1 00:00:00,372 --> 00:00:01,374 Come on. 2 00:00:01,398 --> 00:00:03,164 Cook your signature dish. 3 00:00:03,453 --> 00:00:05,364 It's perfect for family dinner. What is your problem? 4 00:00:05,388 --> 00:00:07,533 Sure. There's nothing better than pitting family 5 00:00:07,557 --> 00:00:09,034 against one another in a contest 6 00:00:09,058 --> 00:00:11,270 to guarantee a stressless and loving meal. 7 00:00:11,294 --> 00:00:12,905 Hey... whatever it takes to get us all together, 8 00:00:12,929 --> 00:00:14,140 - I'm down with that. - Thank you. 9 00:00:14,164 --> 00:00:15,441 Uh, and I think you will find 10 00:00:15,465 --> 00:00:17,143 my mandarin orange chicken miraculous. 11 00:00:17,167 --> 00:00:18,244 - Mmm, thanks. - Do you want one? 12 00:00:18,268 --> 00:00:19,245 - Dad! - Yes. - She wants one. 13 00:00:19,269 --> 00:00:20,713 - What? - We said no campaigning. 14 00:00:20,737 --> 00:00:23,249 Exactly.: Waffle potato pancakes. 15 00:00:23,273 --> 00:00:24,817 - Hey... - Oh, thank you, that was very subtle. 16 00:00:24,841 --> 00:00:27,086 Waffle potato pancakes, always Yukon Gold, 17 00:00:27,110 --> 00:00:29,955 - always hand shredded. - And thank you. 18 00:00:29,979 --> 00:00:33,092 Thank you to my brilliant and lovely sister 19 00:00:33,116 --> 00:00:37,496 for not cooking, so that we might truly enjoy this meal. 20 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:38,509 Yes. Thank you. 21 00:00:38,533 --> 00:00:41,066 Well... it is my signature dish. Thank you, thank you. 22 00:00:41,090 --> 00:00:43,035 - Now dig in. - Okay. 23 00:00:43,059 --> 00:00:44,937 Um... c-can we say grace? 24 00:00:44,961 --> 00:00:46,672 Oh, we don't do that, sweetie. 25 00:00:46,696 --> 00:00:48,107 Well, why not? 26 00:00:48,131 --> 00:00:49,675 Yeah, we'll talk about it at home, okay? 27 00:00:49,699 --> 00:00:51,444 It's fine with us. 28 00:00:51,468 --> 00:00:52,878 But not with the man who never takes off 29 00:00:52,902 --> 00:00:54,380 his John 3:30 bracelet. 30 00:00:54,404 --> 00:00:57,316 Well, that's about faith. And this is personal. 31 00:00:57,340 --> 00:00:59,151 I-I'm happy to talk about this later. 32 00:00:59,175 --> 00:01:00,519 I just don't think we should casually 33 00:01:00,543 --> 00:01:01,520 participate in a ritual 34 00:01:01,544 --> 00:01:03,088 we haven't defined for ourselves. 35 00:01:03,112 --> 00:01:04,690 Well, Annie casually participated in saying grace 36 00:01:04,714 --> 00:01:06,692 at Gwendolyn's house, and she liked it. 37 00:01:06,716 --> 00:01:09,462 This really isn't the time or the place to discuss it. 38 00:01:09,486 --> 00:01:10,696 Exactly. So in the meantime, if she wants to say 39 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,131 a prayer and be thankful, it wouldn't hurt anyone. 40 00:01:12,155 --> 00:01:13,132 And I think that this should 41 00:01:13,156 --> 00:01:15,234 be a family meeting for another time. 42 00:01:15,258 --> 00:01:18,337 What if the McCords say grace and, Annie, you can join in? 43 00:01:18,361 --> 00:01:21,263 What if you two don't put me on the spot like this? 44 00:01:23,900 --> 00:01:26,045 Mandarin chicken, anybody? 45 00:01:26,069 --> 00:01:27,580 I'm not campaigning, just asking. 46 00:01:27,604 --> 00:01:28,981 Do you remember the prayer you said at Gwendolyn's house? 47 00:01:29,005 --> 00:01:31,050 - Soph. - Yeah. 48 00:01:31,074 --> 00:01:34,920 "God is great, God is good. Let us thank him for this food." 49 00:01:34,944 --> 00:01:35,921 - There we go. Amen. - Amen. 50 00:01:35,945 --> 00:01:38,090 - Annie, do you want chicken? - Yes. 51 00:01:38,114 --> 00:01:39,032 Yum. 52 00:01:39,056 --> 00:01:41,427 Okay, what, these-these are vegan, right? 53 00:01:50,226 --> 00:01:51,504 I can't get past it. 54 00:01:51,528 --> 00:01:53,128 You should really try. 55 00:01:55,265 --> 00:01:57,343 Was it really such a big deal 56 00:01:57,367 --> 00:01:59,278 that his eight-year-old daughter wanted to say 57 00:01:59,302 --> 00:02:00,779 a prayer before dinner? 58 00:02:00,803 --> 00:02:02,281 What, he can't participate 59 00:02:02,305 --> 00:02:04,850 in anything until he's defined it? 60 00:02:04,874 --> 00:02:06,485 - What-what is that? - Babe, a lot of couples have struggles 61 00:02:06,509 --> 00:02:08,561 around the role religion is gonna play in their lives. 62 00:02:08,585 --> 00:02:10,923 - Yes, of course. - Remember us after Stevie was born? 63 00:02:10,947 --> 00:02:15,194 Yes, but the difference is, you... are a sane person 64 00:02:15,218 --> 00:02:18,030 who is willing to listen and respect the fact 65 00:02:18,054 --> 00:02:19,665 that your wife was still working through 66 00:02:19,689 --> 00:02:23,369 some issues about organized religion. Yes, and you were able 67 00:02:23,393 --> 00:02:24,837 to understand that it was important to me to have the kids 68 00:02:24,861 --> 00:02:26,038 - get some exposure to it. - Fine. 69 00:02:26,062 --> 00:02:29,842 Maybe Will and Sophie... just haven't had that talk. 70 00:02:29,866 --> 00:02:32,011 Still... he couldn't just do it for Annie? 71 00:02:32,035 --> 00:02:35,414 Have the-the big talk later? 72 00:02:35,438 --> 00:02:36,849 I don't know. 73 00:02:36,873 --> 00:02:40,152 You can't just put your kid in the middle of a scene 74 00:02:40,176 --> 00:02:44,813 like that to defend some vague... you know... 75 00:02:47,483 --> 00:02:48,984 ...principle. 76 00:02:51,821 --> 00:02:54,400 So you're just deliberately not getting involved. 77 00:02:54,424 --> 00:02:57,703 Bingo. 78 00:02:57,727 --> 00:03:00,806 Because you think that I'm-I'm too parental with Will? 79 00:03:00,830 --> 00:03:02,708 Correct. 80 00:03:02,732 --> 00:03:05,744 Well, I was, actually... 81 00:03:05,768 --> 00:03:10,749 sort of like his parent. And I feel a responsibility 82 00:03:10,773 --> 00:03:13,052 to help when he... 83 00:03:13,076 --> 00:03:14,075 does these things that are... 84 00:03:14,099 --> 00:03:15,487 Yeah, but then you just talk in that tone of voice, 85 00:03:15,511 --> 00:03:17,056 and he gets angry and defensive, 86 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:20,215 - and he can't take in a word you say. - ...so extraordinarily stupid. 87 00:03:28,791 --> 00:03:30,102 Maybe you should talk to him. 88 00:03:30,126 --> 00:03:33,939 - Uh, no. - He respects you. 89 00:03:33,963 --> 00:03:37,610 You could give him some... religious advice. 90 00:03:37,634 --> 00:03:39,845 - Babe, he's a grown man. - It would be a perfect time for you 91 00:03:39,869 --> 00:03:41,780 to trot out your old pal Aquinas. 92 00:03:41,804 --> 00:03:44,016 I'm not gonna talk to him about his adult behavior. 93 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:45,017 It wasn't all that adult. 94 00:03:45,041 --> 00:03:47,820 Stop it. 95 00:03:47,844 --> 00:03:51,690 Look... you're going away tomorrow. 96 00:03:51,714 --> 00:03:54,393 Why don't you join me in this bed 97 00:03:54,417 --> 00:03:57,452 and we can not talk about it? 98 00:03:59,122 --> 00:04:00,633 Okay. 99 00:04:05,995 --> 00:04:08,107 You move that State Department folder one more time, 100 00:04:08,131 --> 00:04:09,775 and I will turn your stay on the seventh floor 101 00:04:09,799 --> 00:04:14,046 into a horrifying fever dream. 102 00:04:14,070 --> 00:04:15,403 Thank you. 103 00:04:16,539 --> 00:04:17,850 You'd think the Defense Department would be 104 00:04:17,874 --> 00:04:19,351 a little more secure. 105 00:04:19,375 --> 00:04:21,353 You know what? I'm actually kind of relieved 106 00:04:21,377 --> 00:04:23,422 I don't have to go to Afghanistan with this crowd. 107 00:04:23,446 --> 00:04:25,557 The signing of the Afghanistan Rebuild-Renew Agreement 108 00:04:25,581 --> 00:04:27,333 would be the event of the year if we can pull it off. 109 00:04:27,357 --> 00:04:30,562 Hey! Leave it! Thank you. 110 00:04:30,586 --> 00:04:32,231 You're right. It could get tense. 111 00:04:32,255 --> 00:04:33,866 Still got a lot of details to work out 112 00:04:33,890 --> 00:04:36,035 with President Sharza about the spending 113 00:04:36,059 --> 00:04:38,937 of this $10 billion aid package we're sending them. 114 00:04:38,961 --> 00:04:40,973 Yeah, well, they've done everything they promised 115 00:04:40,997 --> 00:04:42,841 in terms of meeting their human rights benchmarks 116 00:04:42,865 --> 00:04:44,510 and allowing the Taliban to be a part of the government. 117 00:04:44,534 --> 00:04:46,045 So, they'll be tough, but it'll work out, 118 00:04:46,069 --> 00:04:47,780 because it's $10 billion and they need it. 119 00:04:47,804 --> 00:04:49,548 And Gordon Becker will get that drawdown 120 00:04:49,572 --> 00:04:51,784 on close to 90,000 troops. 