1 00:00:00,945 --> 00:00:03,953 _ 2 00:00:03,977 --> 00:00:05,977 _ 3 00:00:06,002 --> 00:00:08,419 Previously on "A Million Little Things"... 4 00:00:08,421 --> 00:00:11,013 We're at the point where any treatment we try 5 00:00:11,015 --> 00:00:12,960 may affect his quality of life. 6 00:00:12,962 --> 00:00:16,138 I want to celebrate every second we have left. 7 00:00:16,140 --> 00:00:18,012 And I want to do that as your wife. 8 00:00:20,237 --> 00:00:22,107 Yo, Gare! 9 00:00:22,109 --> 00:00:24,093 You seeing this? Your little man's doing it! 10 00:00:24,095 --> 00:00:25,890 Yay! 11 00:00:26,111 --> 00:00:27,286 Gary, Javi is walking! 12 00:00:27,288 --> 00:00:28,906 What are you writing? 13 00:00:29,968 --> 00:00:33,021 "Don't be jealous." That is very funny. 14 00:00:33,023 --> 00:00:34,070 We're both in wheelchairs, 15 00:00:34,072 --> 00:00:36,453 only I don't need someone to push mine. 16 00:00:36,455 --> 00:00:39,414 Pay attention, this is a watershed moment for your son. 17 00:00:39,416 --> 00:00:41,156 Those are not actually his first steps. 18 00:00:41,158 --> 00:00:42,312 That was last week. 19 00:00:42,314 --> 00:00:44,991 He's doing this whole "crib to 5k" thing. Yeah. 20 00:00:44,993 --> 00:00:46,601 Well, in that case, the little punk 21 00:00:46,603 --> 00:00:47,691 is just rubbing it in my face, 22 00:00:47,693 --> 00:00:49,039 and I don't appreciate it one bit. 23 00:00:50,431 --> 00:00:52,875 Hey, Mendez, you have to eat something. 24 00:00:52,885 --> 00:00:56,628 And not just 'cause there's a hungry Mastiff eyeing your eggs. 25 00:00:59,142 --> 00:01:01,023 Yeah, I know you're not hungry, 26 00:01:01,025 --> 00:01:02,992 but, sweetie, you gotta keep your strength up. 27 00:01:02,994 --> 00:01:05,601 You shouldn't take your pain meds on an empty stomach. 28 00:01:05,603 --> 00:01:08,738 Mmm. Mmm! Delicious. 29 00:01:08,914 --> 00:01:10,846 You don't know what you're missing, truly. 30 00:01:10,848 --> 00:01:12,676 - Egg-ceptional. - Mm-hmm. 31 00:01:12,678 --> 00:01:14,680 I'm sure now that you've licked his fork, 32 00:01:14,682 --> 00:01:16,632 he's really gonna want that. 33 00:01:16,889 --> 00:01:18,445 You know he's not 2 years old. 34 00:01:18,447 --> 00:01:20,796 You don't have to airplane it into his mouth-hangar. 35 00:01:20,798 --> 00:01:22,460 No, I wasn't. 36 00:01:23,779 --> 00:01:26,477 Hey, Gare. How about I make you that thing you like 37 00:01:26,479 --> 00:01:27,827 with the peanut butter and ice cream 38 00:01:27,829 --> 00:01:30,414 that you call a smoothie we all know is a milkshake? 39 00:01:31,096 --> 00:01:33,315 There we go. 40 00:01:34,210 --> 00:01:36,212 Cookie dough smoothie coming up. 41 00:01:44,438 --> 00:01:47,593 Hmm? What is it, Powder? 42 00:01:47,595 --> 00:01:49,142 You, uh, change your mind? 43 00:01:49,144 --> 00:01:51,695 You want me to make the egg choo-choo train 44 00:01:51,697 --> 00:01:53,929 go into the mouth tunnel? 45 00:01:53,931 --> 00:01:55,789 Well, it's coming right up. 46 00:01:55,791 --> 00:01:58,663 Chugga chugga chugga, all aboar... 47 00:02:05,073 --> 00:02:06,814 Are you sure? 48 00:02:19,366 --> 00:02:21,027 Okay. 49 00:02:30,388 --> 00:02:31,910 - Hey, what's up, man? - Hey, Rome. 50 00:02:31,912 --> 00:02:34,121 I'm with Gary. 51 00:02:34,420 --> 00:02:37,722 I need you to meet me at my place right away. 52 00:02:37,974 --> 00:02:40,394 Are you saying what I think you're saying? 53 00:02:42,386 --> 00:02:44,774 - Yep. - I'll be right there. 54 00:02:52,854 --> 00:02:55,070 Oh, my God, Rome, tell me you're filming. 55 00:02:55,072 --> 00:02:57,031 - Oh, you better believe it. - Okay. Alright. 56 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,524 Son, baby mama, anyone else who's watching, 57 00:03:00,526 --> 00:03:02,938 Ed, I want to... I want to make sure I get this right, okay? 58 00:03:02,940 --> 00:03:04,087 Because it's going into the archives. 59 00:03:04,089 --> 00:03:06,102 It was a momentary... Listen to me. 60 00:03:06,104 --> 00:03:08,470 It was a visceral, emotional response... 61 00:03:08,472 --> 00:03:10,001 Visceral, understood. 62 00:03:10,003 --> 00:03:11,918 But the fact remains that in that moment, 63 00:03:11,920 --> 00:03:16,267 you thought Aaron Burr was a Black man. 64 00:03:16,269 --> 00:03:20,384 Because the actor playing him in "Hamilton" was Black! 65 00:03:20,386 --> 00:03:21,751 I'm never gonna live this down, am I? 66 00:03:21,753 --> 00:03:23,019 Uh, probably not. 67 00:03:23,021 --> 00:03:24,274 - Doubtful, bro. - No, no, no. 68 00:03:24,276 --> 00:03:25,837 He thought that Aaron Burr was Black for the same reason 69 00:03:25,839 --> 00:03:27,462 that you thought umbrellas could make you fly... 70 00:03:27,464 --> 00:03:29,321 Because you saw it once in a musical. 71 00:03:29,323 --> 00:03:31,325 - Oh, and that's sweet, though! - I do know... 72 00:03:31,327 --> 00:03:33,634 I do know that Barack Obama was our first Black president. 73 00:03:33,636 --> 00:03:34,720 Wait a minute. What? 74 00:03:34,722 --> 00:03:37,076 You think Obama was the first Black president? 75 00:03:37,078 --> 00:03:38,782 Yeah. 76 00:03:39,301 --> 00:03:41,172 He is, right? Wha... 77 00:03:42,177 --> 00:03:44,135 You guys are jerks, man. 78 00:03:44,137 --> 00:03:46,532 Hey, you heard it here first, son. 79 00:03:46,534 --> 00:03:48,970 If you're struggling in African American studies, 80 00:03:48,972 --> 00:03:52,048 make sure you go to Rome for tutoring. 81 00:03:52,050 --> 00:03:53,790 Or go to a Black man. 82 00:03:53,792 --> 00:03:55,925 - Ooh! - Ooh! 83 00:03:55,927 --> 00:03:57,423 Eddie strikes back! 84 00:03:57,425 --> 00:04:00,040 He is not throwing away his shot! 85 00:04:00,042 --> 00:04:01,977 Give me your best side, bro. This is going to festivals. 86 00:04:01,979 --> 00:04:04,524 Oh, man. Turn the camera off. 87 00:04:04,526 --> 00:04:06,665 Dude, you said to never stop filming, 88 00:04:06,667 --> 00:04:09,024 especially when Eddie's making a fool of himself. 89 00:04:09,026 --> 00:04:10,938 You're right, I did say that. 90 00:04:10,940 --> 00:04:12,642 Now turn it off. 91 00:04:16,368 --> 00:04:18,457 Uh, I need to talk to you guys about something. 