,262 and then go. 538 00:25:39,027 --> 00:25:40,379 Don't you look b... 539 00:25:41,052 --> 00:25:43,582 - Uh, still no word from Kate? - No. 540 00:25:45,420 --> 00:25:46,614 - Wait. - Oh. 541 00:25:49,120 --> 00:25:50,364 Hi, Bug. 542 00:25:51,238 --> 00:25:53,839 - Hey, Mom. - Where are you? 543 00:25:58,486 --> 00:26:00,200 Okay, I've been having these dreams 544 00:26:00,363 --> 00:26:02,582 every night for the past couple of weeks. 545 00:26:03,154 --> 00:26:05,512 We're at the cabin, at a wedding but... 546 00:26:06,265 --> 00:26:08,473 but it's not me and Toby, Mom. It's... 547 00:26:09,126 --> 00:26:10,411 it's you and Dad, 548 00:26:10,436 --> 00:26:12,106 and you're renewing your vows. 549 00:26:15,218 --> 00:26:17,614 And you're so beautiful and... 550 00:26:18,741 --> 00:26:20,911 and Dad is older and grayer, 551 00:26:20,936 --> 00:26:22,136 but still Dad. 552 00:26:22,410 --> 00:26:23,528 And, 553 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,614 you know, we're just... we're all there. 554 00:26:27,100 --> 00:26:29,645 And we're so happy together. 555 00:26:35,404 --> 00:26:37,496 You know, the way it was supposed to be. 556 00:26:41,419 --> 00:26:42,528 Wow. 557 00:26:43,292 --> 00:26:45,278 That sounds really beautiful, sweetheart. 558 00:26:45,816 --> 00:26:48,239 You know, weddings can be very emotional. 559 00:26:48,264 --> 00:26:50,473 They stir all kinds of things up. 560 00:26:50,941 --> 00:26:53,801 But that's why I'm glad you have Toby now, 561 00:26:54,595 --> 00:26:56,653 to go through these kinds of things with. 562 00:26:58,452 --> 00:27:00,098 What was he doing in the dreams? 563 00:27:00,416 --> 00:27:02,434 Probably making you laugh somehow, huh? 564 00:27:04,668 --> 00:27:06,075 No, he's not in them. 565 00:27:06,504 --> 00:27:07,528 Oh. 566 00:27:09,378 --> 00:27:10,926 Is that bad, that he's not in them? 567 00:27:10,951 --> 00:27:12,293 No, no, no. It's fine. 568 00:27:12,318 --> 00:27:15,418 I just, I figured, because, you know, the wedding. 569 00:27:16,450 --> 00:27:18,496 - You know, you... - I got to go, Mom. 570 00:28:15,439 --> 00:28:18,907 I don't know why Toby hasn't been in the dreams I'm having. 571 00:28:21,659 --> 00:28:24,228 But I do know that he is the perfect guy for me, though. 572 00:28:26,596 --> 00:28:27,642 With... 573 00:28:28,434 --> 00:28:30,196 Without a doubt in my mind, 574 00:28:30,221 --> 00:28:33,556 and you wouldn't... you wouldn't, either. 575 00:28:37,763 --> 00:28:40,398 You remember the carnival that would come to town every summer 576 00:28:40,423 --> 00:28:42,579 with those old roller coasters? 577 00:28:45,149 --> 00:28:47,116 Oh, I loved riding those with you. 578 00:28:48,276 --> 00:28:51,517 I... Feeling so scared, but so safe, all at the same time. 579 00:28:55,198 --> 00:28:57,032 I've been holding onto that feeling 580 00:28:57,057 --> 00:28:58,845 for a really long time now. 581 00:29:01,914 --> 00:29:03,954 That feeling of you next to me. 582 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:11,043 But, Dad... 583 00:29:12,454 --> 00:29:14,110 I'm getting married today. 