121 00:04:51,808 --> 00:04:54,253 Still no women allowed in government, though. 122 00:04:54,277 --> 00:04:57,823 That must have been a hard concession for M-Sec to make. 123 00:04:57,847 --> 00:04:59,391 You have no idea. Majority of Afghans 124 00:04:59,415 --> 00:05:00,826 wanted the Taliban involved in the government, 125 00:05:00,850 --> 00:05:02,661 and they weren't willing to budge on that. 126 00:05:02,685 --> 00:05:05,064 Oh, well. Just give 'em another hundred years or so. 127 00:05:05,088 --> 00:05:06,465 Oh! 128 00:05:06,489 --> 00:05:09,368 Hey, someone's a little overeager for the trip. 129 00:05:09,392 --> 00:05:13,305 Okay, okay. I-I got that thing for my mom first, remember? 130 00:05:13,329 --> 00:05:15,240 I'm arriving in Kabul a day late. 131 00:05:15,264 --> 00:05:16,308 - Oh, right. - What thing? 132 00:05:16,332 --> 00:05:17,843 Her 70th birthday. 133 00:05:17,867 --> 00:05:19,178 Oh, that's quite a thing. 134 00:05:19,202 --> 00:05:21,213 Yeah, her mosque is throwing her a party, 135 00:05:21,237 --> 00:05:22,715 and I'm her surprise gift. 136 00:05:22,739 --> 00:05:26,318 Oh. But you're also arriving 137 00:05:26,342 --> 00:05:27,553 with a real gift for her, right? 138 00:05:27,577 --> 00:05:30,556 Of course he is. His one and only mother is turning 70. 139 00:05:30,580 --> 00:05:32,157 Okay. I've got to write M-Sec's remarks 140 00:05:32,181 --> 00:05:35,828 for the signing in Kabul. I'm only one man. 141 00:05:35,852 --> 00:05:39,832 Remarks for Kabul, useless unappreciated gift for Mom... 142 00:05:39,856 --> 00:05:40,999 see what I'm saying? 143 00:05:41,023 --> 00:05:42,401 Well, maybe don't go with something so useless. 144 00:05:42,425 --> 00:05:44,203 Or maybe just wait for another birthday. 145 00:05:44,227 --> 00:05:45,604 I mean, she's probably gonna live forever, right? 146 00:05:45,628 --> 00:05:47,439 Damn it. Okay, I-I'll get the work done, 147 00:05:47,463 --> 00:05:48,807 and then I'll pick up a gift at the airport. 148 00:05:48,831 --> 00:05:50,175 - Hey... - Oh, yeah. 149 00:05:50,199 --> 00:05:51,677 'Cause nothing screams "thank you for giving me life" 150 00:05:51,701 --> 00:05:53,078 like something from the airport. 151 00:05:53,102 --> 00:05:54,813 Jewelry! 152 00:05:54,837 --> 00:05:57,082 They sell jewelry at the airport. 153 00:05:57,106 --> 00:06:01,487 Wow... how did this happen? 154 00:06:01,511 --> 00:06:04,623 Ah! You did this, didn't you? 155 00:06:04,647 --> 00:06:06,391 No. It's not my job anymore. 156 00:06:06,415 --> 00:06:08,360 This is Secretary of Defense Becker 157 00:06:08,384 --> 00:06:10,763 putting out a big spread as a power move. 158 00:06:10,787 --> 00:06:12,631 Good luck with that. He's on our turf. 159 00:06:12,655 --> 00:06:15,200 Yeah, our turf, but now we're all gonna talk 160 00:06:15,224 --> 00:06:18,036 - about the food and who supplied it. - Genius. 161 00:06:18,060 --> 00:06:20,639 Yeah. It's gonna leave a pretty big mess to clean up. 162 00:06:20,663 --> 00:06:23,208 I'll manage. So, wait, you were a part 163 00:06:23,232 --> 00:06:25,144 of this Afghan deal from the beginning, right? 164 00:06:25,168 --> 00:06:28,447 Is it weird not to be going on this trip? 165 00:06:28,471 --> 00:06:30,182 No. I mean, policy keeps me pretty busy. 166 00:06:30,206 --> 00:06:31,750 Not too busy to remember to ask you 167 00:06:31,774 --> 00:06:35,621 if you set up a lunch date in Kabul for the secretary 168 00:06:35,645 --> 00:06:37,256 and Amina Salah. 169 00:06:37,280 --> 00:06:41,326 Amina Salah... the former Afghan minister of education, 170 00:06:41,350 --> 00:06:43,028 who lost her job in the peace deal 171 00:06:43,052 --> 00:06:44,596 that Secretary McCord championed? 172 00:06:44,620 --> 00:06:46,165 Yeah. Lunch is confirmed for Tuesday. 173 00:06:46,189 --> 00:06:47,800 - Okay, now you're just showing off. - Yep. 174 00:06:47,824 --> 00:06:50,068 Okay, everyone. Fill your plates and find your seats. 175 00:06:50,092 --> 00:06:53,238 And we can thank Secretary Becker when he arrives 176 00:06:53,262 --> 00:06:55,040 for this generous spread. 177 00:06:55,064 --> 00:06:57,009 I-I... Gordon, I hear you. 178 00:06:57,033 --> 00:06:58,544 But there's been relative peace 179 00:06:58,568 --> 00:07:00,245 in Afghanistan for over a year, 180 00:07:00,269 --> 00:07:03,081 and contrary to our biggest concerns, 181 00:07:03,105 --> 00:07:05,250 Taliban has not taken over the government. 182 00:07:05,274 --> 00:07:06,351 Then you haven't heard me. 183 00:07:06,375 --> 00:07:07,619 'Cause the hardliners are already pushing back 184 00:07:07,643 --> 00:07:09,354 on the conditions we put on 'em 185 00:07:09,378 --> 00:07:12,624 - to receive the aid package. - They're not gonna leave $10 billion 186 00:07:12,648 --> 00:07:14,326 sitting on the table. 187 00:07:14,350 --> 00:07:15,861 This is last-minute posturing. 188 00:07:15,885 --> 00:07:17,963 Look, I can admit, the deal's turned out 189 00:07:17,987 --> 00:07:19,097 better than I expected, 190 00:07:19,121 --> 00:07:21,333 - but it's a fragile peace. - I know. 191 00:07:21,357 --> 00:07:22,334 We've lost some good people 192 00:07:22,358 --> 00:07:24,036 to green-on-blue attacks. 193 00:07:24,060 --> 00:07:26,438 Well, we've lost far fewer soldiers 194 00:07:26,462 --> 00:07:27,873 than an all-out military attack 195 00:07:27,897 --> 00:07:29,508 - would have cost us. - I-I know that. 196 00:07:29,532 --> 00:07:31,577 I-I understand the benefits, Elizabeth. 197 00:07:31,601 --> 00:07:33,378 Believe me, I'm on the side of the deal. 198 00:07:33,402 --> 00:07:35,081 Nobody wants the troops home more than I do. 199 00:07:35,082 --> 00:07:35,963 I know. 200 00:07:35,964 --> 00:07:38,517 It's just my job to anticipate the problems. 201 00:07:38,541 --> 00:07:41,019 And you're very good at it. 202 00:07:41,043 --> 00:07:42,354 Hoping that this briefing 203 00:07:42,378 --> 00:07:44,012 maybe puts some of your concerns to rest. 204 00:07:45,014 --> 00:07:48,994 Wow. Where'd this come from? 205 00:07:49,018 --> 00:07:51,052 People got to eat. 206 00:07:53,556 --> 00:07:56,435 There's so many pretty colors. 207 00:07:56,459 --> 00:07:58,537 I agree. 208 00:07:58,561 --> 00:08:01,356 - It was hard to choose which ones. - Hmm. 209 00:08:01,380 --> 00:08:03,976 I love crafts, I just never seem to have the time. 210 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:05,477 Me, too. 211 00:08:05,501 --> 00:08:07,679 I was in the hospital for four months, 212 00:08:07,703 --> 00:08:10,816 - so I had time to sew this. - Uh, well, not sew. 213 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,718 That's, um, that's with a needle. 214 00:08:12,742 --> 00:08:16,989 Uh... you, um, you braided them. 215 00:08:17,013 --> 00:08:19,124 Uh... yes. Braided. 216 00:08:19,148 --> 00:08:22,494 Well, whatever you did, they're amazing. 217 00:08:22,518 --> 00:08:23,798 And your heart's all better now? 218 00:08:26,923 --> 00:08:28,100 All better. 219 00:08:28,124 --> 00:08:31,069 Ah. Yes. All better. 220 00:08:31,093 --> 00:08:33,138 Mm-hmm. Farhana will be able to lead 221 00:08:33,162 --> 00:08:34,439 a normal life. 222 00:08:34,463 --> 00:08:36,208 I'm s... I'm... I'm her chaperone. 223 00:08:36,232 --> 00:08:37,743 I'm with an organization called Heart Train. 224 00:08:37,767 --> 00:08:39,311 - Oh, I know Heart Train. - Do you? 225 00:08:39,335 --> 00:08:40,979 Yeah, you guys do amazing work 226 00:08:41,003 --> 00:08:42,114 bringing children to the U.S. 227 00:08:42,138 --> 00:08:43,649 for cardiology procedures. 228 00:08:43,673 --> 00:08:46,184 - Mm-hmm. - Uh, actually, I gave you 229 00:08:46,208 --> 00:08:47,252 a shout-out last year, 230 00:08:47,276 --> 00:08:48,587 in one of the secretary's speeches. 231 00:08:48,611 --> 00:08:50,856 - That's on our website. - Really? 232 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:51,890 - Yes. - Ah. 233 00:08:51,914 --> 00:08:53,492 We... Really, that meant so much to us 234 00:08:53,516 --> 00:08:54,493 to have the Secretary of State 235 00:08:54,517 --> 00:08:55,494 highlight our work. 236 00:08:55,518 --> 00:08:57,062 Good. 237 00:08:57,086 --> 00:08:58,397 - I... - Highlight? 238 00:08:58,421 --> 00:09:01,600 - Oh, um... - It's like, um... 239 00:09:01,624 --> 00:09:04,069 when you shine a light on something, 240 00:09:04,093 --> 00:09:05,237 to see it. 241 00:09:05,261 --> 00:09:08,407 Except you... we use words. 