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Bronwyn? You here?

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I can't find my keys.

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Why is he still here? Where's Sylvia?

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I don't know.

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Been trying to reach her all morning.

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- Has he eaten?
- Uh, I ordered us some coffees

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from Balthazar and I
got him an eggs Benedict.

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- He wouldn't touch it.
- All right.

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Hey, Bash? Bud?

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Hey, can you, um, can you try the bread?

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I don't like that.

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- Why not?
- It's bland.

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What... Do you want me to
put something on it for you?

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Spicy curry mango?

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What?

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Yeah? Okay.

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Keep eating, please.

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Mm.

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Oh, my God.

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Oh. How is that "slight pepper"?

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Could you take him?

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I have to help Simon prep
a presentation before 9:00.

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I... no, I... oh, shit,
that stuff is really spicy.

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Oh, my God.

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Fine. I already missed yoga.

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Mm.

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Hello?

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- Hey, Bash.
- Yes?

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I'll take you to school today.

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Really?

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Uh-huh.

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Uh-huh. Uh-huh.

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Eat, Bash.

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Uh-huh.

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- Of course.
- What is it?

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Of course.

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Sylvia died.

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W-What, what happened? How?

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They don't know.

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Mom, where's Sylvia?

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Oh, honey, I already told you,

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she is not gonna make it today.

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Is she gonna pick me up?

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No, honey, Mommy or
Daddy will pick you up.

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But I want Sylvia.

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I know, honey.

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Are you sad because you
missed your yoga class?

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Do you need an ocean breath?

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Oh, honey.

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Everything is gonna be okay.

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Hugs.

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- Mommy?
- Yes, Bash?

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Sylvia walks me to my class.

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Oh. Okay.

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Hey, how was your day?

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Mm, it was okay.

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How was yours?

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- Fine, under the circumstances.
- Mm-hmm.

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You know, I gave the
doorman that envelope

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that was addressed to Sylvia.

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Told him return it to sender.

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He said he has no idea
who left it at our door.

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- Strange.
- It's weird, right?

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How's Sebastian doing?

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Good. Playing with that
coding thing you got him.

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Hey, you know, his teacher asked me

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why we weren't at family
picture day, in front of him.

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What? I mean, we couldn't
have been the only parents.

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Right? I mean, seriously.

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It was ridiculous.

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So...

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how do you want to tell Bash?

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Yeah, yeah, I was thinking
about that, too. Um...

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Do we want to tell him?

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Absolutely.

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I mean, we don't want to lie to him.

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She was a really big part of his life.

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If we don't say anything,

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he's gonna think death is a bad thing.

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Well, it isn't the best thing.

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What did Dr. Lipschitz say
about teachable moments?

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You remember?

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Yeah, okay, I'll see you soon.

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All right. Bye.

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Bye.

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- Hey, Bash.
- Hey.

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- Hey, hey, hey.
- Hey.

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Hey, buddy.

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- What you playing?
- Wow.

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Look at this.

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What's this one?

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That... this is a Kosmocertops.

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- Whoa. I love it.
- Wow.

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So cool.

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Hey, Bash.

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You remember that old dog

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- we used to have when you were...
- Mm, no. Mm-mm, mm-mm.

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Well...

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you really love
dinosaurs, don't you, Bash?

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Uh, did you know

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that some things go extinct...

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- Yeah.
- Like dinosaurs

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and woolly mammoths.

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Like a meteor hit them?

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- Maybe.
- Mm-hmm.

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Yeah. Maybe.

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Or sometimes,

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they... might fall asleep

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and not wake up.

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Can that happen to me?

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- No. Mm-mm. No way.
- No. No.

112
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That only happens
when you're really old.

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Can that happen to you?

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- No. No, no, no, no.
- No, no, no. No.

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But you're both old.

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Sylvia died.

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Can she come back and say goodbye

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and then go back to being dead?

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I don't think so, Bash.

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But sometimes, when people die,

121
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they have a special ceremony
to celebrate their life,

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and it's called a funeral.