584 00:29:15,463 --> 00:29:16,587 Ooh. 585 00:29:16,940 --> 00:29:19,493 And I've got to make room. 586 00:29:19,617 --> 00:29:21,321 I've got to make room for Toby. 587 00:29:21,553 --> 00:29:24,922 So I've got to... I've got to let go a little now. 588 00:29:47,096 --> 00:29:48,931 How long have you guys been here? 589 00:29:49,077 --> 00:29:50,431 Just a few minutes. 590 00:29:50,550 --> 00:29:52,337 Seemed like you were having a moment. 591 00:29:53,387 --> 00:29:55,110 So you did it? 592 00:29:58,315 --> 00:30:00,290 I did. I did. 593 00:30:01,791 --> 00:30:03,345 Let's go get me married. 594 00:30:08,830 --> 00:30:10,758 You know, maybe we didn't fail her after all. 595 00:30:10,783 --> 00:30:11,966 Are you kidding me? 596 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,205 We're great brothers. 597 00:30:13,230 --> 00:30:14,423 We are. 598 00:30:14,624 --> 00:30:16,792 - You guys. Guys! - I would want me as a brother. 599 00:30:16,842 --> 00:30:17,906 Need to get married, here. 600 00:30:17,931 --> 00:30:18,778 - Oh. - Gotcha. 601 00:30:18,803 --> 00:30:20,112 - Let's get married, here. - Let's do that, let's do that. 602 00:30:23,049 --> 00:30:24,443 Oh, this is gonna be great. 603 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,982 - What are you doing? - Guarding the door. 604 00:30:31,855 --> 00:30:33,709 Why are you making that cocky smile? 605 00:30:44,384 --> 00:30:45,709 What am I seeing? 606 00:30:46,076 --> 00:30:47,584 Did she just have a pretty dress on, 607 00:30:47,609 --> 00:30:48,717 and some lip gloss? 608 00:30:48,742 --> 00:30:49,764 We had a talk. 609 00:30:50,268 --> 00:30:52,467 Don't expect her to do The Electric Slide tonight, 610 00:30:52,492 --> 00:30:54,951 but, uh, if we're lucky, we might get a sentence or two. 611 00:30:55,455 --> 00:30:57,178 Good Lord, I love my baby cousin. 612 00:30:57,779 --> 00:30:59,279 Oh, thank you. 613 00:31:02,651 --> 00:31:03,787 Oh, Kate. 614 00:31:04,661 --> 00:31:05,803 Hi. 615 00:31:06,943 --> 00:31:09,709 You look stunning. 616 00:31:09,734 --> 00:31:11,436 That dress is just... 617 00:31:13,318 --> 00:31:14,381 Perfect. 618 00:31:14,475 --> 00:31:16,709 I mean, it's gonna be perfect in the setting. 619 00:31:16,734 --> 00:31:18,162 Not that it wouldn't be perfect anywhere 620 00:31:18,187 --> 00:31:19,482 because it's a beautiful dress. 621 00:31:19,507 --> 00:31:20,764 - Mom. - But it's... 622 00:31:21,350 --> 00:31:24,779 - I know. Are you okay? - Yeah. 623 00:31:24,903 --> 00:31:26,270 I just, uh... 624 00:31:26,742 --> 00:31:29,342 I feel really bad for upsetting you on the phone earlier. 625 00:31:29,367 --> 00:31:30,764 Oh, no, you didn't. 626 00:31:30,819 --> 00:31:32,717 I was going through my own thing. 627 00:31:33,727 --> 00:31:34,834 Okay. 628 00:31:35,940 --> 00:31:37,139 I just, I want... 629 00:31:37,928 --> 00:31:39,701 I want today to be perfect for you 630 00:31:39,726 --> 00:31:41,498 in every way that you've ever dreamed about. 631 00:31:41,523 --> 00:31:43,928 And I know that sometimes I can make you... 632 00:31:44,899 --> 00:31:45,959 You know... 633 00:31:47,415 --> 00:31:49,904 So I'm just... I want to stay out of your way, okay? 634 00:31:56,318 --> 00:31:58,076 Mom, I know that our stuff... 