92 00:04:18,459 --> 00:04:19,663 Uh, I got a favor to ask. 93 00:04:19,665 --> 00:04:21,686 - Yeah, anything. - Yeah, say the word. 94 00:04:22,301 --> 00:04:26,929 First of all, you two have been nothing short of spectacular, 95 00:04:26,931 --> 00:04:29,819 hanging out with me at chemo, helping out with Colin. 96 00:04:31,438 --> 00:04:33,002 And obviously, I'm gonna beat this thing. 97 00:04:33,004 --> 00:04:34,375 - Amen. - Of course you are, man. 98 00:04:34,377 --> 00:04:36,085 But if I don't... 99 00:04:37,564 --> 00:04:39,726 I need you two to help me end it. 100 00:04:42,246 --> 00:04:44,163 Oh, dude, say the word, 101 00:04:44,165 --> 00:04:45,593 I'll hit you over the head with a blunt object. 102 00:04:45,595 --> 00:04:46,857 We can end it right now. 103 00:04:46,859 --> 00:04:48,804 We walk over to the fridge, slam it really hard, 104 00:04:48,806 --> 00:04:51,809 or you break wind into this, we strap it over his face... 105 00:04:51,811 --> 00:04:53,639 - He's out. Painless. - Hold him down, hold him down. 106 00:04:53,641 --> 00:04:55,469 Guys, I'm serious. 107 00:05:01,649 --> 00:05:04,419 What? Wait, whoa, what are you talking about? 108 00:05:05,251 --> 00:05:08,712 If by some chance things go south, 109 00:05:08,714 --> 00:05:11,876 I do not want to be stuck in some hospital bed in pain, 110 00:05:11,878 --> 00:05:15,353 crapping myself, and... And wasting away into nothing. 111 00:05:15,355 --> 00:05:18,712 So if we get to that point, which we won't... 112 00:05:21,185 --> 00:05:24,231 I need you to go see Kevin, okay? 113 00:05:24,233 --> 00:05:26,061 He'll know why you're there. 114 00:05:28,241 --> 00:05:30,907 That's right, during my last round of chemo, 115 00:05:30,909 --> 00:05:32,493 I did all the party planning. 116 00:05:32,495 --> 00:05:34,743 How's that for multi-tasking? 117 00:05:34,745 --> 00:05:37,219 He's gonna give you the right drugs... 118 00:05:37,467 --> 00:05:40,493 and you're gonna use those drugs to put me out of my misery. 119 00:05:40,634 --> 00:05:43,032 What? Dude, I... 120 00:05:43,034 --> 00:05:45,344 Hey, I love you, and I will do anything for you, 121 00:05:45,346 --> 00:05:47,119 but this is completely off the table. 122 00:05:47,121 --> 00:05:48,719 Oh, really? I've never... 123 00:05:48,721 --> 00:05:51,587 You two rallied around me when I was at my lowest moment. 124 00:05:51,589 --> 00:05:52,782 You helped me get on antidepressants, 125 00:05:52,784 --> 00:05:53,821 you helped me deal with things 126 00:05:53,823 --> 00:05:55,781 that not even my dad would accept. 127 00:05:56,129 --> 00:05:58,633 And now you want me to take you out? 128 00:05:58,635 --> 00:06:00,045 No, Rome, that's not what I want. 129 00:06:00,047 --> 00:06:01,165 This is completely different. 130 00:06:01,167 --> 00:06:03,082 If I can get better, hell, even if I can stay like this, 131 00:06:03,084 --> 00:06:04,415 but if I'm in pain, man... 132 00:06:04,417 --> 00:06:06,288 - I was in pain. - No, I am talking about 133 00:06:06,290 --> 00:06:08,774 excruciating physical pain. 134 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,883 The kind that only comes with Stage 4 cancer. 135 00:06:14,278 --> 00:06:17,023 I'm not gonna even pretend to know 136 00:06:17,025 --> 00:06:19,578 what you were going through, but you got help. 137 00:06:19,580 --> 00:06:21,582 You said it yourself, 138 00:06:21,584 --> 00:06:24,369 you had to be reminded that the dark days would pass. 139 00:06:24,371 --> 00:06:26,836 But if we exhaust all medical possibilities 140 00:06:26,838 --> 00:06:29,797 and we're just running out the clock, that's it. 141 00:06:29,799 --> 00:06:31,344 There's no more sun for me. 142 00:06:31,346 --> 00:06:33,392 Look, guys, I-I-I realize 143 00:06:33,394 --> 00:06:35,719 this is a big ask, I do. 144 00:06:35,721 --> 00:06:37,226 You think? 145 00:06:37,383 --> 00:06:39,757 You're the one that's always talking about the elevator, Ed. 146 00:06:39,759 --> 00:06:41,594 I mean, what did we say? 147 00:06:41,596 --> 00:06:43,250 This is it. This is Rutledge. 148 00:06:43,252 --> 00:06:46,299 No. Rutledge was Jon making us promise 149 00:06:46,301 --> 00:06:48,137 that we would look out for each other's families. 150 00:06:48,139 --> 00:06:49,398 Exactly. 151 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,523 I need you to look after my family. 152 00:06:52,885 --> 00:06:56,476 I cannot let Maggie watch me suffer and die 153 00:06:56,478 --> 00:06:59,929 from the same disease that she has battled twice. 154 00:07:02,412 --> 00:07:05,154 It's called death with dignity, 155 00:07:05,156 --> 00:07:07,202 and that's all I want. 156 00:07:07,420 --> 00:07:09,248 That's why we've been making these videos, 157 00:07:09,250 --> 00:07:11,557 so that someday, my son can look at his father 158 00:07:11,559 --> 00:07:14,344 and see a man who is optimistic, 159 00:07:14,346 --> 00:07:16,398 living life to the fullest, 160 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,258 and the same goes for you two, the whole crew. 161 00:07:18,260 --> 00:07:22,171 I do not want you gathered around my bed ugly-crying 162 00:07:22,173 --> 00:07:23,890 and waiting for me to take my final breath. 163 00:07:23,892 --> 00:07:27,445 No, I want you all together at some big ass dinner, 164 00:07:27,447 --> 00:07:29,078 laughing and telling stories 165 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,390 about how Eddie thought Aaron Burr was Black. 166 00:07:31,392 --> 00:07:33,481 I lost myself in the music. 167 00:07:33,483 --> 00:07:35,031 Have you talked to Maggie about this? 168 00:07:35,033 --> 00:07:36,508 No, of course not. 169 00:07:36,510 --> 00:07:38,508 And don't you dare tell her, either. 170 00:07:38,510 --> 00:07:41,339 Game's not over, guys. I'm right here. 171 00:07:41,472 --> 00:07:43,273 This... 172 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:46,976 This is Plan Z. 173 00:07:47,694 --> 00:07:50,741 And I just... I want it to be in place. 174 00:07:51,135 --> 00:07:52,640 I, um... 175 00:07:56,365 --> 00:07:58,453 I need it... 176 00:07:58,943 --> 00:08:00,727 to be in place. 177 00:08:11,382 --> 00:08:13,434 Alright. 178 00:08:15,293 --> 00:08:17,648 We won't tell Maggie. 