242 00:09:08,431 --> 00:09:11,076 Oh, I say "we" because, um, 243 00:09:11,100 --> 00:09:13,145 I write all the secretary's speeches. 244 00:09:13,169 --> 00:09:16,949 So many ways to say one thing. 245 00:09:16,973 --> 00:09:19,785 I'm very happy I got to come here for my heart. 246 00:09:19,809 --> 00:09:23,288 But I find the United States too much. 247 00:09:23,312 --> 00:09:25,424 And I miss my family. 248 00:09:25,448 --> 00:09:26,425 Well, you're going back 249 00:09:26,449 --> 00:09:29,061 to Afghanistan healthy. 250 00:09:29,085 --> 00:09:31,586 And you've learned a new language. 251 00:09:32,588 --> 00:09:35,534 I'm afraid I will forget. 252 00:09:35,558 --> 00:09:38,003 No one in my village talks English. 253 00:09:38,027 --> 00:09:39,538 But I can't wait to be home. 254 00:09:39,562 --> 00:09:41,373 And have my mother make her piti. 255 00:09:41,397 --> 00:09:44,076 The bean soup? 256 00:09:44,100 --> 00:09:45,610 I love piti. 257 00:09:45,634 --> 00:09:47,769 My Ade makes the best. 258 00:09:49,772 --> 00:09:52,250 Um... excuse me. Sir? Hi. 259 00:09:52,274 --> 00:09:54,040 - Hi. Hi. - Hi. 260 00:09:54,518 --> 00:09:56,788 I was wondering if you could open this window shade. 261 00:09:56,812 --> 00:09:58,724 Um, I need some natural light for my selfie 262 00:09:58,748 --> 00:10:00,192 or my skin looks blah. 263 00:10:00,216 --> 00:10:02,083 Okay. 264 00:10:04,887 --> 00:10:08,066 Yeah? Okay. 265 00:10:08,090 --> 00:10:10,024 Kids these days. 266 00:10:12,928 --> 00:10:15,073 Oh, oh, n... don't worry about it, 267 00:10:15,097 --> 00:10:16,108 don't worry about it, it's just, uh, 268 00:10:16,132 --> 00:10:18,377 a little turbulence. 269 00:10:18,401 --> 00:10:21,013 I hate turbulence, too. 270 00:10:21,037 --> 00:10:23,671 This is only the second time I fly. 271 00:10:25,574 --> 00:10:29,310 Well, I promise you, you'll be fine. 272 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:39,097 - Well... - That's perfect. 273 00:10:39,121 --> 00:10:40,165 I'm sorry. 274 00:10:40,189 --> 00:10:42,034 Uh, it was lovely meeting you both. 275 00:10:42,058 --> 00:10:44,469 And I-I really do, uh, 276 00:10:44,493 --> 00:10:46,705 appreciate the work your organization does, Leslie. 277 00:10:46,729 --> 00:10:48,840 - Oh, thank you so much. - Yeah. Come visit us sometime. 278 00:10:48,864 --> 00:10:50,108 All right. 279 00:10:50,132 --> 00:10:54,079 I wish you good health and a delicious piti. 280 00:10:54,103 --> 00:10:57,382 Mr. Mahoney. 281 00:10:57,406 --> 00:10:58,884 I want to give you this. 282 00:10:58,908 --> 00:11:00,719 To remember me. 283 00:11:00,743 --> 00:11:02,254 You can put it on your backpack 284 00:11:02,278 --> 00:11:04,089 or give it to your wife. 285 00:11:04,113 --> 00:11:06,725 Wow. Really? 286 00:11:06,749 --> 00:11:09,528 This is... This is great. 287 00:11:09,552 --> 00:11:10,529 I-I'm not married, 288 00:11:10,553 --> 00:11:11,797 but my girlfriend will love it. 289 00:11:11,821 --> 00:11:14,232 Thank you. I mean... 290 00:11:16,058 --> 00:11:17,836 You guys, the line's moving. 291 00:11:17,860 --> 00:11:20,328 Oh, please go ahead. 292 00:11:30,539 --> 00:11:32,851 This timetable for the rebuilding of schools 293 00:11:32,875 --> 00:11:34,019 is impossible. 294 00:11:34,043 --> 00:11:36,288 Well, Mr. President, you have lamented 295 00:11:36,312 --> 00:11:39,524 on more than one occasion that the destruction 296 00:11:39,548 --> 00:11:42,461 of the schools has been crippling 297 00:11:42,485 --> 00:11:46,264 to your next generation and future economy. 298 00:11:46,288 --> 00:11:47,566 That is true. 299 00:11:47,590 --> 00:11:50,502 If we could get a sense of how many schools 300 00:11:50,526 --> 00:11:53,672 we're talking about, that would be helpful. 301 00:11:53,696 --> 00:11:54,840 That could be quite a... 302 00:11:54,864 --> 00:11:56,708 Matt Mahoney! Matt Mahoney! 303 00:11:56,732 --> 00:11:59,144 I know him! Please! 304 00:11:59,168 --> 00:12:01,012 Please, please, Matt Mahoney! 305 00:12:01,036 --> 00:12:02,247 I know him. Authorized personnel only. 306 00:12:02,271 --> 00:12:03,682 - Please. Please. - Move away from the gate. 307 00:12:03,706 --> 00:12:06,407 - Matt Mahoney! - Farhana? 308 00:12:08,502 --> 00:12:10,502 Let me in! They will kill me! Help me! 309 00:12:12,148 --> 00:12:13,859 Are you okay? 310 00:12:13,883 --> 00:12:15,227 - Ma'am, stop. - Please, help me 311 00:12:15,251 --> 00:12:17,129 You have to move away from the gate. Farhana! Farhana! 312 00:12:17,153 --> 00:12:18,530 You need to move away from the gate. 313 00:12:18,554 --> 00:12:20,054 Slow down, what's happening? 314 00:12:20,316 --> 00:12:21,416 They will kill me! 315 00:12:21,957 --> 00:12:23,468 Okay, open the gate. Under whose authority? 316 00:12:23,492 --> 00:12:25,270 Secretary of State. Do it now! Come on. 317 00:12:25,294 --> 00:12:28,039 Come on, come on, come on, come on. Hurry up. 318 00:12:28,063 --> 00:12:29,875 Stop! This is United States property. 319 00:12:29,899 --> 00:12:31,877 Move away, or we'll call the police. 320 00:12:31,901 --> 00:12:33,678 I don't know what you're saying! 321 00:12:33,702 --> 00:12:35,247 Who are those guys? What's going on? 322 00:12:35,271 --> 00:12:39,050 They're going to kill me because of you. 323 00:12:39,074 --> 00:12:41,419 Farhana! 324 00:12:43,241 --> 00:12:48,979 Subtitle sync and corrections by awaqeded for www.addic7ed.com. 325 00:12:49,854 --> 00:12:52,450 So we're talking about an honor killing? You're sure? 326 00:12:52,451 --> 00:12:53,762 Yes. That's what she says. 327 00:12:53,786 --> 00:12:56,450 And I saw her family, uh, three men, 328 00:12:56,451 --> 00:12:57,728 they tried to grab her. 329 00:12:57,752 --> 00:13:00,031 I mean, we had to let her in. 330 00:13:00,055 --> 00:13:03,201 Oh, my God, I can't believe this... it's all because of me. 331 00:13:03,225 --> 00:13:04,902 Just because you talked to her on a plane? 332 00:13:04,926 --> 00:13:07,905 Yes. I mean, no. Th-They made it look like more, but it wasn't. 333 00:13:07,929 --> 00:13:09,373 Apparently there was an American 334 00:13:09,397 --> 00:13:12,543 teenage girl sitting behind them coming to visit her FSO dad, 335 00:13:12,567 --> 00:13:14,679 and she made a video of them chatting 336 00:13:14,703 --> 00:13:15,947 and turned it into a romance. 337 00:13:15,971 --> 00:13:17,582 It's all shot between our two seats. 338 00:13:17,606 --> 00:13:19,884 Sh-Sh-She called it "Between the Seats," 339 00:13:19,908 --> 00:13:22,887 and edited and narrated it into this total lie. 340 00:13:22,911 --> 00:13:25,690 Maybe Cupid and his arrow, like, totally exist, 341 00:13:25,714 --> 00:13:28,092 or maybe it was Saturn being in Capricorn 342 00:13:28,116 --> 00:13:31,028 that brought these two strangers on a plane together. 343 00:13:31,052 --> 00:13:32,163 Whatever. 344 00:13:32,187 --> 00:13:33,264 It didn't take long 345 00:13:33,288 --> 00:13:35,233 for him to get the hot Muslim girl 346 00:13:35,257 --> 00:13:38,870 to drop her guard and dig his vibe and let him 347 00:13:38,894 --> 00:13:40,238 buy her a drink. 348 00:13:40,262 --> 00:13:41,405 It was a club soda! 349 00:13:41,429 --> 00:13:43,174 I-I-I held it while she changed her shawl. 350 00:13:43,198 --> 00:13:46,177 ...that make love bloom, and this dude knew all the tricks. 351 00:13:46,201 --> 00:13:47,578 I opened that for Leslie, her chaperone! 352 00:13:47,602 --> 00:13:48,579 Matt, calm down. 353 00:13:48,603 --> 00:13:50,848 And then it happened. 354 00:13:50,872 --> 00:13:53,251 Aw. Is it the beginning? 355 00:13:53,275 --> 00:13:56,287 Or just, like, a thing on a plane? 356 00:13:56,311 --> 00:13:58,089 Can love that starts in the clouds last? 357 00:13:58,113 --> 00:14:00,358 We may never know, but wait... 358 00:14:00,382 --> 00:14:02,727 - I'm not married. - Well... 359 00:14:02,751 --> 00:14:05,696 not much of a proposal, dude, 360 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:06,998 but good luck, lovers! 361 00:14:07,022 --> 00:14:08,132 I wasn't hitting on her. 362 00:14:08,156 --> 00:14:11,068 She told me to give the bracelet to my wife, 363 00:14:11,092 --> 00:14:12,303 and I was explaining right afterwards... 364 00:14:12,327 --> 00:14:13,471 I said my girlfriend... 365 00:14:13,495 --> 00:14:14,805 Sit down, just breathe. It was turbulence. 366 00:14:14,829 --> 00:14:16,040 That's why she touched me. She was scared. 367 00:14:16,064 --> 00:14:18,676 - She didn't mean to. - Thank you. 368 00:14:18,700 --> 00:14:20,478 I can't believe I opened my window shade 369 00:14:20,502 --> 00:14:22,346 for that social media fake video person. 