635 00:31:58,470 --> 00:32:00,803 it can be complicated sometimes. 636 00:32:03,006 --> 00:32:04,193 But it's because... 637 00:32:04,570 --> 00:32:07,572 all that I've ever wanted was to be like you. 638 00:32:10,051 --> 00:32:11,756 I want to be a singer like you. 639 00:32:12,171 --> 00:32:14,029 I want to be a mom like you. 640 00:32:15,429 --> 00:32:18,506 I want to have a marriage like yours. 641 00:32:22,095 --> 00:32:23,607 Mom, you are not... 642 00:32:24,042 --> 00:32:27,225 You are not in my way. You are my way. 643 00:32:28,976 --> 00:32:31,303 - Sweetheart... - No. No cry... 644 00:32:31,553 --> 00:32:32,850 - No crying. We have to get to - Okay, okay. 645 00:32:32,875 --> 00:32:35,146 - the wedding first before you cry. - I know, but... 646 00:32:37,742 --> 00:32:41,311 Dad, can I ask you something? 647 00:32:41,336 --> 00:32:42,412 Anything. 648 00:32:43,445 --> 00:32:44,982 Can I marry you one day? 649 00:33:16,574 --> 00:33:19,639 I'm sorry, baby, that's... not really how it works. 650 00:33:20,513 --> 00:33:21,779 But... 651 00:33:23,770 --> 00:33:25,571 But you want to know the exciting part? 652 00:33:26,387 --> 00:33:29,122 One day, a long time from now, 653 00:33:29,493 --> 00:33:32,139 you're gonna meet someone who's better than me. 654 00:33:33,238 --> 00:33:37,068 He's gonna be stronger and handsomer 655 00:33:38,101 --> 00:33:39,889 and even better at board games than me. 656 00:33:41,159 --> 00:33:42,482 And when you find him, 657 00:33:42,712 --> 00:33:44,100 when you find that guy, 658 00:33:45,023 --> 00:33:46,657 that's the guy you're gonna marry. 659 00:33:46,762 --> 00:33:49,498 Oh, and he's one lucky guy, 660 00:33:49,816 --> 00:33:52,178 the guy that gets to marry you, Katie girl. 661 00:33:54,493 --> 00:33:56,896 And your mom and me, we're gonna be there, you know. 662 00:33:57,263 --> 00:33:58,584 Just to check him out. 663 00:33:59,564 --> 00:34:02,021 Make sure he's as good at board games 664 00:34:02,046 --> 00:34:03,568 as you think that he is. 665 00:34:07,609 --> 00:34:09,154 And, assuming that he is, 666 00:34:11,722 --> 00:34:13,443 I'll get to walk you down the aisle. 667 00:34:15,870 --> 00:34:17,537 And I may even cry a little. 668 00:34:53,428 --> 00:34:54,592 Watch it. 669 00:34:58,702 --> 00:35:01,225 You know, I still don't understand what Zoe said to her. 670 00:35:01,250 --> 00:35:03,351 Me neither. But who cares? 671 00:35:03,376 --> 00:35:04,928 - She's magic. - Mm-hmm. 672 00:35:06,462 --> 00:35:07,818 - I told you. - This is good. 673 00:35:07,843 --> 00:35:10,834 You three are Beth and Randall's girls, right? 674 00:35:11,054 --> 00:35:12,334 Yes, we are. 675 00:35:12,398 --> 00:35:15,029 Oh, you two are the spitting image of your mother. 676 00:35:15,118 --> 00:35:17,853 But you, you look just like your father. 