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Can we go to there?

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- We can...
- Maybe. Maybe.

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Me and Daddy just need
to talk about it first.

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O-Okay?

127
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Maybe it's that foam roller?

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I'll check.

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- Mm-hmm.
- Where did she go?

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Oh...

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Nobody knows, baby.

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Maybe Sylvia went back
to Trinidad and Tobago.

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_

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I just never realised how many things

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she had lying around the house.

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I mean, bags...

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wigs, dresses.

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We'll contact her family.

139
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We should've hired somebody younger.

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Yeah, you know, hon?

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I think we should take him.

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No, that... it is, it
is too jarring for a kid

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- in kindergarten.
- Okay, listen.

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I thought about it.

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I think this could be
a real teachable moment.

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I mean, he said he wanted to see her.

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I think we should honor his wishes.

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You know, I was reading
about how we as Americans

149
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have commodified death to the point

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where it's become this,
like, foreign, scary thing.

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I mean, it used to be
that the living room...

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The living room, in your house...

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Used to be the death room.

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I mean, it's where you
would house the body

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of the dead person and people
would come and go for days

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just to, just to look
at-at the dead person.

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Ew.

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I'm gonna call her phone.

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Maybe we can return these
things to her family in person.

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I think her daughter said the
service starts at 10:00 a. m.

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I don't know. It was
hard to understand her.

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Maybe this next person

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can be a bit more...

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metropolitan.

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Mm-hmm.

166
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Sounds expensive.

167
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Sylvia wasn't cheap.

168
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No. Sylvia wasn't expensive.

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Babe, you know what would be so great?

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- Hmm?
- If Sebastian

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could become fluent in Mandarin.

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Look, you know how hard it is to
find a Chinese nanny right now.

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Why? No, you're just not
asking the right people.

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You don't know where to look.

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If you want him to be in
business, he needs to learn

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the language of busin...

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I'm scared.

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Oh, you were so quiet, Sebastian.

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I didn't, I didn't see you, baby.

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Sylvia sits in my room when I'm scared.

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Sometimes she rubs my back.

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In a circle.

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And then, she sits in the
rocking chair and sings

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the "Sweet T and T" song.

185
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What?

186
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? Sweet, sweet, T and T ?

187
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? Trini to the bone. ?

188
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Oh, um, well, I don't know that song.

189
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But I do know...

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? Baby Beluga in the deep blue sea ?

191
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? Swims so wild and
he swims so free ?

192
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? Heaven above and the sea below ?

193
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? It's a little white
whale on the go. ?

194
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We're all here and we are all safe.

195
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So you don't have to worry.

196
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I feel worried.

197
00:14:01,438 --> 00:14:03,476
Well, that is okay.

198
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You okay, Bash?

199
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Yep. We are out there.

200
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Hmm. Practically in the islands.

201
00:14:36,550 --> 00:14:39,081
Hi, guys. Hi.

202
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Uh, we're looking for
Sylvia Hosannah's funeral.

203
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Is it... Is this it?

204
00:14:44,818 --> 00:14:46,646
- Are you Miles?
- I am.

205
00:14:46,671 --> 00:14:48,676
Yeah, we met on the phone. I'm Khadija.

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- Sylvia's daughter.
- Oh, really nice to meet you.

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00:14:51,806 --> 00:14:54,153
- Our condolences.
- Thank you so much.

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She was so much a
part of our son's life.

209
00:14:56,549 --> 00:14:58,219
- Oh, I know.
- Yeah.

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You know, we-we have

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some of her belongings
here from our apartment.

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00:15:01,929 --> 00:15:02,858
- We want to make sure
- Oh.

213
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We get those to you today.

214
00:15:04,084 --> 00:15:06,201
Oh, yeah. Great, thank you so much.

215
00:15:06,235 --> 00:15:07,237
Cockroach.

216
00:15:07,270 --> 00:15:09,631
Richard. Stop it.

217
00:15:10,143 --> 00:15:12,247
Trust me, it's not as bad as it sounds.