370 00:14:22,370 --> 00:14:24,448 How did Farhana's family even see this? 371 00:14:24,472 --> 00:14:26,083 Facebook. There's an Afghan youth page 372 00:14:26,107 --> 00:14:27,485 that's very popular. 373 00:14:27,509 --> 00:14:29,453 The girl from the plane sent it to her friend 374 00:14:29,477 --> 00:14:30,888 in Kabul, who posted it right away. 375 00:14:30,912 --> 00:14:33,724 It had 5,000 hits before we even left the airport. 376 00:14:33,748 --> 00:14:35,993 This is a nightmare. Look, honor killing is against Afghan law. 377 00:14:36,017 --> 00:14:37,862 We can just report the threat to the police. 378 00:14:37,886 --> 00:14:39,163 That won't help. 379 00:14:39,187 --> 00:14:42,967 Farhana's from a very rural village called Asadabad. 380 00:14:42,991 --> 00:14:46,003 I mean, it is tribal and the hard-line Taliban, 381 00:14:46,027 --> 00:14:48,139 the Salafi jihadists, they are in charge there. 382 00:14:48,163 --> 00:14:50,107 All right, here's the problem. 383 00:14:50,131 --> 00:14:52,176 Farhana is 17 years old, that means she's a minor, 384 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:54,979 and we can't keep her unless she asks for asylum, 385 00:14:55,003 --> 00:14:56,247 which apparently she's refusing to do. 386 00:14:56,271 --> 00:14:58,082 She doesn't want to go to America. 387 00:14:58,106 --> 00:14:59,583 She wants to be with her family. 388 00:14:59,607 --> 00:15:03,254 I mean, she did until they decided to kill her. Oh, my God. 389 00:15:03,278 --> 00:15:05,323 Not to pile on, but there's another complicating factor. 390 00:15:05,347 --> 00:15:08,859 Farhana's uncle is the governor of Samangan Province 391 00:15:08,883 --> 00:15:10,695 and a good friend 392 00:15:10,719 --> 00:15:12,730 - of President Sharza. - That could be good, though. 393 00:15:12,754 --> 00:15:14,632 Maybe the uncle could get me in touch 394 00:15:14,656 --> 00:15:16,300 with Farhana's family. 395 00:15:16,324 --> 00:15:18,369 I could explain the whole thing to them. 396 00:15:18,393 --> 00:15:20,705 We could track down, uh, uh, 397 00:15:20,729 --> 00:15:22,506 the chaperone from Heart Train, Leslie, 398 00:15:22,530 --> 00:15:24,275 she could back up the story. 399 00:15:24,299 --> 00:15:25,609 I don't think they'd be receptive 400 00:15:25,633 --> 00:15:27,678 - to hearing from you right now. - We have to try. 401 00:15:27,702 --> 00:15:29,880 Okay, I have, uh, seen the video. 402 00:15:29,904 --> 00:15:31,615 - Ma'am... - No, don't worry, 403 00:15:31,639 --> 00:15:32,950 Matt, I know it's baloney, 404 00:15:32,974 --> 00:15:35,453 but I did move up my meeting with Amina. 405 00:15:35,477 --> 00:15:38,389 Just think we could probably use her perspective, 406 00:15:38,413 --> 00:15:40,257 and since we've already hit a few speed bumps 407 00:15:40,281 --> 00:15:41,959 with the Rebuild-Renew Agreement, 408 00:15:41,983 --> 00:15:43,494 I'm gonna need a private meeting 409 00:15:43,518 --> 00:15:47,031 with President Sharza ASAP just to avoid any negative impact 410 00:15:47,055 --> 00:15:48,699 that this could have on the negotiation, okay? 411 00:15:48,723 --> 00:15:50,735 I'm so sorry, ma'am. 412 00:15:50,759 --> 00:15:52,370 No, no, don't-don't beat yourself up. 413 00:15:52,394 --> 00:15:54,305 There's no way that you could have anticipated this. 414 00:15:54,329 --> 00:15:55,840 I should have. I know the culture. 415 00:15:55,864 --> 00:15:57,808 I know that there are cameras everywhere now. 416 00:15:57,832 --> 00:16:00,478 I'm-I'm a representative of the State Department. 417 00:16:00,502 --> 00:16:01,645 Matt. 418 00:16:01,669 --> 00:16:03,314 We'll do our best to remedy this. 419 00:16:03,338 --> 00:16:04,849 I was just saying that I-I... if I met with the parents, 420 00:16:04,873 --> 00:16:06,183 I could explain everything. 421 00:16:06,207 --> 00:16:07,518 Okay, I'm gonna run that by Amina, 422 00:16:07,542 --> 00:16:08,819 and we'll see what she thinks. 423 00:16:08,843 --> 00:16:11,622 Daisy, you do whatever you can to make sure 424 00:16:11,646 --> 00:16:12,990 this doesn't become a bigger story. 425 00:16:13,014 --> 00:16:14,125 - Thank you, guys. - Let's go. 426 00:16:14,149 --> 00:16:15,826 - Come on. - Yeah. 427 00:16:15,850 --> 00:16:17,895 Ma'am, uh, we're already 428 00:16:17,919 --> 00:16:19,230 coloring way outside the lines here. 429 00:16:19,254 --> 00:16:21,365 I don't know how long we can keep her. 430 00:16:21,389 --> 00:16:24,268 Well, we're gonna keep her until we can't. 431 00:16:24,292 --> 00:16:25,859 - Okay? - Yes, ma'am. 432 00:16:35,670 --> 00:16:36,881 - Hey, look who's here. - Hey. 433 00:16:36,905 --> 00:16:39,550 Yeah, I went out for a walk and... 434 00:16:39,574 --> 00:16:41,241 I guess this is where I ended up. 435 00:16:42,777 --> 00:16:45,689 Elizabeth's in Afghanistan, right? 436 00:16:45,713 --> 00:16:47,758 Yup. You want a beer? 437 00:16:47,782 --> 00:16:49,794 Oh, does the Pope wear a dress? 438 00:16:49,818 --> 00:16:51,128 I wanted to apologize 439 00:16:51,152 --> 00:16:53,364 for the other night. 440 00:16:53,388 --> 00:16:56,867 You guys are dealing with the whole religion issue, huh? 441 00:16:56,891 --> 00:16:58,436 Yeah, I guess. 442 00:16:58,460 --> 00:17:00,704 Out of nowhere. 443 00:17:00,728 --> 00:17:03,374 I mean, I've always been open to it. 444 00:17:03,398 --> 00:17:07,711 Thanks. Sophie's always been rigidly opposed. 445 00:17:07,735 --> 00:17:09,914 And we never 446 00:17:09,938 --> 00:17:12,983 talked about it much at all until last month 447 00:17:13,007 --> 00:17:15,586 when I looked into sending Annie to a private Catholic school, 448 00:17:15,610 --> 00:17:17,822 purely for the educational benefits, 449 00:17:17,846 --> 00:17:20,224 and Sophie completely freaked out. 450 00:17:20,248 --> 00:17:22,493 Accused me of wanting to cloister her away 451 00:17:22,517 --> 00:17:24,195 with antiquated religious ideas 452 00:17:24,219 --> 00:17:25,830 about the role of women in society, 453 00:17:25,854 --> 00:17:30,367 something, something, and its inherent poisonous patriarchy. 454 00:17:30,391 --> 00:17:32,703 You would've thought I wanted to boil her in oil. 455 00:17:33,895 --> 00:17:36,440 I had barely recovered from that, and now suddenly 456 00:17:36,464 --> 00:17:38,843 she's fine with saying grace at the family table. 457 00:17:38,867 --> 00:17:41,178 - What is that about? - Yeah. 458 00:17:42,203 --> 00:17:44,504 No, I'm, I'm asking. What is that about? 459 00:17:45,807 --> 00:17:48,819 Well, I can tell you what it's not about... religion. 460 00:17:48,843 --> 00:17:51,155 - Mm. - I mean, come on, 461 00:17:51,179 --> 00:17:52,590 is that the only thing you guys 462 00:17:52,614 --> 00:17:53,891 have been fighting about recently? 463 00:17:53,915 --> 00:17:56,927 Because the tension in the air seemed a little 464 00:17:56,951 --> 00:18:01,332 thick to be just an argument about saying grace. 465 00:18:01,356 --> 00:18:04,224 Yeah. We fight all the time. 466 00:18:05,326 --> 00:18:07,738 We always have. 467 00:18:07,762 --> 00:18:11,509 The thing is, the making up... 468 00:18:11,533 --> 00:18:13,644 used to be a lot more fun. 469 00:18:13,668 --> 00:18:15,346 Have you guys tried counseling? 470 00:18:15,370 --> 00:18:18,649 - No. - Why not? 471 00:18:18,673 --> 00:18:21,385 Well, it just feels like the beginning of the end. 472 00:18:21,409 --> 00:18:24,044 I mean, does it ever work? Elizabeth and I have done it. 473 00:18:26,047 --> 00:18:29,693 The soul mate unicorn couple, 474 00:18:29,717 --> 00:18:30,961 themselves? 475 00:18:30,985 --> 00:18:32,663 What is it Joseph Campbell says about marriage? 476 00:18:32,687 --> 00:18:34,899 It's not an adventure or a journey or a-an affair. 477 00:18:34,923 --> 00:18:36,066 It's an ordeal. 478 00:18:36,090 --> 00:18:38,636 Then we're on the right track. 479 00:18:38,660 --> 00:18:42,239 Seriously, when you're stuck, 480 00:18:42,263 --> 00:18:44,241 a third party's perspective can be helpful. 481 00:18:44,265 --> 00:18:47,044 But if they're qualified to do that, 482 00:18:47,068 --> 00:18:50,347 by which I mean not me and definitely not your sister. 483 00:18:50,371 --> 00:18:51,715 All right. 484 00:18:51,739 --> 00:18:55,219 If it worked for you guys, I guess it's worth a try. 485 00:18:55,243 --> 00:18:57,611 To saving the ordeal. 486 00:18:59,681 --> 00:19:01,225 Yes, I saw the video. 487 00:19:01,249 --> 00:19:03,627 Our government does everything it can to ban social media, 488 00:19:03,651 --> 00:19:06,830 but we both know repression only feeds innovation. 