179 00:08:18,795 --> 00:08:22,125 But if we do need a Plan Z, you will. 180 00:08:30,409 --> 00:08:32,237 And by the grace of God, 181 00:08:32,239 --> 00:08:34,742 she won't ever have to watch this. 182 00:08:43,695 --> 00:08:45,742 How will we know it's time? 183 00:08:59,447 --> 00:09:04,447 Synced & corrected by QueenMaddie www.addic7ed.com 184 00:09:09,729 --> 00:09:11,305 Thanks. 185 00:09:11,834 --> 00:09:13,453 I'm not worried about her falling. 186 00:09:13,455 --> 00:09:14,969 She's annoying everybody. 187 00:09:14,971 --> 00:09:16,109 It's just talkie, talkie, talkie. 188 00:09:16,111 --> 00:09:17,983 - There he is. - Okay, I'm on it. 189 00:09:20,018 --> 00:09:21,742 Hey, man. 190 00:09:22,894 --> 00:09:24,570 Oh, no. 191 00:09:26,622 --> 00:09:28,492 Kev... 192 00:09:29,017 --> 00:09:30,975 he's in a lot of pain. 193 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,699 He told us to come to you when it was time. 194 00:09:33,701 --> 00:09:37,444 Yeah, he said you'd know exactly what to do. 195 00:09:39,061 --> 00:09:40,437 Uh... 196 00:09:40,439 --> 00:09:43,312 guys, I don't know what you're talking about. 197 00:09:43,314 --> 00:09:45,052 I can't help you with anything like that. 198 00:09:45,336 --> 00:09:46,926 Excuse me. 199 00:09:47,663 --> 00:09:50,562 Wait. Hey. Kev, hold up. 200 00:09:50,564 --> 00:09:53,180 So you're saying you and Gary never talked about any of this? 201 00:09:54,316 --> 00:09:55,914 Then why would he tell us that? 202 00:09:55,916 --> 00:09:57,281 Look, I don't know, okay? I don't know. 203 00:09:57,283 --> 00:09:59,502 And even if we had, I can't. 204 00:09:59,504 --> 00:10:01,383 What you're talking about is illegal in Massachusetts. 205 00:10:01,385 --> 00:10:02,453 I could lose my job. 206 00:10:02,455 --> 00:10:05,328 Kevin, he's not eating. 207 00:10:07,309 --> 00:10:10,070 Can you please at least tell us what to do? 208 00:10:11,777 --> 00:10:13,899 Look, Gary's my dude, okay? 209 00:10:13,901 --> 00:10:15,773 But my hands are tied. 210 00:10:19,504 --> 00:10:21,672 Here's what I can do, though. 211 00:10:23,464 --> 00:10:25,851 You can take him this, and... 212 00:10:28,135 --> 00:10:29,609 Let's hope he eats it. 213 00:10:29,611 --> 00:10:32,437 Grown-ass man loved him some gelatin, right? 214 00:10:35,286 --> 00:10:36,898 Seriously? 215 00:10:38,592 --> 00:10:41,334 Pre-school snack, that's your consolation prize? 216 00:10:43,165 --> 00:10:45,156 I thought you cared about him. 217 00:10:45,199 --> 00:10:46,875 I do. 218 00:10:47,506 --> 00:10:50,292 Hey, Rome. Let's just get out of here. 219 00:10:53,078 --> 00:10:55,036 Thanks for nothing. 220 00:11:25,638 --> 00:11:28,093 D, hey. Is everything alright? 221 00:11:28,095 --> 00:11:29,633 Yes! Hi, neighbor. 222 00:11:29,635 --> 00:11:31,768 - Hi. - Hi, Javi! 223 00:11:31,770 --> 00:11:33,555 Gary's upstairs waiting for you. 224 00:11:33,557 --> 00:11:35,023 I left the door unlocked. 225 00:11:35,164 --> 00:11:36,937 Okay, perfect. 226 00:11:36,939 --> 00:11:38,070 You sure you don't need my help with... 227 00:11:38,072 --> 00:11:39,192 Oh, we got it. 228 00:11:39,194 --> 00:11:43,285 It's a big help you just being there with him while he's awake. 229 00:11:43,287 --> 00:11:45,158 I know he'll be happy to see you. 230 00:11:45,308 --> 00:11:46,718 Okay. 231 00:11:53,305 --> 00:11:54,980 Dude, what the hell are we gonna do? 232 00:11:54,982 --> 00:11:56,058 Come on, bro, you were in a band, 233 00:11:56,060 --> 00:11:58,035 you're telling me you can't track down drugs? 234 00:11:58,037 --> 00:11:59,699 Isn't that 90% of what roadies do? 235 00:11:59,701 --> 00:12:01,324 Yes, but the last time I had a roadie, 236 00:12:01,326 --> 00:12:02,426 I also had a flip phone. 237 00:12:02,428 --> 00:12:03,472 What about you, man? 238 00:12:03,474 --> 00:12:05,363 - What about me? - Dude, you're a teacher 239 00:12:05,365 --> 00:12:06,738 at a prep school full of rich kids. 240 00:12:06,740 --> 00:12:08,496 - Haven't you seen "Euphoria"? - Of course I've seen "Euphoria." 241 00:12:08,498 --> 00:12:10,254 Well, think about it! 242 00:12:10,256 --> 00:12:12,535 Ooh, what about your dad's "assisted living facility"? 243 00:12:12,537 --> 00:12:13,756 What are you using air quotes for? 244 00:12:13,758 --> 00:12:16,840 The place is legit filled with old people. 245 00:12:16,842 --> 00:12:19,191 And I don't think we can take our man out with Viagra, either. 246 00:12:19,193 --> 00:12:21,308 - What about your sister? - No, she's sober again. 247 00:12:21,611 --> 00:12:23,637 Great. And by the time she's not, it'll be too late. 248 00:12:23,639 --> 00:12:25,684 Wait, you can't be pissed that my sister's back on the wagon. 249 00:12:25,686 --> 00:12:27,582 I'm not mad at Lindsay, that's my girl! 250 00:12:27,584 --> 00:12:29,191 Wha... What do you mean, "your girl"? 251 00:12:29,193 --> 00:12:30,879 Look, I'm just mad at Kevin 252 00:12:30,881 --> 00:12:32,793 - because he lied to us. - Dude, I know. 253 00:12:32,795 --> 00:12:34,666 There's no way Gary would have made something like that up. 254 00:12:34,668 --> 00:12:36,144 Well, it's irrelevant now 255 00:12:36,146 --> 00:12:37,660 because if we don't figure something out, 256 00:12:37,662 --> 00:12:38,902 we're gonna have to go back to our boy 257 00:12:38,904 --> 00:12:40,079 and tell him that we couldn't come through 258 00:12:40,081 --> 00:12:42,605 with the one thing that he asked us to do. 259 00:12:42,971 --> 00:12:44,652 Oh, my God. 260 00:12:45,127 --> 00:12:47,324 I can't believe I'm about to say this. 261 00:12:47,326 --> 00:12:48,465 What? 262 00:12:48,918 --> 00:12:50,633 - Say it. - Dakota. 263 00:12:51,550 --> 00:12:54,141 I can call Dakota. 264 00:12:54,143 --> 00:12:56,547 She can score us whatever we need. 265 00:13:00,685 --> 00:13:01,730 You know, I bet the bastard 266 00:13:01,732 --> 00:13:03,228 didn't even give us lime flavored. 267 00:13:07,339 --> 00:13:08,869 Hang up the phone, Ed. 268 00:13:08,941 --> 00:13:10,001 Hello? 269 00:13:10,003 --> 00:13:11,509 Kevin gave us more than gelatin. 