218
00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:15,119
"Cockroach has no place at fowl party."

219
00:15:15,153 --> 00:15:18,259
A'A, and I bet you know what that means.

220
00:15:18,292 --> 00:15:20,664
You must be Sebastian.

221
00:15:20,698 --> 00:15:23,407
Mommy used to call you
her little curry mouth

222
00:15:23,439 --> 00:15:25,884
because you love her
roti and ate it plenty.

223
00:15:25,909 --> 00:15:30,733
I heard so much about you, all of you.

224
00:15:30,765 --> 00:15:33,147
So all are staying for
the wake later, right?

225
00:15:33,858 --> 00:15:37,798
Yes, we is family now, and you
have to stay for the wake later.

226
00:15:37,832 --> 00:15:39,401
Right? And you'll have plenty food.

227
00:15:39,434 --> 00:15:41,560
It will have pelau, corn soup,

228
00:15:41,585 --> 00:15:44,741
fish broth, doubles, roti.

229
00:15:45,580 --> 00:15:48,157
And as Mommy used to say,
it's better belly bust...

230
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Than good food waste.

231
00:15:51,458 --> 00:15:53,400
- You know me heart.
- A'A.

232
00:15:53,425 --> 00:15:56,670
But it's a little Trini all here?

233
00:15:56,703 --> 00:15:58,628
- Wow...
- Oh, my gosh.

234
00:15:58,653 --> 00:16:01,813
Thank you so much, Sebastian.
You made me laugh today.

235
00:16:01,846 --> 00:16:04,184
- Thank you.
- That's great.

236
00:16:04,217 --> 00:16:07,290
Um, so c... am I okay here?

237
00:16:07,324 --> 00:16:08,966
- Can I pull...
- Oh, just follow me,

238
00:16:08,991 --> 00:16:10,305
I'll show you where to park.

239
00:16:10,330 --> 00:16:11,986
Oh, I'll take Sebastian
out and wait for you.

240
00:16:12,010 --> 00:16:13,149
Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

241
00:16:21,418 --> 00:16:22,845
Great.

242
00:16:23,915 --> 00:16:24,917
Um...

243
00:16:26,863 --> 00:16:30,092
Am I gonna be able to,
uh, like, get out of here?

244
00:16:30,117 --> 00:16:32,183
Oh, yeah, yeah, just rest
the car keys on the hood

245
00:16:32,207 --> 00:16:33,701
and Richie will take care of you.

246
00:16:33,938 --> 00:16:36,577
- Oh, okay.
- Mm-hmm. Richie.

247
00:16:39,488 --> 00:16:41,161
All right. Okay.

248
00:16:42,053 --> 00:16:43,474
Hi, Richie.

249
00:16:44,889 --> 00:16:46,286
Hi, Richie.

250
00:16:47,853 --> 00:16:50,247
- Hi... okay.
- It's fine. It's fine.

251
00:17:02,981 --> 00:17:05,373
- Thank you.
- Thank you. I'm good, thanks.

252
00:17:08,403 --> 00:17:10,524
Okay. Hey.

253
00:17:10,549 --> 00:17:12,453
Take my hand.

254
00:17:27,283 --> 00:17:29,889
I'm gonna lift you up
so you can see, okay?

255
00:17:38,941 --> 00:17:40,477
Okay?

256
00:17:43,753 --> 00:17:46,892
Good job, buddy. Let's go find a seat.

257
00:17:52,567 --> 00:17:55,273
Excuse me. Can we take these? Thank you.

258
00:17:55,306 --> 00:17:57,410
- Thank you.
- You sit here.

259
00:17:57,889 --> 00:17:59,926
I'll sit next to you.

260
00:18:02,483 --> 00:18:04,320
Good job, bud.

261
00:18:09,508 --> 00:18:12,273
Hey, y'all must be the Warners.

262
00:18:12,777 --> 00:18:14,544
Sylvia did love your family.

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00:18:14,578 --> 00:18:16,381
She really did.