489 00:19:06,854 --> 00:19:11,569 This girl's family sends her for a life-saving operation 490 00:19:11,593 --> 00:19:13,637 in the United States. Now they want to kill her 491 00:19:13,661 --> 00:19:15,739 for talking to a man on the plane, 492 00:19:15,763 --> 00:19:18,609 in the presence of her chaperone. 493 00:19:18,633 --> 00:19:20,411 Even if the parents are ambivalent, 494 00:19:20,435 --> 00:19:22,479 they get pressure from the community. 495 00:19:22,503 --> 00:19:25,049 Honor killing is a marginalized custom, 496 00:19:25,073 --> 00:19:27,251 mostly found in the more rural provinces 497 00:19:27,275 --> 00:19:29,520 where it can't accurately be policed. 498 00:19:29,544 --> 00:19:31,155 Some of our research indicates 499 00:19:31,179 --> 00:19:33,891 there has actually been an uptick in the practice 500 00:19:33,915 --> 00:19:35,593 since you helped forge the deal 501 00:19:35,617 --> 00:19:37,728 with President Sharza's government and the Taliban. 502 00:19:37,752 --> 00:19:40,965 Well, that contradicts the information 503 00:19:40,989 --> 00:19:43,367 the State Department received. 504 00:19:43,391 --> 00:19:46,203 Honor killings are reported to be significantly down. 505 00:19:46,227 --> 00:19:47,738 It was a benchmark 506 00:19:47,762 --> 00:19:50,441 that the Afghan government had to meet 507 00:19:50,465 --> 00:19:52,309 in order to qualify for the aid package. 508 00:19:52,333 --> 00:19:54,078 The Rebuild-Renew Agreement. I am aware. 509 00:19:54,102 --> 00:19:55,579 How do you get your information? 510 00:19:55,603 --> 00:19:59,717 I work with an organization that tracks women's social issues. 511 00:19:59,741 --> 00:20:02,253 We have government contacts and NGOs 512 00:20:02,277 --> 00:20:05,122 on the ground who keep us informed. 513 00:20:05,146 --> 00:20:08,359 So you know that this agreement could be monumental 514 00:20:08,383 --> 00:20:09,916 for both our countries. 515 00:20:14,022 --> 00:20:17,935 Keeping Farhana at the embassy, 516 00:20:17,959 --> 00:20:20,771 I'm afraid that we are putting the deal in jeopardy. 517 00:20:20,795 --> 00:20:22,273 On the other hand, letting her go... 518 00:20:22,297 --> 00:20:24,308 Could cost her her life. 519 00:20:24,332 --> 00:20:26,043 Sorry to interrupt, ma'am, 520 00:20:26,067 --> 00:20:28,279 but President Sharza is asking to see you immediately. 521 00:20:28,303 --> 00:20:30,514 You can't just take one 522 00:20:30,538 --> 00:20:32,850 of my governor's nieces and lock her up in the embassy. 523 00:20:32,874 --> 00:20:34,218 This will not stand, Madam Secretary. 524 00:20:34,242 --> 00:20:36,820 First of all, we didn't take her. 525 00:20:36,844 --> 00:20:40,724 Farhana Radi came to us asking for protection 526 00:20:40,748 --> 00:20:42,126 from an honor killing, 527 00:20:42,150 --> 00:20:44,628 a practice that is outlawed in your country. 528 00:20:44,652 --> 00:20:47,698 Yes. It is easy to be disgusted by such a barbaric practice. 529 00:20:47,722 --> 00:20:51,035 We have made progress, but it's a strenuous process. 530 00:20:51,059 --> 00:20:53,971 I'm aware of that. But isn't, isn't this 531 00:20:53,995 --> 00:20:57,274 the perfect opportunity to take a strong stand? 532 00:20:57,298 --> 00:21:00,277 Hardly. I'm fighting day and night to hold together 533 00:21:00,301 --> 00:21:01,478 the deal you brokered 534 00:21:01,502 --> 00:21:04,615 having the Taliban as part of my government. 535 00:21:04,639 --> 00:21:06,450 Your actions with this girl put me 536 00:21:06,474 --> 00:21:08,652 and my government in a precarious position. 537 00:21:08,676 --> 00:21:10,087 And we are working on a solution. 538 00:21:10,111 --> 00:21:11,522 There is no time. 539 00:21:11,546 --> 00:21:13,957 The story of the U.S. Secretary of State 540 00:21:13,981 --> 00:21:16,093 allowing one of her staff to kidnap an Afghan girl 541 00:21:16,117 --> 00:21:17,361 and keep her in the embassy 542 00:21:17,385 --> 00:21:19,530 is all over the news. 543 00:21:19,554 --> 00:21:22,232 And until this catastrophe is resolved, 544 00:21:22,256 --> 00:21:25,169 consider the entire Rebuild-Renew Agreement on hold. 545 00:21:25,193 --> 00:21:29,740 Mr. President, I urge you to reconsider. 546 00:21:29,764 --> 00:21:31,809 This agreement is the solution 547 00:21:31,833 --> 00:21:34,712 to so many problems for both our countries. 548 00:21:34,736 --> 00:21:38,349 Not to mention you'd be walking away from $10 billion 549 00:21:38,373 --> 00:21:40,417 in economic aid. 550 00:21:40,441 --> 00:21:43,387 If you don't release the girl to her family, 551 00:21:43,411 --> 00:21:45,122 the Taliban will seize the moment 552 00:21:45,146 --> 00:21:46,990 and paint a picture of my government as weak. 553 00:21:47,014 --> 00:21:50,527 Then it will be only a matter of time before they take over. 554 00:21:50,551 --> 00:21:51,895 Then what will happen? 555 00:21:51,919 --> 00:21:54,565 We will end up once again mired in war and terrorism, 556 00:21:54,589 --> 00:21:56,790 and I cannot allow that. 557 00:22:01,912 --> 00:22:04,438 _ 558 00:22:04,768 --> 00:22:06,794 _ 559 00:22:06,818 --> 00:22:07,795 Amina was right. 560 00:22:07,819 --> 00:22:09,163 While Afghanistan has improved 561 00:22:09,187 --> 00:22:11,332 its numbers in terms of verified honor killings, 562 00:22:11,356 --> 00:22:13,568 the true numbers are underreported. 563 00:22:13,592 --> 00:22:15,002 I got in touch with some contacts 564 00:22:15,026 --> 00:22:18,206 on the ground there... NGOs and medical examiners... 565 00:22:18,230 --> 00:22:20,875 and the truth is, the Afghan government gathers 566 00:22:20,899 --> 00:22:23,244 its info from police departments and medical examiners. 567 00:22:23,268 --> 00:22:25,713 And, big surprise, these government employees 568 00:22:25,737 --> 00:22:27,682 aren't always pressured to be absolutely accurate 569 00:22:27,706 --> 00:22:29,550 about the cause of death for many young women. 570 00:22:29,574 --> 00:22:31,819 So, if you release Farhana and she were to die 571 00:22:31,843 --> 00:22:33,287 at the hands of her family, 572 00:22:33,311 --> 00:22:35,923 there's a good chance it'll be reported as something else. 573 00:22:35,947 --> 00:22:39,506 Right. Thank you, guys. 574 00:22:39,530 --> 00:22:41,346 - Sure thing, ma'am. - Yes, ma'am. 575 00:22:48,275 --> 00:22:51,775 Thank you for meeting with me, Mr. Radi. 576 00:22:56,501 --> 00:22:57,812 Thank you both. 577 00:22:57,836 --> 00:23:02,606 Um... I am incredibly grateful for the opportunity. 578 00:23:03,694 --> 00:23:04,794 Thank you both. 579 00:23:04,980 --> 00:23:07,770 I'm incredibly grateful for the opportunity. 580 00:23:11,650 --> 00:23:13,594 I speak for the Afghan government 581 00:23:13,618 --> 00:23:16,998 as well as for my brother when I say... 582 00:23:17,022 --> 00:23:18,566 this has gone far enough. 583 00:23:18,590 --> 00:23:21,068 My niece has to be returned 584 00:23:21,092 --> 00:23:22,770 to her father and family immediately. 585 00:23:22,794 --> 00:23:25,840 - Uh, if I may say something? - Please. 586 00:23:25,864 --> 00:23:29,110 As you know, I was once minister of education. 587 00:23:29,134 --> 00:23:30,778 I know this young man, Matthew Mahoney, 588 00:23:30,802 --> 00:23:33,481 quite well from my trips to United States 589 00:23:33,505 --> 00:23:36,551 and from his work here with Secretary McCord, 590 00:23:36,575 --> 00:23:39,120 and I can vouch for his character, 591 00:23:39,144 --> 00:23:41,122 as well as the fact that Farhana came 592 00:23:41,146 --> 00:23:44,825 to the United States Embassy out of fear for her life. 593 00:23:44,849 --> 00:23:47,361 And that is the only reason that she was allowed to enter. 594 00:23:47,385 --> 00:23:49,730 She is not being kept against her will. 595 00:23:52,536 --> 00:23:54,365 She is afraid to face her family... 596 00:23:56,067 --> 00:23:58,866 because of that video with her and this man! 597 00:23:59,898 --> 00:24:02,143 If you will allow Mr. Mahoney to explain, you will see 598 00:24:02,167 --> 00:24:04,111 how the truth has been manipulated. 599 00:24:04,135 --> 00:24:05,446 There's no need. 600 00:24:05,470 --> 00:24:09,150 We just want to take Farhana home to her mother, 601 00:24:09,174 --> 00:24:11,586 who's waited all these months to see her. 602 00:24:11,610 --> 00:24:14,388 She wants to nurse her daughter back to health. 603 00:24:14,412 --> 00:24:16,857 Her father is angry. 604 00:24:16,881 --> 00:24:19,360 Oh... 605 00:24:19,384 --> 00:24:22,353 But he would not hurt her. 606 00:24:23,822 --> 00:24:26,400 No one would. 