270 00:13:11,511 --> 00:13:13,017 Eddie, is that you? 271 00:13:13,703 --> 00:13:16,009 - Uh, hey, Dakota. - Hey. 272 00:13:16,011 --> 00:13:17,767 We should catch up sometime. Now's not the time. Bye. 273 00:13:17,769 --> 00:13:19,181 Oh, o... 274 00:13:21,585 --> 00:13:23,799 Well, Ed... 275 00:13:24,643 --> 00:13:26,259 I guess we no longer have a problem. 276 00:13:26,261 --> 00:13:27,799 Yeah, we do. 277 00:13:28,492 --> 00:13:30,712 This just got too real. 278 00:13:30,912 --> 00:13:32,697 I can't do this. 279 00:13:42,161 --> 00:13:43,642 Okay. 280 00:13:44,972 --> 00:13:47,189 I'll be right here if you need anything. 281 00:13:47,191 --> 00:13:48,455 Thank you. 282 00:13:51,460 --> 00:13:53,322 - Hey. - Hi. 283 00:13:53,324 --> 00:13:55,134 Uh, you ready for this? 284 00:13:55,136 --> 00:13:58,052 No, but, uh, let's do it anyway. 285 00:14:00,756 --> 00:14:02,345 Thank you. 286 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:08,657 Wait, this is the one 287 00:14:08,659 --> 00:14:10,661 the funeral home wants 6 grand for. 288 00:14:10,663 --> 00:14:12,541 They only want $4,800 for it. 289 00:14:12,543 --> 00:14:14,799 Not for long. Just, uh, follow my lead. 290 00:14:14,801 --> 00:14:16,478 What? 291 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:17,705 - Hey, guys. - What are you... 292 00:14:17,707 --> 00:14:19,056 Can I help you with something? 293 00:14:19,631 --> 00:14:21,298 I-I hope so. 294 00:14:23,031 --> 00:14:26,455 It's our uncle. He's about to meet his maker. 295 00:14:28,375 --> 00:14:30,817 I mean, it could be weeks, it could be tomorrow. 296 00:14:30,819 --> 00:14:32,145 We just don't know. 297 00:14:32,147 --> 00:14:34,062 But that's how life is, right? 298 00:14:34,083 --> 00:14:35,825 You just don't know. 299 00:14:35,834 --> 00:14:37,512 Oh. 300 00:14:38,859 --> 00:14:40,643 How's he doing with all of this? 301 00:14:40,645 --> 00:14:44,215 Uh, this is the first time he's left Gary's side. 302 00:14:44,822 --> 00:14:47,387 Yeah, never thought I'd be jealous of a dog. 303 00:14:48,671 --> 00:14:50,630 But he knows what's up. 304 00:14:51,127 --> 00:14:53,086 But we're gonna get through it together, aren't we, pal? 305 00:14:53,088 --> 00:14:54,960 Um, heads up, 306 00:14:54,962 --> 00:14:57,520 I think you're being recognized. 307 00:14:57,973 --> 00:14:59,731 Oh, please. 308 00:14:59,733 --> 00:15:01,106 I don't mean to sound ungrateful, 309 00:15:01,116 --> 00:15:04,497 but this was hard enough before my listeners caught wind of it. 310 00:15:04,499 --> 00:15:06,196 Hold that thought. 311 00:15:06,218 --> 00:15:08,307 I'm so sorry to interrupt. 312 00:15:08,309 --> 00:15:12,129 No, please. You are in the room with Dr. Bloom. 313 00:15:12,404 --> 00:15:15,233 Uh, I don't know what that means. 314 00:15:15,235 --> 00:15:18,603 I just wanted to say I voted for you. 315 00:15:18,989 --> 00:15:21,239 I really wanted you to win. 316 00:15:21,241 --> 00:15:23,112 I hope you think about running again. 317 00:15:23,358 --> 00:15:25,754 Yeah, that makes two of us. 318 00:15:25,756 --> 00:15:28,803 Thank you so much. I... 319 00:15:29,065 --> 00:15:30,949 I have a few years to recover. 320 00:15:30,951 --> 00:15:32,170 We'll see. 321 00:15:32,172 --> 00:15:34,566 But thank you for coming up and saying that. 322 00:15:34,568 --> 00:15:36,262 No. Thank you. 323 00:15:40,740 --> 00:15:42,525 Look at you! 324 00:15:42,653 --> 00:15:44,191 Oh, there she is. 325 00:15:44,193 --> 00:15:46,152 - Ah! - Hey. Sorry I'm late. 326 00:15:46,154 --> 00:15:47,488 I had to go to three different stores 327 00:15:47,490 --> 00:15:49,082 - to find the right color. - No problem. 328 00:15:49,084 --> 00:15:50,999 - We are ready. - Okay. 329 00:15:51,001 --> 00:15:53,003 Are you ready? Let's go paint the town. 330 00:15:53,005 --> 00:15:54,644 - You ready to go? - Let's do it. 331 00:15:55,544 --> 00:15:57,754 And Charlie learned to take selfies, 332 00:15:57,756 --> 00:16:00,082 so here are like 47 of them. 333 00:16:03,993 --> 00:16:07,039 But I didn't just pop in to show you some photos. 334 00:16:08,762 --> 00:16:10,851 I also came because 335 00:16:10,879 --> 00:16:14,796 I wanted to say thank you. 336 00:16:14,910 --> 00:16:17,660 "I don't have condoms." 337 00:16:18,172 --> 00:16:20,355 You're such an ass. 338 00:16:21,003 --> 00:16:22,473 You know, when I heard you couldn't make a sound, 339 00:16:22,475 --> 00:16:25,199 I was actually looking forward to our conversation. 340 00:16:26,811 --> 00:16:28,230 You okay? 341 00:16:28,283 --> 00:16:31,574 Oh, God! 342 00:16:31,576 --> 00:16:33,730 Gary, that's... I felt that on my leg! 343 00:16:33,732 --> 00:16:34,907 Don't you dare lift that up! 344 00:16:35,199 --> 00:16:37,201 Don't you d... 345 00:16:37,203 --> 00:16:40,629 You make me laugh without saying anything. 346 00:16:40,631 --> 00:16:42,207 Am I that easy? 347 00:16:42,271 --> 00:16:44,340 Don't answer that. 348 00:16:45,469 --> 00:16:47,223 Did you know that when I first met you, 349 00:16:47,225 --> 00:16:51,590 I pegged you to be this snarky smartass 350 00:16:51,592 --> 00:16:54,293 who seemed angry at the whole world? 351 00:16:54,662 --> 00:16:55,881 I was right. 352 00:16:58,438 --> 00:17:02,676 But I was just outside thinking about, uh... 353 00:17:03,169 --> 00:17:06,825 about the day you came to the house. 354 00:17:09,516 --> 00:17:11,946 Every day in every single way since then, 355 00:17:11,948 --> 00:17:14,473 you have stepped up for us. 356 00:17:14,796 --> 00:17:16,885 Me, especially. 357 00:17:16,928 --> 00:17:19,902 No, I'm gonna say all the good things I want to say, 358 00:17:19,904 --> 00:17:22,027 because for once, you can't cut me off. 359 00:17:23,924 --> 00:17:26,519 You're the best friend I've ever had. 360 00:17:27,488 --> 00:17:29,664 You're more than that. You're... 361 00:17:30,261 --> 00:17:32,089 my brother. 362 00:17:38,385 --> 00:17:41,256 And I want you to know that you can count on me. 363 00:17:41,617 --> 00:17:44,146 I am going to be here for Maggie. 364 00:17:44,774 --> 00:17:47,623 I'm gonna be here for your son. 365 00:17:52,831 --> 00:17:54,834 I know his name is Javi, shut up! 366 00:17:54,836 --> 00:17:56,925 Enough with the board. 367 00:18:01,934 --> 00:18:04,178 Do you remember the day, uh, 368 00:18:04,180 --> 00:18:07,009 you found out about Eddie and me? 369 00:18:08,265 --> 00:18:10,865 It was your birthday. 