264
00:18:16,699 --> 00:18:18,452
I'm glad you're all here.

265
00:18:18,486 --> 00:18:20,574
My condolences and thank you.

266
00:18:20,848 --> 00:18:22,293
You're her brother?

267
00:18:22,327 --> 00:18:24,331
Nah, her comparé.

268
00:18:24,364 --> 00:18:25,701
Oh.

269
00:18:25,734 --> 00:18:27,337
My name is Devon.

270
00:18:27,370 --> 00:18:29,541
Now, if you guys are in the market

271
00:18:29,574 --> 00:18:32,447
for a new childcare service,

272
00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:34,719
I'd like to offer my assistance.

273
00:18:35,052 --> 00:18:37,356
I-I've been a Little League coach,

274
00:18:37,381 --> 00:18:39,365
spiritual therapist

275
00:18:39,390 --> 00:18:41,592
and I install televisions when I can.

276
00:18:41,617 --> 00:18:45,193
- Wow.
- Just hit my line.

277
00:18:45,490 --> 00:18:47,254
You don't have shame?

278
00:18:47,279 --> 00:18:49,381
Know your place.

279
00:18:55,285 --> 00:18:56,981
Hey. Psst.

280
00:18:57,738 --> 00:18:59,575
My name's Curtis.

281
00:18:59,731 --> 00:19:01,906
Hi. Miles. Hi.

282
00:19:01,940 --> 00:19:03,977
Uh, this is my wife and son.

283
00:19:04,010 --> 00:19:05,881
Yeah, man, nice to meet you.

284
00:19:05,914 --> 00:19:07,818
- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.

285
00:19:09,655 --> 00:19:11,625
So, how you know Sylvia?

286
00:19:12,289 --> 00:19:14,531
Well, Sylvia used to care for Sebastian.

287
00:19:14,564 --> 00:19:16,368
Oh, serious?

288
00:19:16,401 --> 00:19:19,201
You know, Sylvia was
my babysitter, too. Ha.

289
00:19:19,226 --> 00:19:21,478
- Wow.
- Yeah, it's a sad day.

290
00:19:21,512 --> 00:19:23,379
But she'd be happy
we're all here, you know.

291
00:19:23,404 --> 00:19:24,426
Yeah.

292
00:19:26,388 --> 00:19:30,363
So, um, you grow up in Trinidad?

293
00:19:30,396 --> 00:19:32,011
Or Jamaica?

294
00:19:32,036 --> 00:19:34,161
No, it's Trinidad and Tobago.

295
00:19:34,304 --> 00:19:35,606
And no.

296
00:19:36,526 --> 00:19:38,207
I'm from Tribeca.

297
00:19:40,614 --> 00:19:43,924
Oh. Your-your accent is so... strong.

298
00:19:43,957 --> 00:19:46,061
Yeah, everyone says that.

299
00:19:48,474 --> 00:19:49,982
Sorry I'm late.

300
00:19:50,570 --> 00:19:53,710
As they say, any time is Trini time, eh?

301
00:19:54,724 --> 00:19:56,286
Let the church say "amen."

302
00:19:56,311 --> 00:19:58,060
Amen.

303
00:19:58,085 --> 00:20:00,914
Welcome to the homegoing service

304
00:20:00,939 --> 00:20:04,189
of the beloved Sylvia Lucille Hosannah.

305
00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:07,160
Bow your head and close your eyes.

306
00:20:09,165 --> 00:20:11,039
Psalm 34:18 says,

307
00:20:11,064 --> 00:20:13,554
"God is close to the brokenhearted...

308
00:20:13,580 --> 00:20:14,687
Yes.

309
00:20:14,712 --> 00:20:17,557
And loves those who
are crushed in spirit."

310
00:20:17,590 --> 00:20:19,780
- Yes.
- That mean,

311
00:20:19,805 --> 00:20:22,433
even if you may not feel his presence,

312
00:20:22,883 --> 00:20:24,437
the Lord is close to you.