677 00:35:21,227 --> 00:35:22,694 So what's good over here, hmm? 678 00:35:39,301 --> 00:35:43,451 Uh... excuse me, everyone. Hi. 679 00:35:43,673 --> 00:35:46,865 I'm Kevin. I'm Kate's brother, and it is toast time. 680 00:35:47,612 --> 00:35:48,803 So... 681 00:35:51,234 --> 00:35:52,412 Um... 682 00:35:56,810 --> 00:35:57,998 To, uh... 683 00:35:59,618 --> 00:36:03,451 My, uh, my brother and I have been going, 684 00:36:03,476 --> 00:36:05,943 uh, well, a little bit crazy the past couple of days. 685 00:36:05,968 --> 00:36:07,076 Um... 686 00:36:08,289 --> 00:36:10,209 W-We were going crazy 'cause we-we wanted make sure 687 00:36:10,234 --> 00:36:12,186 that this day was perfect for you, Kate. 688 00:36:13,608 --> 00:36:16,279 And the reason we wanted to make sure this day was absolutely perfect 689 00:36:16,304 --> 00:36:18,545 for you is because that's... 690 00:36:20,225 --> 00:36:21,514 that's what Dad would've done. 691 00:36:21,539 --> 00:36:23,006 He would've made it perfect for you. 692 00:36:24,959 --> 00:36:26,084 And, uh... 693 00:36:26,396 --> 00:36:27,436 If he were here, 694 00:36:27,461 --> 00:36:29,287 he definitely would've looked at you 695 00:36:30,198 --> 00:36:32,084 and he would've said, "Katie girl... 696 00:36:34,381 --> 00:36:35,631 in your life... 697 00:36:35,884 --> 00:36:38,061 you have never looked more beautiful... 698 00:36:38,832 --> 00:36:40,264 than you do right now." 699 00:36:41,282 --> 00:36:43,061 And he would've been right, by the way. 700 00:36:43,772 --> 00:36:44,975 You're beautiful. 701 00:36:47,051 --> 00:36:50,725 Um... Mom, Randall, 702 00:36:50,750 --> 00:36:51,803 uh... 703 00:36:52,058 --> 00:36:55,029 earlier last year, Kate said something to me that was, 704 00:36:55,465 --> 00:36:57,209 well, profound, uh... 705 00:36:58,286 --> 00:37:01,068 She said, "Kevin, if you don't allow yourself to... 706 00:37:01,415 --> 00:37:03,146 to grieve Dad's death, 707 00:37:03,171 --> 00:37:06,053 it'll be like taking a giant breath in and just... 708 00:37:06,853 --> 00:37:08,162 holding it there 709 00:37:09,508 --> 00:37:10,959 for the rest of your life." 710 00:37:13,235 --> 00:37:15,903 I... At the time, I didn't want to hear any of that. You know... 711 00:37:16,623 --> 00:37:18,170 I... I didn't. Um... 712 00:37:18,195 --> 00:37:21,311 but here we are. It's one DUI and a rehab stint later, 713 00:37:21,336 --> 00:37:24,071 and I-I'm-I'm thinking maybe you were on to something 714 00:37:25,009 --> 00:37:27,154 when you said that to me, um... 715 00:37:28,490 --> 00:37:31,623 I think we've all been holding our breath 716 00:37:32,553 --> 00:37:34,795 for a long time. And, um... 717 00:37:35,108 --> 00:37:37,371 So before we toast Toby and Kate, 718 00:37:37,396 --> 00:37:38,597 before we clink our glasses, 719 00:37:38,622 --> 00:37:41,791 I think that the four of us should, uh, 720 00:37:41,874 --> 00:37:43,717 release that breath together. 721 00:37:45,804 --> 00:37:48,305 I think it's important that we do that, that we just let go 722 00:37:48,330 --> 00:37:50,396 of those things we've been holding onto, so... 723 00:37:51,817 --> 00:37:53,037 So here we go. 724 00:38:13,692 --> 00:38:14,927 Okay. 725 00:38:16,142 --> 00:38:17,509 I, uh... 726 00:38:17,534 --> 00:38:18,842 I think my time is up. 727 00:38:19,752 --> 00:38:20,951 Um... 728 00:38:22,540 --> 00:38:23,824 Toby, Kate... 729 00:38:25,428 --> 00:38:26,568 I love you both so much. 730 00:38:26,593 --> 00:38:28,646 I really do. I am so happy for you. I'm proud. 