370 00:18:11,598 --> 00:18:14,471 Gosh, it was hard to face you that night 371 00:18:14,473 --> 00:18:16,519 when you came by. 372 00:18:16,573 --> 00:18:19,154 Even though I hurt you, you... 373 00:18:19,156 --> 00:18:21,951 You never abandoned me. 374 00:18:22,723 --> 00:18:27,597 And you took care of my kids when you knew that I couldn't. 375 00:18:30,486 --> 00:18:32,281 And that night, when we lit your candles, 376 00:18:32,283 --> 00:18:34,312 do you remember what you wished for? 377 00:18:35,601 --> 00:18:37,646 Same wish you make every year. 378 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:42,034 Gary, I know that the only reason 379 00:18:42,036 --> 00:18:45,945 Eddie and I are together is because of you, 380 00:18:45,947 --> 00:18:48,859 'cause you told him to follow his heart. 381 00:18:51,778 --> 00:18:54,651 And I am happy. 382 00:18:55,952 --> 00:18:58,133 We all are. 383 00:18:58,688 --> 00:19:01,647 And in time, Maggie will be happy again. 384 00:19:01,649 --> 00:19:03,607 I promise you. 385 00:19:06,839 --> 00:19:11,713 So I wanted to say thank you for making that wish. 386 00:19:19,623 --> 00:19:21,157 Should I be scared? 387 00:19:21,159 --> 00:19:23,118 What are you gonna write? 388 00:19:29,072 --> 00:19:31,023 God. 389 00:19:31,199 --> 00:19:33,242 You're impossible! 390 00:19:33,244 --> 00:19:34,406 Oh, my God, Gary. 391 00:19:34,408 --> 00:19:35,547 You know, off the record, 392 00:19:35,549 --> 00:19:38,242 I've never let anybody do that to me. 393 00:19:38,479 --> 00:19:42,039 But hey, if I thought it'd cure your cancer... 394 00:19:42,852 --> 00:19:45,039 I'd flip 'em right over. 395 00:19:55,239 --> 00:19:56,797 That was quite the performance. 396 00:19:56,799 --> 00:19:59,164 Yeah, but we saved a thousand bucks including tax. 397 00:19:59,166 --> 00:20:00,469 Gary would be so proud. 398 00:20:00,471 --> 00:20:02,445 Yeah, I can't wait to tell him. 399 00:20:03,042 --> 00:20:04,406 On second thought, uh, 400 00:20:04,408 --> 00:20:06,758 maybe we don't mention any of this to him. 401 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:07,844 - Better. - Yeah. 402 00:20:07,846 --> 00:20:10,906 So, I put the item on hold, 403 00:20:10,908 --> 00:20:13,805 and it'll be ready whenever you're ready for it. 404 00:20:13,807 --> 00:20:15,375 Thank you so much, you're very kind. 405 00:20:15,377 --> 00:20:17,227 Yeah, my sister's right, you're very kind. 406 00:20:17,229 --> 00:20:19,195 And... And good luck with your Etsy shop. 407 00:20:19,197 --> 00:20:20,688 Thanks. 408 00:20:20,690 --> 00:20:22,605 Oh, here's your credit card. 409 00:20:23,102 --> 00:20:24,930 Sophie Dixon? 410 00:20:24,932 --> 00:20:28,109 Yeah. Uh, sorry, do we know each other, or...? 411 00:20:28,531 --> 00:20:31,219 Hey, wait. Hold the door, that's my plane. 412 00:20:31,221 --> 00:20:34,050 I'm sorry, sir, we've already closed the jet bridge. 413 00:20:34,052 --> 00:20:35,183 Here's the head count. 414 00:20:35,185 --> 00:20:37,281 No, no, I have to get on the plane. 415 00:20:37,283 --> 00:20:40,539 Once the jet bridge door is closed, I can't open it. 416 00:21:00,970 --> 00:21:04,245 No, it's just... my name's Sophie, too. 417 00:21:04,419 --> 00:21:06,073 It's kismet! 418 00:21:06,547 --> 00:21:08,505 It really is. You know what? 419 00:21:08,515 --> 00:21:10,659 I'm going to give you my employee discount. 420 00:21:10,661 --> 00:21:12,489 Oh, thank you. 421 00:21:15,041 --> 00:21:17,217 Hey, sleepyhead. 422 00:21:18,002 --> 00:21:20,018 Delilah leave already? 423 00:21:21,746 --> 00:21:24,471 Very funny, Chaplin. 424 00:21:24,666 --> 00:21:27,182 Alright, we're going on a field trip. 425 00:21:28,940 --> 00:21:30,455 I gotta show you something. 426 00:21:30,978 --> 00:21:32,604 Hey, Eddie. What are you doing here? 427 00:21:32,606 --> 00:21:34,190 Hi. I need to talk to you about something. 428 00:21:34,192 --> 00:21:36,107 I'm not supposed to say anything to anyone, 429 00:21:36,109 --> 00:21:37,541 but I need your opinion 430 00:21:37,543 --> 00:21:38,830 because from the moment I met you, 431 00:21:38,832 --> 00:21:40,573 you've had this unbelievable ability, 432 00:21:40,575 --> 00:21:41,745 despite what you're going through, 433 00:21:41,747 --> 00:21:44,096 to think about things rationally and objectively, 434 00:21:44,433 --> 00:21:46,776 and right now, I need your strength. 435 00:21:47,124 --> 00:21:50,171 Well, in that case, step into my office. 436 00:22:08,370 --> 00:22:09,965 Coming! 437 00:22:14,690 --> 00:22:16,957 - Rome. - Hey, Pop. 438 00:22:16,959 --> 00:22:20,293 - What's wrong? - Nothing. 439 00:22:20,295 --> 00:22:22,340 I wanted to hear your voice, see your mug, 440 00:22:22,342 --> 00:22:25,171 drop off some bagels, and hang out with my old man. 441 00:22:25,173 --> 00:22:26,392 Nope. 442 00:22:26,881 --> 00:22:29,137 I know my boy. 443 00:22:29,713 --> 00:22:31,497 Something's wrong. 444 00:22:35,123 --> 00:22:37,951 Gary's not gonna make it. 445 00:22:39,923 --> 00:22:42,371 Oh, Rome. 446 00:22:43,563 --> 00:22:45,832 I'm so sorry. 447 00:22:45,989 --> 00:22:47,947 Come here, son. 448 00:22:53,966 --> 00:22:57,927 That's right. Let it out. 449 00:23:02,722 --> 00:23:04,831 Katherine, I-I can't do this. 450 00:23:06,468 --> 00:23:08,470 Look at me. 451 00:23:08,787 --> 00:23:11,703 I helped Gary with all his estate planning. 452 00:23:11,705 --> 00:23:13,489 He knew this was coming. 453 00:23:13,558 --> 00:23:15,560 Maggie knew this was coming. 454 00:23:15,562 --> 00:23:17,894 It's why they didn't go to Mexico. 455 00:23:19,260 --> 00:23:23,221 I know that what he's asking you to do is... 456 00:23:23,223 --> 00:23:27,621 It's unthinkable, but... 457 00:23:28,006 --> 00:23:30,800 maybe the alternative is even worse. 458 00:23:32,237 --> 00:23:36,964 Taking care of all of us is what's giving Gary purpose. 459 00:23:37,190 --> 00:23:39,589 It's how he defines himself. 460 00:23:40,007 --> 00:23:42,316 And now he can't do that anymore. 461 00:23:42,318 --> 00:23:45,605 And while we may all have thoughts about it, 462 00:23:46,718 --> 00:23:48,720 it is his life. 463 00:23:50,347 --> 00:23:53,900 I get that you're in an impossible situation... 