313
00:20:24,471 --> 00:20:25,950
- Yes.
- Yes, Lord.

314
00:20:25,974 --> 00:20:27,945
And if the Lord is close to you,

315
00:20:27,978 --> 00:20:30,383
Sylvia is close to you, amen?

316
00:20:30,416 --> 00:20:32,655
- Amen.
- Let the church say amen, amen?

317
00:20:32,688 --> 00:20:34,506
- Amen.
- Let the church say "amen."

318
00:20:34,531 --> 00:20:35,727
Amen.

319
00:20:35,761 --> 00:20:37,463
- Amen.
- We have come here today

320
00:20:37,497 --> 00:20:40,102
to celebrate the marvelous life

321
00:20:40,136 --> 00:20:42,942
of Ms. Sylvia Lucille Hosannah.

322
00:20:42,975 --> 00:20:44,556
- Oh, yeah.
- Born in Trinidad

323
00:20:44,581 --> 00:20:48,552
on June the 8th in the year 1957.

324
00:20:48,925 --> 00:20:51,458
She is survived by
her beautiful children,

325
00:20:51,491 --> 00:20:56,663
Princess Lee, Khadija
Lee, her son Steven Lee Jr.

326
00:20:57,413 --> 00:21:00,202
And her grandchildren
Wesley and Zachary.

327
00:21:01,612 --> 00:21:04,484
She was a passionate
childcare professional.

328
00:21:04,517 --> 00:21:05,821
- Yes! Yes!
- Yes.

329
00:21:05,854 --> 00:21:08,592
A nanny and nurse to many, many children

330
00:21:08,626 --> 00:21:11,409
right here in New York City.

331
00:21:11,434 --> 00:21:13,672
And she always loved children, eh?

332
00:21:14,261 --> 00:21:16,508
But she didn't just take
care of children, right?

333
00:21:16,541 --> 00:21:18,112
No.

334
00:21:18,145 --> 00:21:21,618
Before settling down and
having children of her own,

335
00:21:21,784 --> 00:21:24,457
she was a ballet dancer
with the Alvin Ailey

336
00:21:24,482 --> 00:21:27,056
dance company in Harlem
for several years.

337
00:21:27,081 --> 00:21:28,775
Yes.

338
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:32,959
Mixing Trinidadian and
traditional African dance,

339
00:21:33,060 --> 00:21:35,747
she brought a confidence and a freshness

340
00:21:35,781 --> 00:21:38,535
to her rich and vibrant dance milieu.

341
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,771
- Yes.
- Oh, yeah.

342
00:21:40,796 --> 00:21:43,495
Sylvia was the first in her
family to move from Trinidad

343
00:21:43,529 --> 00:21:47,103
to New York and always
sent money to her family.

344
00:21:55,654 --> 00:22:00,199
She tried her best to get
all her brothers and sisters

345
00:22:00,224 --> 00:22:02,239
to the U. S. as well.

346
00:22:03,044 --> 00:22:05,542
Including her sister Nancy,

347
00:22:05,567 --> 00:22:08,245
whose son Oswald is doing his thing

348
00:22:08,278 --> 00:22:10,483
as wide receiver for the Patriots!

349
00:22:13,789 --> 00:22:15,105
Except last week.

350
00:22:15,130 --> 00:22:17,489
Sad as he lost me some money, boy.

351
00:22:18,397 --> 00:22:20,569
Oswald James was related to our nanny?

352
00:22:20,889 --> 00:22:23,903
- Yeah, I heard.
- She will be extremely missed.

353
00:22:24,577 --> 00:22:28,039
God deals with death as
he knows it to be true.

354
00:22:28,989 --> 00:22:32,260
Isaiah 41:10 says,

355
00:22:32,293 --> 00:22:35,425
"Fear not, for I am with you.

356
00:22:35,450 --> 00:22:36,703
- Yes.
- Yes.

357
00:22:36,736 --> 00:22:37,838
"Be not dismayed,

358
00:22:37,871 --> 00:22:40,445
- "for I am your God.
- Yes.