607 00:24:26,424 --> 00:24:27,935 We just want to take her home. 608 00:24:27,959 --> 00:24:30,638 Yes, yes, I understand, but please 609 00:24:30,662 --> 00:24:33,731 take a moment to watch and listen. 610 00:24:37,302 --> 00:24:40,214 Now, the reason why the video is so confusing 611 00:24:40,238 --> 00:24:42,683 is because of what the narrator is saying. 612 00:24:42,707 --> 00:24:44,619 The girl who is taking the video. 613 00:24:44,643 --> 00:24:49,090 But what she is saying is not what is happening. 614 00:24:49,114 --> 00:24:51,158 The music makes it seem romantic, but it's not. 615 00:24:51,182 --> 00:24:53,160 They say it's the little things that make love bloom, 616 00:24:53,184 --> 00:24:54,228 and this dude knew all... 617 00:24:54,252 --> 00:24:56,787 When I turn the sound down... 618 00:24:58,456 --> 00:25:01,836 ...you can see it's just two people talking. 619 00:25:01,860 --> 00:25:04,472 Three people, actually, because Leslie, the chaperone, 620 00:25:04,496 --> 00:25:06,674 is just over here, 621 00:25:06,698 --> 00:25:08,465 out of sight. 622 00:25:13,705 --> 00:25:16,384 You explained it very well. You did a good job. 623 00:25:16,408 --> 00:25:18,719 I think I was talking too fast. I felt like I was rambling. 624 00:25:18,743 --> 00:25:21,378 I've never had to save anyone's life before. 625 00:25:22,981 --> 00:25:24,992 Listen. 626 00:25:25,016 --> 00:25:27,228 My brother is a very emotional man, 627 00:25:27,252 --> 00:25:28,796 but he's calmed down now. 628 00:25:28,820 --> 00:25:30,865 He's convinced by your explanation 629 00:25:30,889 --> 00:25:32,066 that nothing bad happened. 630 00:25:32,090 --> 00:25:33,534 - Really? - Yes. 631 00:25:33,558 --> 00:25:37,138 He only requests that you make a public statement about this, 632 00:25:37,162 --> 00:25:40,007 much as you did here, so that his family can 633 00:25:40,031 --> 00:25:41,676 defend her honor, 634 00:25:41,700 --> 00:25:43,611 and the community will be satisfied. 635 00:25:43,635 --> 00:25:44,812 That can be arranged. 636 00:25:44,836 --> 00:25:46,447 Matt can even record the statement, 637 00:25:46,471 --> 00:25:48,449 and it can be submitted to the same Facebook page 638 00:25:48,473 --> 00:25:50,318 which posted the video to begin with. 639 00:25:50,342 --> 00:25:54,889 And the Secretary of State must issue a statement 640 00:25:54,913 --> 00:25:56,157 to this effect as well. 641 00:25:56,181 --> 00:25:57,381 She would be happy to. 642 00:26:00,318 --> 00:26:02,052 This will satisfy my brother. 643 00:26:07,225 --> 00:26:09,370 Farhana. 644 00:26:09,394 --> 00:26:12,106 Great news. I spoke with your family. 645 00:26:12,130 --> 00:26:13,307 They understand what happened now. 646 00:26:13,331 --> 00:26:14,709 This is good. 647 00:26:14,733 --> 00:26:16,010 You're safe to go. 648 00:26:16,034 --> 00:26:18,245 Your father and uncle are coming to pick you up in an hour. 649 00:26:18,269 --> 00:26:20,748 They said your mom's really excited to see you. 650 00:26:20,772 --> 00:26:22,817 No. That's not possible. 651 00:26:22,841 --> 00:26:23,818 But it is. 652 00:26:23,842 --> 00:26:25,753 I was there. They believed me. 653 00:26:25,777 --> 00:26:27,110 Uh, it's gonna be okay. 654 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,298 That is my mother. 655 00:26:37,322 --> 00:26:39,567 Just now. 656 00:26:39,591 --> 00:26:42,670 She said, "Don't come home. 657 00:26:42,694 --> 00:26:44,695 They will kill you." 658 00:26:51,109 --> 00:26:53,993 A 17-year-old girl. I mean, it's excruciating 659 00:26:53,994 --> 00:26:57,139 to see her in terror of the people she loves. 660 00:26:57,163 --> 00:26:59,442 It's medieval. 661 00:26:59,466 --> 00:27:00,810 Well, not entirely. 662 00:27:00,834 --> 00:27:02,445 There's the Napoleonic Code, 663 00:27:02,469 --> 00:27:04,847 which allowed husbands to murder their unfaithful wives. 664 00:27:04,871 --> 00:27:09,385 That wasn't abolished in France until 1975. 665 00:27:09,409 --> 00:27:13,055 Modernization is a sluggish train. 666 00:27:13,079 --> 00:27:14,957 Yeah. To some cultures, it's the enemy. 667 00:27:14,981 --> 00:27:17,827 They see the rest of us as having sold our souls 668 00:27:17,851 --> 00:27:21,364 to technology and wanton creature comforts. 669 00:27:21,388 --> 00:27:24,000 Well... I have to figure out 670 00:27:24,024 --> 00:27:26,202 how to bolster the faction of this government 671 00:27:26,226 --> 00:27:29,038 that sees it as the key to moving forward. 672 00:27:29,062 --> 00:27:31,574 Otherwise, the Taliban is gonna take over 673 00:27:31,598 --> 00:27:34,644 and start exporting terrorism again 674 00:27:34,668 --> 00:27:36,612 with the U.S. as its main target. 675 00:27:36,636 --> 00:27:38,447 - Is that the doorbell? - Yeah. 676 00:27:38,471 --> 00:27:41,617 The belly dancers are here. 677 00:27:41,641 --> 00:27:44,620 All right, thanks for talking. I love you. 678 00:27:44,644 --> 00:27:46,679 Love you, too. Bye. 679 00:27:52,352 --> 00:27:54,530 Man, you were so right. 680 00:27:54,554 --> 00:27:56,232 Religion? 681 00:27:56,256 --> 00:27:59,235 Definitely not the problem. 682 00:27:59,259 --> 00:28:03,172 "He must increase, but I must decrease." 683 00:28:03,196 --> 00:28:05,308 I wear the bracelet, 684 00:28:05,332 --> 00:28:07,310 but the lesson of humility 685 00:28:07,334 --> 00:28:09,178 sometimes eludes me. 686 00:28:09,202 --> 00:28:10,346 Tell me about it. 687 00:28:10,370 --> 00:28:11,614 You're talking to a fighter pilot. 688 00:28:11,638 --> 00:28:16,252 There were days when I thought pretty highly of myself. 689 00:28:16,276 --> 00:28:18,854 Yeah. Well, when I'm working, 690 00:28:18,878 --> 00:28:21,924 I have to be confident and in charge. 691 00:28:21,948 --> 00:28:26,195 It seems I don't always successfully tone that down 692 00:28:26,219 --> 00:28:27,863 when I walk in my front door. 693 00:28:27,887 --> 00:28:29,265 Oh, yeah. 694 00:28:29,289 --> 00:28:30,600 Transition between professional life 695 00:28:30,624 --> 00:28:35,160 and home life can be... bumpy. 696 00:28:36,162 --> 00:28:37,873 Yeah. 697 00:28:37,897 --> 00:28:38,874 You know, 698 00:28:38,898 --> 00:28:40,610 the Romans, of all people, 699 00:28:40,634 --> 00:28:42,845 had a pretty good recipe for checking the ego. 700 00:28:42,869 --> 00:28:44,213 After military victories, 701 00:28:44,237 --> 00:28:46,549 they would parade generals through the streets in chariots 702 00:28:46,573 --> 00:28:47,917 with a slave standing behind them, 703 00:28:47,941 --> 00:28:49,552 holding a golden crown over their head, 704 00:28:49,576 --> 00:28:52,421 all the while whispering into the hero's ear, 705 00:28:52,445 --> 00:28:55,958 "Remember, you are mortal." 706 00:28:55,982 --> 00:28:59,695 Oh, that is good. 707 00:28:59,719 --> 00:29:02,688 I'll try to remember that for my next marriage. 708 00:29:04,324 --> 00:29:07,103 Yeah, turns out she's not interested in counseling. 709 00:29:07,127 --> 00:29:10,806 She's interested in getting me the hell out. 710 00:29:10,830 --> 00:29:13,776 Oh, God, I... I'm so sorry. 711 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,045 Well, maybe she just needs time. 712 00:29:16,069 --> 00:29:17,213 No. 713 00:29:17,237 --> 00:29:18,648 Listen, I-I get it. 714 00:29:18,672 --> 00:29:21,150 It's-it's the right course of action right now. 715 00:29:21,174 --> 00:29:22,418 We need to... 716 00:29:22,442 --> 00:29:25,921 need to get Annie out of the middle of all this. 717 00:29:25,945 --> 00:29:27,990 How's she doing? 718 00:29:28,014 --> 00:29:31,227 Well, she's not happy. 719 00:29:31,251 --> 00:29:33,629 But she knows she'll see me every day. 720 00:29:33,653 --> 00:29:35,364 I'm-I'm taking her to school in the morning. 721 00:29:35,388 --> 00:29:37,700 And by the time I left, 722 00:29:37,724 --> 00:29:40,703 Sophie and I were, were already being nicer to each other, 723 00:29:40,727 --> 00:29:44,140 just knowing there was even a temporary solution. 724 00:29:44,164 --> 00:29:46,676 By the way, uh, I'll only need a place to stay tonight. 725 00:29:46,700 --> 00:29:49,045 - I'll, I'll find a hotel tomorrow. - No. 726 00:29:49,069 --> 00:29:50,946 - You'll stay here as long as you need to. - But... 727 00:29:50,970 --> 00:29:53,015 Wow. 728 00:29:53,039 --> 00:29:55,685 - Shouldn't you run that by El jefe? - I'm channeling her. 729 00:29:55,709 --> 00:29:58,821 Trust me, if I let you check into a hotel, 730 00:29:58,845 --> 00:30:00,723 I'll be checking in right behind you. 731 00:30:00,747 --> 00:30:02,781 Thanks. 