464 00:23:56,409 --> 00:23:59,090 But I can't make that decision for you, Eddie. 465 00:24:01,445 --> 00:24:03,403 Hey, Dad. 466 00:24:05,915 --> 00:24:08,269 Hey, bud. What are you doing? 467 00:24:08,271 --> 00:24:10,360 I was gonna play some street hockey. 468 00:24:10,362 --> 00:24:11,761 Oh, that's fun. 469 00:24:12,417 --> 00:24:13,893 - Maybe later we can... - Dad. 470 00:24:13,895 --> 00:24:15,417 You have to do this. 471 00:24:15,419 --> 00:24:17,595 Buddy, uh... 472 00:24:20,733 --> 00:24:24,868 I don't know how much you heard, 473 00:24:25,239 --> 00:24:28,286 but it is very complicated stuff, 474 00:24:28,288 --> 00:24:30,337 and maybe when you're a little older, 475 00:24:30,339 --> 00:24:32,901 it might make more sense, but... maybe not. 476 00:24:32,903 --> 00:24:34,479 I'm a whole lot older, 477 00:24:34,481 --> 00:24:37,284 and I'm still struggling to understand. 478 00:24:37,286 --> 00:24:39,300 I do understand. 479 00:24:39,302 --> 00:24:42,406 It's just like when Scott the cat tried to eat that bird. 480 00:24:42,803 --> 00:24:46,703 I-I didn't want to give up, but you helped me understand 481 00:24:46,705 --> 00:24:49,336 that we needed to let the bird go. 482 00:24:49,338 --> 00:24:51,340 He was suffering. 483 00:24:51,342 --> 00:24:53,127 So is Uncle Gary. 484 00:24:53,129 --> 00:24:55,088 He's in pain, Dad. 485 00:24:55,090 --> 00:24:57,266 And as difficult as it is, 486 00:24:57,268 --> 00:25:00,271 it's the most humane thing we can do. 487 00:25:00,503 --> 00:25:04,376 Sometimes the right thing to do is really hard, 488 00:25:04,378 --> 00:25:07,425 but isn't that what love is? 489 00:25:11,125 --> 00:25:12,628 Come here. 490 00:25:12,981 --> 00:25:14,896 I know it's hard. 491 00:25:16,036 --> 00:25:17,683 Thank you. 492 00:25:19,118 --> 00:25:21,033 Tell me a story about Gary. 493 00:25:21,035 --> 00:25:23,972 I don't know, Pop. There are so many. 494 00:25:27,464 --> 00:25:28,730 I remember one time 495 00:25:28,732 --> 00:25:30,565 I was flying out of Logan to some conference, 496 00:25:30,567 --> 00:25:32,167 and don't ask me how, 497 00:25:32,172 --> 00:25:34,605 but, uh, just as I got past security, 498 00:25:34,607 --> 00:25:36,522 I realized that I left my phone at home. 499 00:25:36,524 --> 00:25:38,644 And it was only, like, 45 minutes till my flight, 500 00:25:38,646 --> 00:25:41,561 and Gina's across town in the truck. 501 00:25:41,563 --> 00:25:45,611 So I borrow some guy at the gate's phone and I call Gary. 502 00:25:45,943 --> 00:25:50,355 Gary drives to my place, grabs my phone, 503 00:25:50,357 --> 00:25:51,722 drives to the airport, 504 00:25:51,724 --> 00:25:53,465 and even though he didn't have a ticket, 505 00:25:53,467 --> 00:25:56,340 somehow managed to talk his way past security... 506 00:25:56,342 --> 00:25:57,430 What?! 507 00:25:57,432 --> 00:25:59,347 Runs to my gate, 508 00:25:59,349 --> 00:26:01,264 hands me my phone 509 00:26:01,266 --> 00:26:04,095 just before they close the doors to my flight. 510 00:26:04,577 --> 00:26:06,276 You see, son? 511 00:26:06,557 --> 00:26:09,342 This is why it's good to have a couple white friends. 512 00:26:09,658 --> 00:26:12,240 You know Tyrell wasn't getting through security. 513 00:26:12,430 --> 00:26:14,698 No, he... 514 00:26:21,935 --> 00:26:23,850 Thank you, Pop. 515 00:26:25,674 --> 00:26:28,034 You tell Gary 516 00:26:28,615 --> 00:26:32,058 I said thank you for being such an amazing friend 517 00:26:32,060 --> 00:26:34,019 to my son. 518 00:26:37,209 --> 00:26:39,167 I will. 519 00:26:45,998 --> 00:26:47,869 I'll check in on you later. 520 00:26:47,871 --> 00:26:49,916 Okay, Pop, and don't forget to take your pills, okay? 521 00:26:50,003 --> 00:26:51,961 Don't forget to take yours. 522 00:26:57,584 --> 00:26:59,687 I love you, Pop. 523 00:27:00,169 --> 00:27:02,301 Love you, son. 524 00:27:03,110 --> 00:27:05,169 I can't wait for you to see this. 525 00:27:05,171 --> 00:27:06,433 No looking. 526 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,474 Are those eyes closed? 527 00:27:08,476 --> 00:27:09,731 Alright. 528 00:27:09,733 --> 00:27:12,247 Uh... you crushed it. 529 00:27:12,249 --> 00:27:13,794 This is amazing! 530 00:27:13,796 --> 00:27:15,450 Yeah, I did okay, considering the canvas 531 00:27:15,452 --> 00:27:17,410 I had to work with, the time frame... 532 00:27:17,412 --> 00:27:18,631 Oh, my fear of heights... 533 00:27:18,633 --> 00:27:20,638 - Just take the compliment. - Thank you so much. 534 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,481 Alright, no peeking, Mendez. 535 00:27:23,483 --> 00:27:25,528 I know you can't talk and I'm not letting you see, 536 00:27:25,530 --> 00:27:28,083 so you're probably smelling a lot more of Boston 537 00:27:28,085 --> 00:27:29,708 than you'd probably like to. 538 00:27:29,710 --> 00:27:30,754 Alright. 539 00:27:30,865 --> 00:27:32,497 You can open your eyes. 540 00:27:33,183 --> 00:27:36,056 You keep insisting that I choose to remember 541 00:27:36,058 --> 00:27:38,521 all of the wonderful things we've done together. 542 00:27:39,150 --> 00:27:40,591 And you're right. 543 00:27:42,340 --> 00:27:46,067 Well, I made you... 544 00:27:48,739 --> 00:27:50,266 This. 545 00:27:54,048 --> 00:27:55,847 _ 546 00:28:14,739 --> 00:28:15,939 Maybe a little. 547 00:28:18,647 --> 00:28:20,333 - _ - Yeah. 548 00:28:20,357 --> 00:28:22,308 He... He helped. 549 00:28:22,310 --> 00:28:25,095 It wasn't just me, you know? 550 00:28:47,125 --> 00:28:49,381 - You had fun today? - Are you kidding me? 551 00:28:49,383 --> 00:28:51,366 I have never felt so alive! 552 00:28:51,368 --> 00:28:53,209 Imagine how you'd feel if you actually 553 00:28:53,211 --> 00:28:54,764 had been up there committing the crime. 554 00:28:54,766 --> 00:28:56,768 Right? 555 00:28:58,555 --> 00:29:01,491 Hey, guys. What are you doing here? 556 00:29:10,519 --> 00:29:12,608 Maggie, we need to show you something. 557 00:29:13,373 --> 00:29:14,639 What is it? 558 00:29:14,641 --> 00:29:18,108 It's a video that Gary made. 559 00:29:18,110 --> 00:29:19,866 A while ago. 560 00:29:28,103 --> 00:29:30,367 Is Daddy making silly faces? 561 00:29:31,092 --> 00:29:32,224 Yeah. 562 00:29:32,893 --> 00:29:34,070 Hey, Bloom. 