359
00:22:40,470 --> 00:22:42,054
- "I will strengthen you.
- Yes.

360
00:22:42,079 --> 00:22:44,312
- "I will help you.
- Yes.

361
00:22:44,337 --> 00:22:46,555
"I will uphold you
with my righteous hand!

362
00:22:46,588 --> 00:22:49,094
Yes.

363
00:22:50,509 --> 00:22:52,468
With my righteous hand."

364
00:22:53,602 --> 00:22:54,571
Yes.

365
00:22:54,604 --> 00:22:56,517
And she is upheld

366
00:22:56,542 --> 00:22:57,978
with His righteous hand.

367
00:22:58,214 --> 00:23:00,714
And she is with God, sitting where?

368
00:23:00,739 --> 00:23:03,444
- At the right...
- At the right hand of the Father.

369
00:23:04,658 --> 00:23:06,561
- May she rest in peace.
- What was that?

370
00:23:06,595 --> 00:23:08,098
Uh, nothing. Nothing.

371
00:23:08,132 --> 00:23:10,603
And may God bless her sweet, sweet soul.

372
00:23:12,006 --> 00:23:13,642
All right, that done.

373
00:23:13,676 --> 00:23:18,953
Now, as per the deceased
Mrs. Hosannah's wishes,

374
00:23:19,401 --> 00:23:21,638
we are asked to celebrate her life.

375
00:23:22,594 --> 00:23:24,686
I think one thing we
can all say about Sylvia,

376
00:23:24,711 --> 00:23:26,836
is that she believed in tradition...

377
00:23:28,429 --> 00:23:29,984
but she was not at all traditional.

378
00:23:30,997 --> 00:23:32,580
This is true.

379
00:23:32,613 --> 00:23:35,287
She asked that there be limbo dance,

380
00:23:35,312 --> 00:23:37,545
in tribute to Julia Edwards,

381
00:23:37,570 --> 00:23:40,576
before being taken to the burial site.

382
00:23:40,601 --> 00:23:42,266
We have some students and alumni here

383
00:23:42,300 --> 00:23:43,929
from the Hillcrest High School

384
00:23:43,954 --> 00:23:47,610
after-school dance program...
Started by Sylvia, by the way...

385
00:23:47,635 --> 00:23:51,411
To help us fulfill this
ask of Mrs. Hosannah.

386
00:23:51,436 --> 00:23:55,382
We will also be playing one
of Sylvia's favorite songs,

387
00:23:55,554 --> 00:23:58,265
- "Trini 2 De Bone."
- Yes!

388
00:23:58,298 --> 00:24:04,346
So, if all you could please
join us in remembering Sylvia

389
00:24:04,425 --> 00:24:07,083
in the way that she
wanted to be remembered.

390
00:24:08,385 --> 00:24:10,189
Yes. Amen. Amen.

391
00:24:10,222 --> 00:24:11,926
There we go, now.

392
00:24:17,523 --> 00:24:20,496
? Islands in the sun ?

393
00:24:23,734 --> 00:24:26,288
? Islands in the fun ?

394
00:24:27,296 --> 00:24:29,160
? Mm ?

395
00:24:29,538 --> 00:24:32,826
? Welcome, welcome one and
all to the land of fete ?

396
00:24:32,868 --> 00:24:36,776
? Trini to the bone,
Trini to the bone ?

397
00:24:38,111 --> 00:24:39,815
? When it come to bacchanal ?

398
00:24:39,849 --> 00:24:41,686
? Well, they can't beat we yet ?

399
00:24:41,719 --> 00:24:46,729
? Trini to the bone,
Trini to the bone ?

400
00:24:46,762 --> 00:24:48,833
? Look, sweet women
parade abundantly ?

401
00:24:48,867 --> 00:24:50,971
? The brethren,
they full of energy ?

402
00:24:51,004 --> 00:24:53,108
? Some people say God is a Trini ?

403
00:24:53,141 --> 00:24:55,504
? Paradise and all convincing me ?

