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Transgender.

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That's what it's called.

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That's me.

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Basically, when babies are born,
they're assigned a gender

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based on what the doctors
think they look like.

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For trans people, that gender
doesn't match who we are.

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And for many who want or
are able to, we transition.

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It's coming out,
hair and clothes,

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maybe have surgeries,
take hormones.

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That's why I look
really different.

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I take testosterone.

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You can save
your fancy language.

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I don't understand.

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And I don't care.

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Where are you going?

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Dad.

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Dad, we need to talk about this.

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10 years you've been gone,
and now you wanna talk.

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I thought...

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maybe you didn't know,...

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maybe you changed your number.

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And you send flowers,
so you knew.

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You knew,...

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and you didn't come home.

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I can't even say
how sorry I am.

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Don't tell me.

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There's your mum.

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You tell her.

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Would you
deliberately call a cheese

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Camem?bert?

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Hell no.
I know better than that.

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But you don't? But you'd
mispronounce Opoho.

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No, it's not mispronounced.
That's my hometown, Marcus.

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Well, it is... But if I told you
how it was pronounced, right?

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Well, it's a bit late now,
dear. I'm 83 soon.

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But... But...
But why's it too late now?

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Oh, because that's my...
that's my home,

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that's my birthplace.
It's my region, my... No.

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No, and no disrespect
to anybody.

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But, Mary...
Well, it is disrespect,

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cos then you are being
wilfully ignorant. You are.

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No, like hell I am.

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Well, you... But you're
deliberately pronouncing...

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So...

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Yeah.

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How long, do you think?

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I mean, uh...

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You can stay.

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Whoa.

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No way.

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Yeah, I guess it's...

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a little bit different.

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Your mum, uh...

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She kept your room exactly
the same. She wanted...

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She wanted to keep it that way.

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I'm, um, I'm staying with Anahera.

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It's really hard for me,
being here.

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It's hard for you?

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You know what...

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at least you can come in
for a bloody cup of tea.

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It's not locked.

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Oh, hey, man.

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If you're looking for Gerald,
he went up the way.

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Hey, Jem.

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Oh, sorry.
Do we know each other?

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Uh, yeah.

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Oh, you were... you were at the,
uh... the council meeting today.

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Ah, and high school.

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Sorry.
Sorry, man. A long time ago.

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We, uh...

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We used to be a c...

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actually used to be a couple.

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A couple of what?

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I'm, um... I'm Gerald's kid.

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What?

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Holy shit.

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Yeah. Name's Caz now.

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Wait, so you're, um...
you're a...

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A guy, yep.

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We...

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I'm... I'm so sorry.
This is fuckin'...

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really confusing.
I'm not doing this right.

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I shouldn't have come here.

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I'm gonna... I'm gonna go.

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Sweet as.

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It's real good.

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? Hello?
? Shelley from R?rangi Auto.

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- You brought in the Nissan, yeah?
? Yeah.

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It's gonna be at least a week
to get the parts in.

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OK.

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And it's gonna cost you about
a grand. She's pretty stuffed.

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? Can I get back to you?
? Sure.

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I just won't order anything
till I hear from you.

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- All right?
? Yeah, whatever.

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Hey, mate.

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Do you know how much this fella
spent on phosphates last year?

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I don't live here.

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I seen you waving to him on
the way to work every day.

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Oh, here we go.

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Tweedledee and Tweedle?stupid.

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- Ladies.
? How's it going?

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Oh, slowly.

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? How are you?
? Good, good.

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? Not softly... slowly.
? Oh, slowly.

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Haz, what happened today?

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Hey.

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Hey.

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I'm sorry about today.

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Yeah, whatever.

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I mean...

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Oh, fuck me.

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Already did.

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? Sorry.
- At least you're talking to me.

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Oh, your old man?

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Yeah.

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Hey, he'll...

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he'll come around.

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I guess.

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Man, I... can't
get over your voice.

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Magic of testosterone.

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Mate, I don't know what that is.

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Yeah, don't worry about it.

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Uh...

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See you like your beer now.

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? I always liked my beer.
? Yeah, right.

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I'm, uh...

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Hey, uh, I'm...

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I'm gonna get a pint.

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And I thought maybe... maybe

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you want another
one or something.

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Um...

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Yeah, OK.

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? Yeah?
? Yeah.

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Cool.

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Yeah, I'll? I'll go get it.

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Sorry. Pull. Pull. Clo... Yeah.

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Three. Wait, wait, wait.

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? Are you even gonna go, or...?
? I am gonna go. Here we go.

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Three, two, one, go!

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- I reckon I was close.
? No, I was closer.

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Mrs Rawlings' class.

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? Mrs Rawlings?
? Yeah.

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Why do you wanna
see Mrs Rawlings?

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I dunno. Cos she was funky.

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She always had
weird decorations.

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Your jacket.

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Thank you.

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Lead the way.
Let's see if you remember.

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? I don't actually remember.
? OK. It's this way.

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Yeah, right. That way.

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Fuck, remember when we
had to hand in our books

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- at the end of class?
? Wait. Wait, wait, wait, wait.

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? What?
- Finish calculations.

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This is the maths class.

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? Don't tell me it's Miss Girr.
- Yeah, I know.

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What an appropriate name
for such an angry lady.

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? Whoa.
? I'm fine.

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? You should stop drinking.
? Me stop drinking?

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Do you understand all of it?

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I'm not really...

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- on my game.
- No, no, no.

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I think I get it. Like...

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Gender... it's...

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it's complicated.

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Ooh yeah.

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You...

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You were never exactly girly.

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? Yeah, nah.
? Nah, I mean, your mum tried.

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Oh... fuck.

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Shit.

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Sorry about your mum.

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Yeah.

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It's what I liked about you.

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Well, one of the things.

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You weren't like
the other girls.

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That's because I wasn't one.

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Yeah.

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I guess not.

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I think it's cos we could,
like, talk about stuff,

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you know, easy, like mates.

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And...

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you know...

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other things.

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Some stuff.

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What?

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We could talk about some stuff.

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You know, when you left...

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I...

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I got pretty messed up.

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? Fuck. Jem...
? Nah, nah.

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I... I get it.

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It's...

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We had all these plans.

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I loved you.

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? That was never the problem.
? Then why'd you leave?

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Because if I'd stayed,
I would've...

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What?

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What?

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I'd be dead.

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You know, I thought
this would be weird.

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But it's not.

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Yeah.

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You look good.

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- Not too bad yourself.
? Oh, yeah?

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Bit scrawny, maybe.

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What?

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I'm... No, I lift.

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OK? I lift on the farm.

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I think your eyesight isn't
as good as it used to be.

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You see, this, this is au naturel.

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OK? Ooh.

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Allow me.

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Yeah.

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This is way too heavy for you.

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Piss off.

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Whoa.

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I didn't, um...

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? Didn't like?
? Yeah. No! I...

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I don't know.

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You... You're, like, the same,...

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but not.

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Yeah.

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I ca... I c... I can't.

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I don't...

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I have to go.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, I... I have to go.

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