563 00:29:35,162 --> 00:29:37,742 If you're seeing this video, 564 00:29:38,581 --> 00:29:42,454 it means none of our valiant efforts worked out. 565 00:29:42,460 --> 00:29:44,781 And sadly, we don't have the bankroll 566 00:29:44,783 --> 00:29:47,695 to cryogenically freeze my body and stash me in an ice chamber 567 00:29:47,697 --> 00:29:49,953 somewhere in Southern California. 568 00:29:50,856 --> 00:29:55,643 But seriously, we exhausted every other possibility. 569 00:29:55,652 --> 00:29:59,062 I know how hard you fought, my love. 570 00:30:00,127 --> 00:30:01,999 And I hope you know, too. 571 00:30:04,460 --> 00:30:06,375 But it's time. 572 00:30:23,201 --> 00:30:25,689 We know this is hard. 573 00:30:25,785 --> 00:30:28,048 But it's what he wants. 574 00:30:48,776 --> 00:30:50,900 Mnh-mnh. You know how I feel about this. 575 00:30:50,902 --> 00:30:52,822 I do know. 576 00:30:53,996 --> 00:30:56,572 That's why I didn't tell you about it before. 577 00:30:57,189 --> 00:30:59,494 And, honestly, I don't know how to do this, 578 00:30:59,496 --> 00:31:02,298 but I don't think I could live with myself if I didn't. 579 00:31:02,813 --> 00:31:04,572 I just need you 580 00:31:04,574 --> 00:31:06,533 to get Javi. 581 00:31:08,075 --> 00:31:10,860 Take him to Katherine's. 582 00:31:10,998 --> 00:31:13,043 I'll be there as soon as I can. 583 00:31:17,425 --> 00:31:19,514 Gina. 584 00:31:22,965 --> 00:31:26,384 Okay, I-I can't not say this. 585 00:31:26,973 --> 00:31:30,890 You were a terrible first date, Gary Mendez. 586 00:31:40,390 --> 00:31:42,783 I love you, Gary. 587 00:31:50,002 --> 00:31:52,091 I know. 588 00:32:10,742 --> 00:32:13,072 I got him, Maggie. 589 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:15,619 Hi. 590 00:32:16,839 --> 00:32:18,681 Yeah. 591 00:33:09,629 --> 00:33:11,752 You're not doing this. 592 00:33:11,754 --> 00:33:13,800 - Maggie... - I am doing it. 593 00:33:23,621 --> 00:33:25,536 You two go to Katherine's. 594 00:33:38,211 --> 00:33:40,932 Is this a bad time to tell you I never liked you? 595 00:33:46,106 --> 00:33:48,239 I love you, man. 596 00:33:48,241 --> 00:33:50,112 I'll keep Eddie in line. 597 00:33:51,016 --> 00:33:52,888 I love you. 598 00:33:59,739 --> 00:34:01,815 And Eddie thought Aaron Burr was a Black man 599 00:34:01,817 --> 00:34:04,877 just because the actor playing him in "Hamilton" was Black. 600 00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,754 What? 601 00:34:14,159 --> 00:34:16,766 Alright, alright, my turn, my turn. 602 00:34:16,768 --> 00:34:18,368 Here's something you guys don't know. 603 00:34:18,370 --> 00:34:21,720 - Yeah? - Gary has seen my boobs. 604 00:34:21,722 --> 00:34:23,266 - What?! - I know. That's right. 605 00:34:23,268 --> 00:34:24,743 Oh, yeah, that was for, like, an insurance appraisal, right? 606 00:34:27,203 --> 00:34:28,523 Wait, what? 607 00:34:28,525 --> 00:34:31,165 Apparently, his cable was out. 608 00:34:31,167 --> 00:34:34,141 Yes, I told him he could come watch the game at our place. 609 00:34:34,143 --> 00:34:36,228 Yeah. But you didn't tell me. 610 00:34:36,230 --> 00:34:38,100 No, I didn't! 611 00:34:38,336 --> 00:34:39,891 Okay. 612 00:34:39,893 --> 00:34:43,009 So, I made 200 bucks busking one time, 613 00:34:43,011 --> 00:34:45,013 and it was the most I had ever made, ever, 614 00:34:45,015 --> 00:34:46,972 and then I find out 615 00:34:46,974 --> 00:34:50,063 that it was because Gary had gone around Harvard Square 616 00:34:50,065 --> 00:34:52,360 giving out $5 and $10 bills. 617 00:35:15,140 --> 00:35:17,866 _ 618 00:35:19,007 --> 00:35:20,632 Okay. 619 00:35:20,977 --> 00:35:23,256 Alright, "Made you look." 620 00:35:23,258 --> 00:35:25,030 Yeah, well... 621 00:35:25,821 --> 00:35:28,085 You won. 622 00:35:33,917 --> 00:35:36,295 We won. 623 00:36:12,828 --> 00:36:14,482 No, he did not pay for dinner. 624 00:36:14,484 --> 00:36:15,691 I paid for dinner. 625 00:36:15,693 --> 00:36:17,629 He said he forgot his wallet, but you know what? 626 00:36:17,631 --> 00:36:20,301 I just think he spent all his money on those frosted tips. 627 00:36:20,303 --> 00:36:22,590 Probably. 628 00:36:24,997 --> 00:36:27,644 I mean, uh, I'm 12, 629 00:36:27,646 --> 00:36:29,230 my... my dad just died, 630 00:36:29,232 --> 00:36:32,104 and, you know, I-I have this really big secret. 631 00:36:32,478 --> 00:36:34,941 And, uh... 632 00:36:34,980 --> 00:36:36,808 out of the blue, 633 00:36:36,810 --> 00:36:40,771 Gary has the balls to turn to me and say, 634 00:36:40,776 --> 00:36:43,736 "When you're ready to tell me Ella's a boy..." 635 00:36:46,536 --> 00:36:48,451 "I'm ready to hear it." 636 00:36:51,415 --> 00:36:53,880 I mean, who says that to a kid? 637 00:36:54,230 --> 00:36:56,972 Gary Mendez says that to a kid. 638 00:37:06,106 --> 00:37:08,893 I want you to know it's okay 639 00:37:08,895 --> 00:37:11,862 if you want to go now, alright? 640 00:37:11,864 --> 00:37:13,779 I'm gonna be okay 641 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:17,003 and Javi's gonna be okay 642 00:37:17,091 --> 00:37:20,049 'cause we have friends all around us 643 00:37:20,433 --> 00:37:23,654 who are gonna help take care of us, okay? 644 00:37:24,338 --> 00:37:26,565 So you can let go. 645 00:37:27,957 --> 00:37:30,987 Yeah. It's time. 646 00:37:30,989 --> 00:37:33,354 Alright? I love you. 647 00:37:35,317 --> 00:37:37,929 I love you so much. 648 00:37:47,328 --> 00:37:49,526 Okay, here we go. 649 00:37:49,682 --> 00:37:52,299 Hey, pal. It's Dad. 650 00:37:52,301 --> 00:37:55,120 And in some weird, uh, 651 00:37:55,122 --> 00:37:56,870 "Back to the Future" way, 652 00:37:56,872 --> 00:37:59,088 that's actually you crying in the background. 653 00:37:59,242 --> 00:38:00,737 But your mom's on it, 654 00:38:00,739 --> 00:38:04,160 just like I know she's been on it these last 16 years... 655 00:38:04,162 --> 00:38:06,033 Wait, is it 16?! 656 00:38:06,035 --> 00:38:07,690 What?! 657 00:38:08,616 --> 00:38:10,971 Oh, yeah, happy birthday. 658 00:38:11,012 --> 00:38:12,916 Jav, let's go! 659 00:38:12,918 --> 00:38:14,581 - Whoa. Do you have chest hair now? - I want to get 660 00:38:14,583 --> 00:38:17,633 that driving lesson in before we get to Rome and Gina's. 661 00:38:18,661 --> 00:38:20,489 You're watching it again? 