404
00:24:55,529 --> 00:24:57,116
? God gave us a spirit firey ?

405
00:24:57,150 --> 00:24:59,688
? But nothing in the
world don't bother we ?

406
00:24:59,722 --> 00:25:02,226
? But look, a smart
man gone with we money ?

407
00:25:02,260 --> 00:25:03,963
? We still come out
and mash up the party ?

408
00:25:03,997 --> 00:25:06,301
? Sweet, sweet T and T ?

409
00:25:06,326 --> 00:25:08,372
? Oh, how I love up this country ?

410
00:25:08,405 --> 00:25:10,109
? Sweet, sweet T and T ?

411
00:25:10,250 --> 00:25:13,156
? No place in this
world I'd rather be ?

412
00:25:15,065 --> 00:25:16,821
? Oh, how I love up my country ?

413
00:25:16,846 --> 00:25:19,260
? Sweet, sweet T and T ?

414
00:25:19,294 --> 00:25:22,266
? All this sugar can't
be good for me, oh... ?

415
00:25:22,896 --> 00:25:23,836
All yah!

416
00:25:23,870 --> 00:25:26,927
Stop all of this bacchanal. Stop it!

417
00:25:28,036 --> 00:25:29,682
How-how she reach up there?

418
00:25:29,715 --> 00:25:31,917
- Here we go.
- Everyone here

419
00:25:31,942 --> 00:25:33,957
- loved this woman.
- Princess!

420
00:25:33,990 --> 00:25:37,964
I've heard about her
sacrifices, her selflessness,

421
00:25:37,989 --> 00:25:40,135
but who do you think
she sacrificed, hmm?

422
00:25:40,169 --> 00:25:41,911
To take care of those children, hmm?

423
00:25:41,936 --> 00:25:43,654
She did the best she could, Princess.

424
00:25:43,678 --> 00:25:44,792
Yeah?

425
00:25:44,817 --> 00:25:47,553
Where was she when
we needed her, Steven?

426
00:25:48,154 --> 00:25:50,459
Where was she when
you got jumped uptown,

427
00:25:50,484 --> 00:25:52,588
and I couldn't find you for a whole day?

428
00:25:54,024 --> 00:25:56,161
Where was she when they
broke into our house

429
00:25:56,186 --> 00:25:58,357
and stole my laptop?

430
00:25:58,584 --> 00:26:00,309
Where was she?

431
00:26:00,693 --> 00:26:03,123
Where was she at your finals, Steven?

432
00:26:03,318 --> 00:26:05,152
She was providing for us.

433
00:26:05,192 --> 00:26:06,763
She was with other people's children.

434
00:26:06,789 --> 00:26:08,371
She should've been
taking care of her own!

435
00:26:08,396 --> 00:26:10,654
That's enough, Princess. Stop.

436
00:26:11,347 --> 00:26:13,668
I needed you, Mommy.

437
00:26:14,746 --> 00:26:16,650
And where were you?!

438
00:26:17,576 --> 00:26:20,442
Where were you?! Huh, Mama?!

439
00:26:20,467 --> 00:26:21,949
You've always been crazy, Princess!

440
00:26:21,974 --> 00:26:23,790
Hey, but what you really doing here?

441
00:26:23,823 --> 00:26:25,492
- A'A?
- A'A?

442
00:26:28,365 --> 00:26:29,500
Whoa.

443
00:26:31,237 --> 00:26:33,302
It's a church! Stop!

444
00:26:33,326 --> 00:26:34,697
Stop!

445
00:26:34,721 --> 00:26:36,732
I'm coming with you!

446
00:26:38,785 --> 00:26:40,972
Stop it! Stop!

447
00:26:40,997 --> 00:26:43,938
Worldstar! Worldstar!
There's a fight going down...

448
00:26:43,963 --> 00:26:46,743
Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey! Hey!

449
00:26:46,768 --> 00:26:51,046
Hey! You all need to
calm down right now!