731 00:38:28,671 --> 00:38:30,606 And I-I'm sorry my toast was weird. 732 00:38:31,062 --> 00:38:33,021 I'm not an expert on marriage at all, 733 00:38:33,046 --> 00:38:35,681 but, um, this next young gentleman is, 734 00:38:35,706 --> 00:38:37,857 my brother Randall. Please come save me. 735 00:38:38,421 --> 00:38:40,131 Save your brother. Come on, young man. 736 00:38:40,156 --> 00:38:42,771 Ladies and gentlemen, Randall Pearson, 737 00:38:43,236 --> 00:38:44,467 my brother. 738 00:38:44,492 --> 00:38:46,627 Oh man! You did good. 739 00:38:46,709 --> 00:38:47,904 There you go. 740 00:38:49,284 --> 00:38:50,412 Um... 741 00:38:51,433 --> 00:38:55,631 Those of you who know me, know that I'm big on control. 742 00:38:58,058 --> 00:39:00,607 It's taken me 37 years to accept the fact 743 00:39:00,632 --> 00:39:02,311 that there's absolutely zero point 744 00:39:02,336 --> 00:39:04,139 in trying to control the future. 745 00:39:04,889 --> 00:39:06,553 'Cause nobody knows where we'll be. 746 00:39:08,103 --> 00:39:09,654 Not even a year from now. 747 00:39:10,318 --> 00:39:11,936 Well, folks, we'll be landing 748 00:39:11,961 --> 00:39:14,256 in Vietnam shortly, where it's a balmy 749 00:39:14,281 --> 00:39:15,686 85 degrees. 750 00:39:25,772 --> 00:39:26,842 Hey, babe. 751 00:39:28,276 --> 00:39:29,865 I just spoke to the doctor. 752 00:39:29,890 --> 00:39:31,357 He wants you to come in tomorrow, 753 00:39:31,470 --> 00:39:33,029 talk about adjusting your meds. 754 00:39:36,573 --> 00:39:39,881 But... what we can control 755 00:39:40,617 --> 00:39:42,100 are the people we choose. 756 00:39:42,626 --> 00:39:43,701 Choosing our people 757 00:39:43,726 --> 00:39:47,115 is the closest we come to controlling our destiny. 758 00:39:48,576 --> 00:39:49,795 Where's Deja? 759 00:39:51,155 --> 00:39:54,045 Because... while everything else may change, 760 00:39:54,659 --> 00:39:56,350 if you choose right, 761 00:39:57,984 --> 00:39:59,576 your people will stay the same. 762 00:40:04,744 --> 00:40:06,131 Whether that's tonight 763 00:40:06,649 --> 00:40:08,467 or a year from now, 764 00:40:08,541 --> 00:40:11,428 or ten years from now... 765 00:40:13,342 --> 00:40:15,170 It's time to go see her, Tess. 766 00:40:16,618 --> 00:40:17,873 I'm not ready. 767 00:40:19,725 --> 00:40:20,920 Me neither. 768 00:40:24,990 --> 00:40:26,193 Katie girl, 769 00:40:26,620 --> 00:40:27,756 Tobias, 770 00:40:28,392 --> 00:40:29,764 when I look at you, 771 00:40:29,789 --> 00:40:33,186 I know in my bones that in choosing each other, 772 00:40:34,386 --> 00:40:35,654 you have chosen 773 00:40:35,679 --> 00:40:36,912 perfectly. 774 00:40:39,023 --> 00:40:40,186 Yes. 775 00:40:40,359 --> 00:40:41,559 To Kate and Toby. 776 00:40:41,584 --> 00:40:43,018 Kate and Toby. 777 00:40:43,803 --> 00:40:45,244 Come here. 778 00:41:35,488 --> 00:41:37,021 I liked your toast. 779 00:41:38,450 --> 00:41:41,232 I've, um, always been a sucker for a good toast. 780 00:41:42,393 --> 00:41:44,412 - Thank you. - Yeah. 781 00:41:44,625 --> 00:41:48,523 synced and corrected by susinz *www.addic7ed.com*