662 00:38:20,491 --> 00:38:22,906 I mean, the man went through the trouble of making it for me. 663 00:38:22,908 --> 00:38:24,997 The least I could do is run it back. 664 00:38:28,627 --> 00:38:31,630 16?! Oh, my God. 665 00:38:31,908 --> 00:38:33,736 That means you're gonna be driving. 666 00:38:33,738 --> 00:38:35,203 Good luck, everybody. 667 00:38:35,205 --> 00:38:36,867 Watch out, watch out, watch out! 668 00:38:36,869 --> 00:38:38,203 Says the woman who got a ticket 669 00:38:38,205 --> 00:38:39,562 for driving too slowly. 670 00:38:39,564 --> 00:38:41,625 No, you do not talk to your mother that way. 671 00:38:41,627 --> 00:38:43,585 And I was looking for an address... 672 00:38:43,587 --> 00:38:44,945 for a while. 673 00:38:44,947 --> 00:38:46,109 Well, that's fair. 674 00:38:48,028 --> 00:38:49,665 Believe it or not... 675 00:38:50,366 --> 00:38:54,156 This is my last video for you. 676 00:38:54,292 --> 00:38:56,367 Don't worry. You can watch it as many times as you want. 677 00:38:56,369 --> 00:38:58,680 It's not gonna self-destruct. 678 00:38:59,116 --> 00:39:00,851 I mean, it... It may self-destruct. 679 00:39:00,853 --> 00:39:03,437 I don't know what videos are like in the future. 680 00:39:03,905 --> 00:39:05,976 Even though that may seem sad, 681 00:39:05,978 --> 00:39:08,024 I want you to know something that I didn't know 682 00:39:08,026 --> 00:39:10,461 until my dad was gone. 683 00:39:12,381 --> 00:39:14,851 It's actually something your mom taught me. 684 00:39:15,048 --> 00:39:18,312 He's with me all the time. 685 00:39:20,010 --> 00:39:22,195 - That's so sweet. - Yeah. 686 00:39:22,205 --> 00:39:24,594 Even though I'm gone physically, 687 00:39:24,596 --> 00:39:26,469 I am still here. 688 00:39:26,471 --> 00:39:29,305 Our relationship... It isn't over. 689 00:39:29,307 --> 00:39:32,531 Javi had his first driving lesson today, 690 00:39:32,533 --> 00:39:34,945 and I thought I was going to end up here 691 00:39:34,947 --> 00:39:37,578 next to you, in the ground. 692 00:39:37,580 --> 00:39:38,851 It just changes. 693 00:39:38,853 --> 00:39:40,898 I know you're watching, so I'm not gonna bore you 694 00:39:40,900 --> 00:39:42,859 with all the small things. 695 00:39:42,861 --> 00:39:44,937 Um, I hope you're having fun with your dad. 696 00:39:44,939 --> 00:39:45,961 Sure, there's gonna be times 697 00:39:45,963 --> 00:39:47,937 when you wish I was still around 698 00:39:48,847 --> 00:39:51,234 and that this story ended in a different way. 699 00:39:51,236 --> 00:39:52,324 I owe this girl a walk. 700 00:39:52,326 --> 00:39:55,312 Daisy has been very patient with me. 701 00:39:55,314 --> 00:39:57,272 Hi, girl! You ready? 702 00:39:57,274 --> 00:39:59,450 But you can't let that keep you from moving forward. 703 00:39:59,452 --> 00:40:02,008 I have a date on Saturday. 704 00:40:02,010 --> 00:40:06,359 He's a father at Javi's school, and... 705 00:40:06,517 --> 00:40:09,281 he seems emotionally available. 706 00:40:09,283 --> 00:40:10,961 So, if you could, uh, 707 00:40:10,963 --> 00:40:13,375 talk to the big guy for me, that would be great. 708 00:40:16,599 --> 00:40:18,470 I miss you, Mendez. 709 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,284 The key is to do what I did. 710 00:40:22,286 --> 00:40:25,261 Surround yourself with an incredible group of friends 711 00:40:25,263 --> 00:40:27,667 because if you choose wisely, 712 00:40:27,669 --> 00:40:30,784 those friends will become your family. 713 00:40:32,523 --> 00:40:35,526 We leaned on each other through the toughest of times. 714 00:40:36,171 --> 00:40:37,476 More pizza for the... 715 00:40:37,478 --> 00:40:38,557 'Cause you're gonna make mistakes. 716 00:40:38,559 --> 00:40:41,823 Son, you absolutely have to make mistakes. 717 00:40:42,485 --> 00:40:43,744 But when you surround yourself 718 00:40:43,746 --> 00:40:45,704 with the right group of friends, 719 00:40:45,706 --> 00:40:47,011 they're gonna be there for you 720 00:40:47,013 --> 00:40:48,914 when you lose sight of the horizon. 721 00:40:50,778 --> 00:40:53,188 But you're also gonna be there for them, 722 00:40:53,190 --> 00:40:55,366 and you're gonna celebrate incredible things. 723 00:40:55,368 --> 00:40:57,969 Hey, hey, hey, none for my baby mama. 724 00:40:57,971 --> 00:41:00,031 Our little man in there is still training. 725 00:41:00,033 --> 00:41:01,289 How about you? 726 00:41:04,122 --> 00:41:06,633 Theo! 727 00:41:06,761 --> 00:41:09,266 Lana, will you light the candles? 728 00:41:09,942 --> 00:41:12,625 ? Happy birthday, dear Javi ? 729 00:41:12,627 --> 00:41:14,321 So, when you find that group of friends... 730 00:41:14,323 --> 00:41:16,899 And you will... Hold on to them. 731 00:41:20,779 --> 00:41:23,672 And as amazing as they'll be, know this... 732 00:41:23,674 --> 00:41:26,149 I will always be right here, 733 00:41:26,151 --> 00:41:28,500 right next to you, loving you. 734 00:41:30,164 --> 00:41:33,594 And anytime a complete stranger smiles at you out of nowhere... 735 00:41:34,453 --> 00:41:36,180 I got it. 736 00:41:36,182 --> 00:41:37,357 There you go. 737 00:41:37,359 --> 00:41:38,781 - Thanks. - Yeah. 738 00:41:38,783 --> 00:41:40,132 Enjoy the game. 739 00:41:40,352 --> 00:41:42,055 There's a decent chance that's me. 740 00:41:45,584 --> 00:41:47,412 Here you go, guys. 741 00:41:47,414 --> 00:41:48,840 - Mmm. Thank you. - Soda? 742 00:41:48,842 --> 00:41:50,973 Yeah, that's what we get for sending a 16-year-old. 743 00:41:50,975 --> 00:41:52,020 Come on. 744 00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:55,262 To the band of dads? 745 00:41:55,264 --> 00:41:57,136 Band of Dads! 746 00:42:00,344 --> 00:42:02,574 Ohhh! 747 00:42:03,193 --> 00:42:05,021 - Let's take a photo. - Okay, okay. 748 00:42:05,023 --> 00:42:06,981 - Ready? Ready? - Everyone say, "Go, B's!" 749 00:42:06,983 --> 00:42:08,184 Go B's! 750 00:42:08,186 --> 00:42:09,821 Go B's! 751 00:42:11,063 --> 00:42:12,964 Oh, and mijo? 752 00:42:14,856 --> 00:42:16,814 Have a beautiful life. 753 00:42:19,911 --> 00:42:27,911 Synced & corrected by QueenMaddie www.addic7ed.com