450
00:26:51,071 --> 00:26:53,408
Look, you're scaring the white people.

451
00:26:56,595 --> 00:26:58,131
Uh... No, no, no, no.

452
00:26:58,156 --> 00:26:59,507
No, uh...

453
00:27:00,890 --> 00:27:02,618
We just have to go.

454
00:27:03,766 --> 00:27:07,239
Hey, small man. Are we scaring you?

455
00:27:09,656 --> 00:27:11,130
It's okay.

456
00:27:11,336 --> 00:27:12,985
We're just sad.

457
00:27:15,134 --> 00:27:19,244
This... is how we're sad.

458
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,226
? Sweet, sweet T and T ?

459
00:27:38,545 --> 00:27:41,578
? Oh, how I love my country ?

460
00:27:41,611 --> 00:27:44,484
? Sweet, sweet T and T ?

461
00:27:56,114 --> 00:27:58,485
- You okay, Bash?
- Yes.

462
00:27:58,817 --> 00:28:02,620
Well, if you want to
sleep with us, you can.

463
00:28:02,943 --> 00:28:04,614
I'm okay.

464
00:28:05,136 --> 00:28:08,226
Okay. All right.

465
00:28:09,252 --> 00:28:10,497
Well...

466
00:28:11,989 --> 00:28:14,177
Well, good night.

467
00:28:14,381 --> 00:28:15,848
I love you.

468
00:28:16,301 --> 00:28:18,305
Good night. I love you, Dad.

469
00:28:27,913 --> 00:28:29,849
Good night, Sylvia.

470
00:28:40,659 --> 00:28:42,282
Wow.

471
00:28:43,335 --> 00:28:45,152
Oh, my gosh.

472
00:28:45,887 --> 00:28:49,113
Hey, hon, you know the
origin of the limbo dance?

473
00:28:49,427 --> 00:28:50,862
It's fascinating.

474
00:28:50,887 --> 00:28:52,420
I mean, apparently,

475
00:28:52,535 --> 00:28:56,428
slaves would do it to
mimic going down in the hold

476
00:28:56,461 --> 00:28:58,532
- of a slave ship.
- Did we do the right thing?

477
00:28:58,565 --> 00:29:00,269
What?

478
00:29:01,504 --> 00:29:03,515
Of course we did.

479
00:29:04,510 --> 00:29:06,007
Well, I just...

480
00:29:07,938 --> 00:29:11,467
I mean, people were screaming.

481
00:29:11,492 --> 00:29:13,789
- And-and the way that that woman...
- All right, that...

482
00:29:13,884 --> 00:29:16,210
was yelling at her mother.

483
00:29:17,603 --> 00:29:23,215
I just, I never... want
Sebastian to feel that way.

484
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,920
- Like we weren't there for him.
- No.

485
00:29:25,954 --> 00:29:31,297
We were there for him
today, when he needed us.

486
00:29:31,331 --> 00:29:33,635
We were there for him.
We are there for him.

487
00:29:33,669 --> 00:29:36,689
Look, I know Sebastian, and I know

488
00:29:36,714 --> 00:29:39,206
that he can handle what he saw today.

489
00:29:39,231 --> 00:29:41,149
I know he'll be fine.

490
00:29:52,659 --> 00:29:56,472
You know, when I was putting
Sebastian to bed tonight,

491
00:29:57,190 --> 00:30:01,057
I asked him, "What do you
want to be when you grow up?"

492
00:30:01,090 --> 00:30:06,868
and he said, "I want to play
steelpan like Uncle Samuel."

493
00:30:11,044 --> 00:30:12,513
I don't even...

494
00:30:14,050 --> 00:30:16,524
Honey, wha... U-Uncle Samuel?

495
00:30:17,122 --> 00:30:19,661
I don't know what that
is. Who's Uncle Samuel?

496
00:30:20,018 --> 00:30:22,618
- I don't know.
- Was he there today?

497
00:30:22,643 --> 00:30:24,032
I don't know.

498
00:31:57,618 --> 00:32:05,719
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