732 00:30:06,419 --> 00:30:10,900 Is there perhaps a room where she won't be able to find me? 733 00:30:12,926 --> 00:30:16,505 President Sharza put a clock on it. 734 00:30:16,529 --> 00:30:20,776 If we don't hand Farhana over to her family by midnight, 735 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:22,845 the agreement is off the table. 736 00:30:22,869 --> 00:30:24,413 The Taliban is flexing, 737 00:30:24,437 --> 00:30:26,382 and Sharza can't stand up to them. 738 00:30:26,406 --> 00:30:28,484 Well, he can't afford to. 739 00:30:28,508 --> 00:30:31,220 Public outcry will only embolden them 740 00:30:31,244 --> 00:30:34,623 to make a play for control of the government. 741 00:30:36,783 --> 00:30:40,796 Sharza says that Farhana will be safe with her family. 742 00:30:40,820 --> 00:30:43,232 He has her uncle's word. 743 00:30:43,256 --> 00:30:46,035 What's that worth? 744 00:30:46,059 --> 00:30:48,437 I have no idea. 745 00:30:48,461 --> 00:30:51,874 With all the publicity, there will be a lot of eyes 746 00:30:51,898 --> 00:30:53,642 on Farhana and the Radi family. 747 00:30:53,666 --> 00:30:55,778 They can't very well kill her when everyone's watching them. 748 00:30:55,802 --> 00:30:59,338 No, they'd have to wait at least a news cycle. 749 00:31:00,340 --> 00:31:03,319 How can I send her back to her family 750 00:31:03,343 --> 00:31:06,288 when her own mother says that they want to kill her? 751 00:31:06,312 --> 00:31:09,492 Madam Secretary, we need to get you and Mr. Whitman secured 752 00:31:09,516 --> 00:31:11,193 - in the embassy's bunker immediately. - What's going on? 753 00:31:11,217 --> 00:31:12,862 - What happened? What happened? - It's just a precaution. 754 00:31:12,886 --> 00:31:14,930 Well... 755 00:31:18,491 --> 00:31:20,770 What's going on? 756 00:31:20,794 --> 00:31:23,272 A mortar hit just outside the perimeter 757 00:31:23,296 --> 00:31:25,040 of the RSM base north of the city. 758 00:31:25,064 --> 00:31:27,510 Launched by Salafi jihadists. 759 00:31:27,534 --> 00:31:29,745 Three marines were badly injured. 760 00:31:29,769 --> 00:31:32,715 And it's all about the girl you're keeping in here. 761 00:31:32,739 --> 00:31:34,383 We're not keeping her. 762 00:31:34,407 --> 00:31:37,153 We're providing temporary sanctuary. 763 00:31:37,177 --> 00:31:39,088 Well, that sanctuary is not only jeopardizing 764 00:31:39,112 --> 00:31:41,190 our whole agreement with the Afghan government, 765 00:31:41,214 --> 00:31:43,192 it's about to get more of our troops killed. 766 00:31:43,216 --> 00:31:46,228 You can't save every woman in Afghanistan. 767 00:31:46,252 --> 00:31:47,128 I'm not trying to save every... 768 00:31:47,152 --> 00:31:48,497 This girl is a victim of her own culture. 769 00:31:48,521 --> 00:31:50,466 And that's not what we're here to address. 770 00:31:50,490 --> 00:31:54,370 And now the Afghan government has met all our criteria. 771 00:31:54,394 --> 00:31:56,739 We're steps away from getting out of this mess, 772 00:31:56,763 --> 00:32:00,075 and you want to throw it all away based on principle. 773 00:32:00,099 --> 00:32:02,344 We have a moral obligation to... 774 00:32:02,368 --> 00:32:03,579 Let me tell you. Let me tell you something. 775 00:32:03,603 --> 00:32:05,181 Let me tell you what I think this is really about. 776 00:32:05,205 --> 00:32:08,384 This is about you letting your judgment become clouded 777 00:32:08,408 --> 00:32:11,287 over the guilt you feel because of the concessions 778 00:32:11,311 --> 00:32:13,245 you made to get here. 779 00:32:15,515 --> 00:32:17,626 It was never a perfect deal. 780 00:32:17,650 --> 00:32:19,662 I said that from the beginning. 781 00:32:19,686 --> 00:32:22,164 But it was always a better alternative 782 00:32:22,188 --> 00:32:24,867 to an all-out ground war with the Taliban. 783 00:32:24,891 --> 00:32:26,135 And with that better alternative, 784 00:32:26,159 --> 00:32:28,237 you knew there'd be collateral damage 785 00:32:28,261 --> 00:32:29,438 to Afghan women. 786 00:32:29,462 --> 00:32:32,274 So, this girl now is a symbol? 787 00:32:32,298 --> 00:32:34,066 A gesture, an apology for you? 788 00:32:35,368 --> 00:32:37,146 American service people 789 00:32:37,170 --> 00:32:39,738 do not deserve to die for this girl. 790 00:32:42,375 --> 00:32:44,553 You need to turn her back over to her family. 791 00:32:44,577 --> 00:32:46,712 And let's get this agreement back on track. 792 00:32:47,714 --> 00:32:49,581 We need to get our troops home. 793 00:32:55,088 --> 00:32:56,755 I heard about the marines. 794 00:32:59,792 --> 00:33:02,504 We've reached the end of the road with Farhana. 795 00:33:02,528 --> 00:33:06,742 I... we can't put any more American lives at risk. 796 00:33:06,766 --> 00:33:08,644 Not to mention the deal we're here to make. 797 00:33:08,668 --> 00:33:10,212 I understand. 798 00:33:10,236 --> 00:33:11,847 No, the loss of this deal 799 00:33:11,871 --> 00:33:13,749 could topple the government and put my country 800 00:33:13,773 --> 00:33:16,418 squarely under the thumb of the Taliban. 801 00:33:16,442 --> 00:33:19,722 And then... who knows how many will be killed? 802 00:33:19,746 --> 00:33:21,190 At least, if Farhana wanted asylum, 803 00:33:21,214 --> 00:33:23,759 no one could accuse us of keeping her against her will. 804 00:33:23,783 --> 00:33:25,594 No, she still insists she doesn't want it, 805 00:33:25,618 --> 00:33:27,663 - this is her home. - Well, then, 806 00:33:27,687 --> 00:33:29,331 I can't justify this situation any longer. 807 00:33:29,355 --> 00:33:31,567 I... 808 00:33:31,591 --> 00:33:33,235 I'm out of moves. 809 00:33:33,259 --> 00:33:34,970 I mean, uh, I mean, anything you got, 810 00:33:34,994 --> 00:33:37,139 I'm open, I... 811 00:33:37,163 --> 00:33:39,008 That... 812 00:33:39,032 --> 00:33:41,543 keeps me from sending this girl to her death. 813 00:33:41,567 --> 00:33:43,402 All right. 814 00:33:45,738 --> 00:33:47,650 You may not like it. 815 00:33:47,674 --> 00:33:49,808 But you did say anything. 816 00:33:57,094 --> 00:34:00,285 Demonstrators in front of the U.S. Embassy in Kabul 817 00:34:00,286 --> 00:34:02,497 were dispersed by local police today 818 00:34:02,521 --> 00:34:04,166 in the aftermath of a mortar attack. 819 00:34:04,190 --> 00:34:05,434 Are you serious? 820 00:34:05,458 --> 00:34:07,102 The mortar was apparently... 821 00:34:07,126 --> 00:34:09,204 An arranged marriage? This is the, the best 822 00:34:09,228 --> 00:34:11,106 the United States of America can do? 823 00:34:11,130 --> 00:34:12,874 Well, it's the best the United States can do 824 00:34:12,898 --> 00:34:14,276 in Afghanistan. Matt, the guy's older 825 00:34:14,300 --> 00:34:16,311 and of higher status than Farhana's family. 826 00:34:16,335 --> 00:34:18,814 It's a big plus... He's 20 years older. He's got two small children. 827 00:34:18,838 --> 00:34:21,983 And what? Farhana's just supposed to be his slave now? 828 00:34:22,007 --> 00:34:25,220 You know? Stuck in his house, raising his kids? 829 00:34:25,244 --> 00:34:27,689 - She's 17 years old. - Unfortunately, 830 00:34:27,713 --> 00:34:30,992 Afghan law gives the age of consent as 16 for girls. 831 00:34:31,016 --> 00:34:33,762 - As does Alabama, Connecticut, Montana. - Yeah, the difference is, 832 00:34:33,786 --> 00:34:35,464 uh, girls from Alabama won't get murdered 833 00:34:35,488 --> 00:34:37,432 by their families if they refuse to get married. 834 00:34:37,456 --> 00:34:39,167 It's not so out of the norm here. 835 00:34:39,191 --> 00:34:41,670 57% of girls are married before they turn 19. 836 00:34:41,694 --> 00:34:43,472 You can't compare their customs to what we know. 837 00:34:43,496 --> 00:34:46,231 Don't you have a daughter?! Don't you have a daughter?! 838 00:34:49,168 --> 00:34:52,948 Look, 50 years ago, my mom left Pakistan, 839 00:34:52,972 --> 00:34:54,616 and one of the main reasons she chose to go 840 00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:58,120 was to avoid an arranged marriage. 841 00:34:58,144 --> 00:35:00,322 50 years ago. 842 00:35:00,346 --> 00:35:02,557 This is still happening. 843 00:35:04,316 --> 00:35:05,694 What do you think Farhana wants? 844 00:35:05,718 --> 00:35:07,362 - What she wants is to live, okay? - Yes. 845 00:35:07,386 --> 00:35:09,498 And be accepted by her family, and I'm sorry, 846 00:35:09,522 --> 00:35:11,266 - but this accomplishes both. - They can kill her anyway, 847 00:35:11,290 --> 00:35:12,567 and you know that. 848 00:35:12,591 --> 00:35:15,203 I mean, anything can happen when we leave. 849 00:35:15,227 --> 00:35:18,240 Where's the secretary? I want... I want to talk to her. 850 00:35:18,264 --> 00:35:19,608 Hey, Matt, it's over. 851 00:35:19,632 --> 00:35:20,909 M-Sec's in there with President Sharza right now 852 00:35:20,933 --> 00:35:22,344 trying to get this deal back on track. 853 00:35:22,368 --> 00:35:24,880 She's telling him that Farhana's gone back... 854 00:35:24,904 --> 00:35:26,803 Wait, wait, no, no. Far-Farhana's already gone? 855 00:35:26,827 --> 00:35:28,040 She just left. 856 00:35:31,610 --> 00:35:33,922 Farhana. Farhana. 857 00:35:35,781 --> 00:35:37,692 I'm sorry. 858 00:35:37,716 --> 00:35:39,661 I just... 859 00:35:39,685 --> 00:35:41,663 It is God's will. 860 00:35:41,687 --> 00:35:43,432 My parents say this is a good man, 861 00:35:43,456 --> 00:35:46,291 and... it could be a good life for me. 862 00:35:50,763 --> 00:35:52,007 I just wish... 863 00:35:52,031 --> 00:35:55,310 Farhana? Come, your family is arriving. 864 00:35:55,334 --> 00:35:57,368 Goodbye, Matt Mahoney. 865 00:36:36,850 --> 00:36:40,050 The wire transfer of the bride price was completed. 866 00:36:40,100 --> 00:36:42,100 Would you like to tell the groom? 867 00:36:42,125 --> 00:36:43,125 I will. 868 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:48,100 It was very generous of your organization to pay the groom fee for us. 869 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:53,000 We just want your daughter to be safe. 870 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:57,800 I gave you my word. 871 00:37:15,514 --> 00:37:18,994 You're smiling. 872 00:37:19,018 --> 00:37:20,862 I hope not ironically. 873 00:37:20,886 --> 00:37:23,965 I could genuinely use some good news right now. 874 00:37:23,989 --> 00:37:25,901 The Afghan government has agreed to shore up 875 00:37:25,925 --> 00:37:27,369 the Violence Against Women law 876 00:37:27,393 --> 00:37:29,804 and they have invited Amina Salah to be 877 00:37:29,828 --> 00:37:33,174 part of an independent watchdog group... 878 00:37:33,198 --> 00:37:34,809 to advise and inform them. 879 00:37:34,833 --> 00:37:36,834 Oh, good. 880 00:37:39,371 --> 00:37:41,439 An independent watchdog group. 881 00:37:42,741 --> 00:37:45,754 Just to make sure no one gets the mistaken notion 882 00:37:45,778 --> 00:37:47,756 that an intelligent, qualified woman 883 00:37:47,780 --> 00:37:49,224 is in their government. Again. 884 00:37:49,248 --> 00:37:51,026 Look who's being ironic. 885 00:37:51,050 --> 00:37:54,095 I feel like we take turns. 886 00:38:06,999 --> 00:38:09,878 We are here to announce that with the signing 887 00:38:09,902 --> 00:38:14,215 of the Afghan-United States Rebuild-Renew Agreement, 888 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:17,552 the United States will immediately begin 889 00:38:17,576 --> 00:38:19,177 troop withdrawal. 890 00:38:24,516 --> 00:38:26,528 Anybody home? 891 00:38:26,552 --> 00:38:28,019 In here. 892 00:38:29,822 --> 00:38:31,422 Surprise. 893 00:38:38,731 --> 00:38:40,241 Henry told me. 894 00:38:40,265 --> 00:38:41,799 How was Afghanistan? 895 00:38:44,069 --> 00:38:45,914 Harrowing. 896 00:38:45,938 --> 00:38:48,049 Speaking of... 897 00:38:48,073 --> 00:38:50,251 have you looked in the mirror lately? 898 00:38:50,275 --> 00:38:52,020 Oh, ho-ho-ho. 899 00:38:52,044 --> 00:38:54,155 If the name of the game is beat up on Will, 900 00:38:54,179 --> 00:38:56,581 - I'm way ahead of you. - I didn't mean it like that. 901 00:38:58,550 --> 00:39:00,651 Just worried about you. 902 00:39:01,654 --> 00:39:04,599 And disappointed in me. 903 00:39:04,623 --> 00:39:06,134 No. 904 00:39:06,158 --> 00:39:08,403 - No? - Come on. 905 00:39:08,427 --> 00:39:10,071 I'm... 906 00:39:10,095 --> 00:39:13,208 Just... talk to me. 907 00:39:13,232 --> 00:39:16,978 I'm not gonna... scold. 908 00:39:18,604 --> 00:39:20,949 What the hell did I know 909 00:39:20,973 --> 00:39:23,652 about how to be married? 910 00:39:23,676 --> 00:39:26,655 I was 13 when my role models died. 911 00:39:26,679 --> 00:39:29,257 It-it just... 912 00:39:29,281 --> 00:39:30,992 it just looked like 913 00:39:31,016 --> 00:39:33,395 you find someone who doesn't drive you crazy, 914 00:39:33,419 --> 00:39:35,430 and then you have dinner, 915 00:39:35,454 --> 00:39:39,334 talk about work, watch TV. 916 00:39:39,358 --> 00:39:42,137 Or you-you play Scrabble. 917 00:39:42,161 --> 00:39:44,929 Sometimes go on vacations. They... 918 00:39:45,931 --> 00:39:49,010 ...they made it look easy, 919 00:39:49,034 --> 00:39:51,212 I guess, and... 920 00:39:51,236 --> 00:39:54,616 the minute my marriage wasn't easy, 921 00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:58,119 I-I thought I was doing it wrong, or... 922 00:39:58,143 --> 00:40:00,488 she was. 923 00:40:00,512 --> 00:40:03,014 They fought plenty. 924 00:40:04,016 --> 00:40:05,427 - Uh-huh. - Sure. 925 00:40:05,451 --> 00:40:06,661 Come on. 926 00:40:06,685 --> 00:40:09,531 Mm, nothing serious. 927 00:40:09,555 --> 00:40:12,467 Who forgot to get the bread. 928 00:40:12,491 --> 00:40:15,203 Who left the lights on. 929 00:40:15,227 --> 00:40:18,406 Why are your parents visiting again? 930 00:40:18,430 --> 00:40:20,731 Will. 931 00:40:22,601 --> 00:40:25,947 You were younger, so you idealized them more. 932 00:40:25,971 --> 00:40:28,383 Or paid less attention. 933 00:40:28,407 --> 00:40:30,719 Well, you figured it out. 934 00:40:30,743 --> 00:40:31,886 Somehow. 935 00:40:31,910 --> 00:40:33,354 Henry and I 936 00:40:33,378 --> 00:40:35,356 often joke that we were fixed up 937 00:40:35,380 --> 00:40:38,293 by a couple of romantic idiots in their 20s. 938 00:40:38,317 --> 00:40:40,061 Happened to work. 939 00:40:40,085 --> 00:40:41,963 That's because you work at it. 940 00:40:41,987 --> 00:40:43,198 That, too. 941 00:40:43,222 --> 00:40:44,866 - Yeah. - Yeah. 942 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:50,105 I don't know, Will. 943 00:40:50,129 --> 00:40:51,573 Marriage is... 944 00:40:51,597 --> 00:40:54,075 a mystery. 945 00:40:54,099 --> 00:40:55,376 And a miracle... 946 00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:56,878 - And an ordeal. - That is 947 00:40:56,902 --> 00:40:59,748 - exactly what Henry says. - Right. 948 00:40:59,772 --> 00:41:02,974 - You guys did do some bonding. - We did, yeah. 949 00:41:03,976 --> 00:41:06,510 Listen, I'm sorry if I... 950 00:41:08,247 --> 00:41:10,225 ...parent you. 951 00:41:10,249 --> 00:41:12,761 It's not my job anymore, 952 00:41:12,785 --> 00:41:15,152 and I'm gonna let it go. 953 00:41:16,155 --> 00:41:17,599 Thank you. 954 00:41:17,623 --> 00:41:19,467 You're welcome. 955 00:41:20,893 --> 00:41:22,370 So, where is everybody? 956 00:41:22,394 --> 00:41:23,838 They all went to dinner. 957 00:41:23,862 --> 00:41:25,540 They said they'd bring you back 958 00:41:25,564 --> 00:41:27,108 some lasagna from Mark's. 959 00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:29,944 What are you getting? 960 00:41:29,968 --> 00:41:32,113 Um... 961 00:41:32,137 --> 00:41:34,372 I'm not hungry. 962 00:41:35,874 --> 00:41:37,318 I can't. I can't take it. 963 00:41:37,342 --> 00:41:39,888 I can't just stand here and watch you waste away. 964 00:41:39,912 --> 00:41:41,756 I'm gonna make eggs. You like eggs. 965 00:41:41,780 --> 00:41:43,458 You... you're doing it. 966 00:41:43,482 --> 00:41:46,361 With cheese, right? Oh. No, please. 967 00:41:46,385 --> 00:41:48,730 At-at least let me. 968 00:41:48,754 --> 00:41:50,832 Here, you... you shouldn't cook. 969 00:41:50,856 --> 00:41:52,300 Oh. 970 00:41:52,324 --> 00:41:53,601 Fine, you can help. 971 00:41:53,625 --> 00:41:55,737 Just don't get any shell in there. 972 00:41:55,761 --> 00:41:57,305 And that is not parental. 973 00:41:57,329 --> 00:41:59,574 It's just advice. 974 00:41:59,598 --> 00:42:02,033 Okay, I'm gonna back off now. 975 00:42:06,471 --> 00:42:08,449 Just happy to have you here. 976 00:42:08,473 --> 00:42:11,676 You can stay with us as long as you need to. 977 00:42:14,446 --> 00:42:15,980 Thanks. 978 00:42:20,419 --> 00:42:22,024 So, like, how long are we talking? Just... 979 00:42:22,048 --> 00:42:23,298 Shouldn't be more than a decade. 980 00:42:23,322 --> 00:42:25,166 - Stop. - Huh? 981 00:42:25,190 --> 00:42:27,168 Maybe just a few years. 982 00:42:27,192 --> 00:42:28,837 You've got so much room. 983 00:42:28,861 --> 00:42:30,461 I was thinking Sunday. 984 00:42:30,810 --> 00:42:36,910 Subtitle sync and corrections by awaqeded for www.addic7ed.com.